|
| |
So theres this girl which i REALLY like. Shes one year older than me(if u think that matters) she hugs me sometimes, but shes a person who socializes with everyone and hugs many other boys, she has a boyfriend but i really dont care. She really likes my shoes( sea-foam colored all-stars, but my friends say i got it in the woman's section but who cares.) When i first wore them i said they're cute like me, and she laughs and i hear her say yeah! One of her best-friends used to like me and we are just friends now. I need help!! What should i do??
(link)
|
Honestly dude, I'm sorry. But you should stay away from her.
I know girls like these. And I feel like even if you were to get together or something she'd just end up hurting you in the long run.
I think you should ask yourself how much you like her, and if she's really worth all of it.
Err something.
Good luck though :)
|
His label is mostly a musical genius. He doens't really do sports and neither do I.
I will talk to him at youth group sometime or when i feel the time is right? I don't know what to do.
Thanks for helping!:)
Should i talk to him in a group or one on one?
(link)
|
Haha, well that's good. We musicians are very outgoing, if I do say so myself. :)
When the time is right, you'll know. Talk to him next time you go. Just start a conversation or something. Ask him what his middle name is or something random. Lol. Or give him a compliment of some sort!
Deeeeefinitely talk to him one on one.
Anytime :)
|
|
What is a easy way to kill yourself with no pain or anything (link)
|
Dude.. please... don't.
If you need to talk about anything, ask me privately about it. We can talk about it. I swear, I don't judge. Please, I really want to help. Even if you think "oh this person can't help she doesn't know wtf she's talking about she doesn't know my situation." Please tell me anyways, I want to help in the best way I can. Please. I'm always here.
|
Well, we are both in band but he is in wind ensemble and I'm in concert band. We are also in jazz band but we are in two different bands. He's in jazz ensemble 1 and I'm in jazz ensemble 2. I don't really know what his favorite music is but i know we both like the color red.
I've known him for about two years now.
I've liked him ever since last fall (link)
|
I see. Well I'm thinking you shouldn't talk to him in school yet, not until you talk to him at youth group first. So don't worry about the band thing or the music thing.
The reason why I'm thinking you shouldn't talk to him in school right away is because of how his girlfriend might react. Even if she doesn't see you talking to him, that doesn't mean she won't find out. Things get around fast.
Just talk to him at youth group. About what? I have no idea. Hmmm I'll brainstorm ideas while I wait for you to write back.
What do you like about him? What's his "label"? (jock, nerd, etc.) and what's yours?
|
|
His girlfriend doesn't go to church with him well, not yet. What if I start talking to him and he just ignores me? Then what do I do? I've tried to talk to him but it doesn't go the way that I planned it to go. How can I feel like he's right for me? I have all these weird feelings when I see him, look at him, think of him, or see his name anywhere! What does this mean???? (link)
|
Haha, that's good, that's good.
Seriously, don't worry about it. Admittedly, over thinking things is what I do. Aaaall the time, trust me. So I totally get what you're saying.
But let me ask you this:
Don't you think it would be better if you just tried talking to him? You KNOW that if you don't, you'll regret it later. And however it turns out, it'll get better in time.
If he DOES end up ignoring you, definitely wait it out. He'll come around. (But I highly doubt he will).
It means you have a huuuuge crush on a guy you think is absolutely, perfectly amazing(:
I know how that goes.. that's where I am right now. Problem for me is, yesterday I found out that he's known for about a week. So that's great.
OFF TOPIC. Anyways. I totally get how you feel, my guy goes to my church and youth group too.. except he's not part of the youth lol. SORRY I did it again.
OKAY here's what you do: you talk to him. What about? You tell me? Do you know what kind of music he likes or anything? Do you know if you have anything in common? Seriously, tell me, I'll be here all night. :)
Also, some questions for you:
1. How long have you known him?
2. How long have you liked him?
3. When did you first start thinking that it was more than just a little crush, and why?
Get back to me! I'd love to continue helping! :)
|
|
I'm a sophomore girl(15) and i'm falling in love with a senior boy(17). He had a girlfriend his first couple years of high school and then this past summer she dumped him. Right now he is dating a freshman that is clearly not his type. I really like him I see him in the halls and I have the same lunch and we got to church and youth group together. I also friend's with his younger sister. what should I do??? (link)
|
Not gonna lie here, he does have a girlfriend.
Buuuut don't let it stop you.
No, I'm not saying you should try to break them up or anything, 'cause that'd be bad.
Being friends with his little sister is definitely good. And you said you go to the same church/youth group? Does his girlfriend go as well?
I feel like that'd be a great time for you to try to talk to him even if it's about anything. (Only if she's not there. If his girlfriend goes, she'd definitely not want another girl talking to her man).
An important thing for you to remember is that if it's meant to be, it'll happen. (I'm sure you reaaaaally didn't want to hear that, but it's true). Trust that God knows what He's doing in this situation. And PRAY about it! Just tell Him you don't know what to do, and that you really seek His help. (if you're not that into the whole God thing then ignore that).
Bottom line, I'm one of those people who believe you shouldn't give up until he tells you to. That's the way I've always looked at these situations.
So about him having a girlfriend.. don't worry about it. Don't go too far or put too many moves on him, at least not yet.
If you're wondering if he's at all interested in you, do the clock test. I just read about this online last night and oohhh my gosh, it's so clever!
the Clock Test: Look over at him while he's not looking for about three to four seconds. Then, look from him to the clock (or really anything around the room), then glance back at him quickly. If you saw him look up at the clock, then he was definitely paying attention to you. (Isn't that crazy?)
I know this advice is sort of all over the place, and I'm sorry about that. But basically, just talk to him either at youth group or on Facebook. (The only reason I didn't mention church church is because I assume his family will be with him and that'll be weird. Unless it's not. Go for it if you want).
Just listen to your heart. And whoever else answers this question, because I'm not really sure where I was going with all of this, haha.
|
|
Would like to know how tell if a girl is attracted to you or interested in you. (link)
|
Hey.
In my case, when I like a guy (yes, I'm a female), it's obvious. I can't help it most of the time though. So this is just how I am when I like a guy.
When I like a guy, I look at him. A lot. Even if it's just a casual glance over my shoulder every once in a while. But I'd always find a way to.
When I like a guy, I find excuses to talk to him. Even if it's a really random question or something. I will find a reason to talk to him.
If she looks at you a lot or talks to you a lot, more than a normal girl who's a friend would, then there's probably something there.
Now, i could be totally wrong about that. I'm just speaking from experience.
Also, she'd laugh at a lot of things you said, even your cheesy jokes. Now, in my case, the guy I like right now is hilarious. He makes everyone laugh. But that's beside the point.
To sum all of this rambling up, here it is: If a girl likes you, she'll laugh at what you say. She'll get stars in her eyes when you look at each other. And she'll love talking to you, always.
Ughh this was bad. I know. But I really do hope it helped.. even if it only helped a little.
|
19/f
curethecollapse.tk
That is my website url, I need advice input. Yes I know the youtube and twitter link in the right hand doesnt work yet because I haven't made it. Is my website stupid? Serious feedback/harsh input give me all you got cause I want to succeed.
Website Goal: Make general public know about Cure the Collapse and make random people hand made cards to make/inspire their day to be better. (link)
|
I definitely don't think it's a bad idea. I think it'd be pretty sweet if I got a card like that that cheered me up after a day of life in Hell.
I feel like once a lot of people started hearing about it, they'd be interested. I would, anyways. So I can't guarantee a HUGE take-off, at least not right this SECOND anyways. But I'll definitely spread word around about it and try to help you get some more feedback (:
|
|
hi no one has helped me in the questions ive asked latly.what am i doing wrong? (link)
| |
If you're not trolling advicenators, then I'd say it's definitely because of your spelling. And lack of detail. Obviously.
|
Ahh sorry for forgetting the link the first time I asked. =/
Anyway! This girl I follow on Tumblr posted a video with a song in the background that I really like, what is it?
I tried asking her myself but she hasn't answered me. It looks like she hasn't been online for a few weeks. Thanks!
http://like-ships-inthe-night.tumblr.com/post/24650810925/pointless-video-with-green-hair-lalala (link)
| |
I'm sorry, I don't know what it is. sounds like something by the fray. but just type in the lyrics that you can make out on google and it should come up.
|
|
Yeah. I understand that part. But he didn't hook up with him. Bc his bestfriend just does it to him. But doesn't even suck his dick til it comes so idk. So you don't think this is considered cheating & I shouldn't be bothered by it? (link)
|
I really don't understand what you're telling me. If they didn't hook up, then nothing happened and he didn't cheat on you.
?
If he's not leaving you for his friend, then you shouldn't worry about it because nothing bad's going to happen.
..right?
|
|
I would hate it if it happened with another girl. I wouldn't stop crying if it was that way. & he told me. So I'm so glad he did. But if you were in this situation & your significant other did this, what would you do? (link)
| |
If my boyfriend hooked up with another guy and told me about it, I honestly wouldn't care THAT much. I mean if he told me about it, I'd consider that a lot better than if he didn't. It would bother me a little bit but then I'd think to myself: "well, he actually TOLD me about it..". And I mean it wouldn't really bother me, as long as I was the one he was with, and he didn't leave me for him. I know this probably wasn't the answer you were expecting/wanting, but it's my personal opinion. I hope I helped, and remember, I'm always here if you need anything else! =)
|
|
I love my voice, and I plan to be famous. I've always wanted to write a song, but I just don't know how. It seems easy, but it isn't for me. How do I write a song? (link)
| |
Let it come from the heart.
|
|
How do you write a song like how do you find tunes for singing like YOU personally. (link)
|
My friends always tell me they don't understand how I write songs, they think it's hard. It's really easy though.
But first things first.
You can't force yourself to write a song. It has to come naturally.
I've been writing songs since third grade, and from third grade to sixth, I tried too much/hard. And the things I wrote didn't apply to my own life.
Then in eighth grade I wrote about my boyfriend moving away.
TRUST ME. It's SO much easier to write a song that comes from life. It just sort of.. comes out of you.
The tune/melody... it helps if you play an instrument such as guitar or piano. I didn't at first, but I wanted to. So I taught myself how to play the piano. Then I got a guitar for dummies book. And I've found that knowing how to play those help A LOT with the melody/tune.
But even if you don't, you can still write.
So.
Just write down feelings from.. ehh... maybe a certain turning point that you've had in your life so far. If it's a sad or depressing time, try to make the song slower, to create a sadder feel to it. The opposite goes for a happier time: create a happy, upbeat song.
That's all I can think of right now, but let me know how it works out for you! :)
|
I am looking for a song to sing in the talent show. I am a low alto and my friends tell me that i sound better singing songs like viva la vida, firework, set fire to the rain. answr plz
(link)
|
I think you should try "Jar Of Hearts" by Christina Perri.
I hope I helped.
|
|
I have had a dream to sing my whole life and I think I'm pretty good. I was just wondering if anybody knew a way for me to get into the music business it will be a huge opportunity for me to express m music and myself to the whole world. Because at school I'm not that popular so yea!! :) thank you and please no mean comments. (link)
|
Hmm. Well I've been singing my whole life, and it's my dream to also become famous someday. And someone had just recently told me that I should actually start looking places.
(But before I continue, popularity has NOTHING to do with your future. This might not sound true right now, but TRUST ME, someday you'll realize this.. I did).
Anyways, what I can think of to do right now is possibly talk to a music/choir teacher at your school about it? I'm sure they'd love to help, and I'm sure they'd know what to say, as opposed to some fifteen year old with a dream on Advicenators :)
Let me know how it works out for you!
|
|
Why don't you consider it cheating? (link)
| |
Well, I mean, it IS. But don't you think you'd feel a lot worse if it was another girl? Also, how did you find out about it? Did he tell you or did someone else tell you? I think that if he told you, then it's a lot better than finding out from an outside source. But please, if you tell me more about your situation, I'd love to help you. Okay?
|
|
Is it considered cheating when you're in a relationship with someone & your boyfriend goes off and lets his bestfriend when they're hanging out (they're like brothers; so close) & he let's him make his dick hard & they mess around & give each other handjobs & blowjobs. & his bestfriend has a girlfriend too; just doesn't get to see her. They used to do this all this stuff before they both got girlfriends. (link)
| |
Well I don't really think it's considered "cheating" but it's not cool to do while their in relationships.
|
|
There's a close friend of mine named Miguel who i reeeeeeeaaaaaaalllyy like. I mean, he gives me butterflies, and makes my heart shiver. He is bisexual and has a boyfriend. He gives me immense mixed signals. WHat do i do? :( (link)
|
maybe just try talking to him about it? I don't see what else there is you would do.. I mean considering he has a boyfriend you can't really DO anything about it unless/until you talk to him about it and have him tell you himself if he feels the same way or not.
Obviously, you have to talk to him alone. So no one can hear.
|
|
So I'm a 19 year old college student. I live in my own and have a steady job and I have always dated older men but 25 has always been my cut off age.I recently met this guy that is 27 and we connect on a different level. I am starting to really develope feelings for him but im a little nervous about the age gap? would it be wrong for me to date him? (link)
|
If you feel that you "connect on a different level" and you're "really starting to develop feelings for him" then why should the age matter? If you guys like each other and you feel happy with him then why should the age make a difference? Don't you think what you feel dominates over a number?
Perhaps you should ask yourself why you're worried about this. If you're questioning it, there must be a reason behind it, maybe even subconsciously. Were you raised to believe big age differences were a problem in relationships?
Like I said. Just ask yourself why you're concerned. You might have an answer. :)
I really hope this helps and I hope you figure this out! Also I could be wrong about all this considering I'm fifteen and it's all just a matter of opinion for me. Regardless, good luck.
|
|
