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What SHOULD i be feeling or doing?
So in high school i noticed a guy and he lived down the street from me, he never really talked to me but he would make jokes at time and was nice. One night in high school he incited me to go over to his house and i did but it was only for like thirty minutes then he dropped me off.Never saw him again. So he moved to AZ and joined the air force and got in touch with me and at this time i was graduating high school and he started talking to me, we got to the point where we where actually in a relationaship and we liked each ithervery much. So i kept putting off not seeing him everytime we made plans to visit but he still stayed with me and we wouls talk on the phone and e-mail,also my mom was very strict so there wasnt really a way to leave to visit him by myself. So it went all well and then his birthday came around and we went to Vegas, well he didnt talk to me for a week! So when he finally texted me he said sorry and i wasnt really mad just relieved and he could believe i was mad and he just seemed weird and a week later he broke up with me saying he cant be with a girl who still lives under her mother not in a mean way though he was kind about it. Well months passed by and i would look at his myspace and he would sooo happy! like he never mentioned anything abut us. So 6 months pass and then he sends a text saying "hey." and i'm really suprised and i start talking to him and it was only for two days then a few weeks later i decide to text him and he says he is actually happy i have texted him! So basically we both start talking again and he says he loves me so all is well and then what i expected happened! he stopped talking to me! and when he finally texted back he said his step-dad had a heart attack and he likes to deal with that studd alone. And then couple weeks later i leace him a messege about not caring about my feelings and he said sorry but that he is afraid of commitment and now we have stopeed talking for about 2 months now, i cant halp but to look at his facebook and myspace and he looks happy i know he is in the air force and has stuff to do but he seems to party it up as well and he cant even aknoledge me so what should i do? how should i fee? And what if he sends me a messege again, what do i do then? its so cinfusing should i forget all the sweet things he said to me and forget and move on?or should i say something. Or do i just like him because i like the idea of him? i like the way he talks about his family i kind of want to be a part of his life, and i like alot of things about him and i know i sound like a physco but its how i can explain. I just need advice i really am not a whiney person and idk whats happening to me.
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Okay It Not You Just Like The Idea Of Him you like him period. I mean iknow hes in airforce but have you ever heard of an long distant realtionship ? You guys obvilsly love each other and so what if your under your mom if its the rightpeson then he should care and iknow its kinda mean he waits long periods of time but a watched fone neevr rings! so occupy your time, hang out with friend and dont chase him...make him chase you? if he texts you then text him back but dont wait around for it love finds a way you dont have too !
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Tatianna
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It sounds to me like this guy is being honest with you, and you want something he can't give you.
He isn't the commitment sort. Especially if he's around your age, that's perfectly normal. As a military guy, he's got a lot of freedom and a lot of options, and unless you're really serious about a relationship in his situation it's just not worth the heartache of being tied down.
He likes you; that much is clear. Be friends with him until he's ready for something more. You can't force a relationship on him at this point. In the meantime, I'm sure there are plenty of sweet men out there for you to choose from!
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