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help me!
ok so, i met my boyfriend over the internet, but he lives so far away because he goes to boarding school. i trust him, but recently he's been actting distant and has been partying ALOT. ive told him how i feel but he just say its no big deal or whatever. i am completely confused; i know i dont want to break up with him. but its getting to the point where i think he's cheating. how do i know if hes been unfaithful? are there signs? help?
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Ok, if you're ever with him, like together, check out his phone. scroll through his contacts and see who's on there. if there are alot of girls ... that could be a bad sign. and you could also check out to see who he's texting, or his recent calls. but also, ask him about who he parties with, because if he goes alot, he could have cheated on you, but not intentionally, maybe just too drunk. the possibility is there. and since he's been acting distant its not a good sign it usually means that they have alot on their mind, or busy with other people and may even be contemplating on if he still likes you or not. his distant-ness may also be because he met someone else at a party, and is just trying to figure out what he wants. some other signs are how you feel. if you think he's cheating, or something inside you is telling you he's cheating, he might be. i believe in trusting your intuiton/gut, and it's usually right.
other signs:
-if he asks you to change your clothes or what you look like
-doesn't name who he was hanging out with if you ask him, usually just replies with .. "some people"
-he may accuse you of cheating on him because he feels guilty
-is constantly asking you "what's the matter" because he might think that you are on to him.
-if he doesn't pick up the phone when you are around [if a girl is calling]
-he doesn't call you alot anymore
-when you guys talk, he always gets mad at you.
hope i helped ! xxo good luck, tell me how it goes !
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