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Best friend of 7 years to maybe more?
My best friend is a boy and I am a girl. We are both 16. We have been best friends since our wee ages in the third grade. Everyone thinks that since we are best friends, we automatically love each other, I don't think that's the case. I mean, I love him but like a best friend. However, lately, I think I've been seeing.. more than friend actions from him. I started liking his best friend in a school function we both partake in. We text alot because we don't have any classes together and when we text we laugh and have a great time talking about God knows what, then I would bring up the boy and it would seem as if he lost his personality, he won't say "haha" anymore and he puts ".." after everything. So one day I told him I feel like there is something he wants to say but isn't and he said "It's not what you think" and I said "i know but what is it" and he said "there's nothing to say". What do you think that was all about?
Next we have our in person meets. We talk in school and when we do, we are always smiling. People walk by us oohing and ahhing all the time, it gets old. Next, I bring him in food for after school practices everyday. Everyone has a name for the crackers because they're his favorite and that's what I bring him. He also wears one of my silly bandz.
Then there is my family, he hung out at my house once and he was so calm and collected around my really annoying cousin. Both of his parents (not to sound conceited) love me. His mom will tell me to stay warm when it's cold out and that kinda stuff.
When I need help with homework, I always go to him and no matter what he will always help me.
He sings and I have been yearning to hear him sing for quite a while now but everytime I make a time for him to come over, he bails. Yet, he can sing at parties and to other people.
I am usually a very happy, bubbly person but on the off chance I am not, I will go to him with my problems, I'll tell him that my mom sometimes makes me want to punch something and after it's all over, I'll apologize for dumping all of my problems on him and he will say "don't apologize, I want to know what's getting you down."
Don't answer me and say "talk to him about it" because when I talk to him about what some annoying girl said to me, he will tell me to just not let it bother me, that all of the stuff is untrue about us.
That's all I can think of now. Do you think he likes me and wants to be more than friends?
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I think he likes you and would like to be more than friends, but knows better than to ask you out and risk such a long lasting friendship.
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