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online love/age for falling in love


Question Posted Friday January 9 2009, 4:36 pm

All I would like to know is, what is your opinion on finding love online? It could be an actual dating site or just random falling in love, didnt see it coming. Do you believe it can be true love if you have never even met or talked to the person besides online? Or do you think that there is no possible way?

One more question...
Do you believe you can fall in love at any age?

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shinobi answered Saturday January 10 2009, 3:04 am:
Yes and No all at the same time lol.

My best friend in the world found a girl online and talked forever. They were set up and fell in love via e-mail/myspace. They actually met and couldn't stand eachother.

On the flip side my other friend ended up texting and myspacing this girl and they were arguing all the time. Then they met in person and are currently going on their 2nd happy year.

The point is that when you write is only half the equation. You must meet the person and physicaly talk. That is always different. It can be love but you need to make sure. (Just make sure you meet in a very public place just to be safe)

Yes. Anyone can fall in love at any age. Im 16 years old and most deffinately in love and in an amazing relationship (officially engaged) with a girl who lives 2 hours away from me. Long distance can work. (if you're wondering why im engaged at 16 im going to college next year lol.)

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WittyUsernameHere answered Saturday January 10 2009, 1:25 am:
No, you cannot fall in love online.

Why? Because no one is completely real online. Almost anyone would at least try to hide their insecurities and issues online. You don't really know a person until you know them in person.

Theres more to knowing a person than listening to them talk about themselves.

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kristamikele answered Friday January 9 2009, 10:57 pm:
I think you can fall in love at any age, but there are different stages to love that come with maturity. I think it is possible to fall in true love if you have chatted with the person enough to get to know them on a really personal level. You can know a person you chat with regularly better than you know some of the people you see in "real life" because many times people feel more comfortable being themselves without the face to face pressure.

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tropicalbabe33 answered Friday January 9 2009, 7:18 pm:
With love, you can never say anything's impossible. I think (and I say this from experience) that truly loving someone when you've never actually met them is a lot less likely to happen than truly loving someone when you see them a lot, at their best and worst and interact with them face to face. However, I am not saying it's impossible and I do think that you can find love online. Several of my friends met their boyfriends/girlfriends online, however if they don't see each other much, it seems a lot less real.

I don't think you can truly know if you are in love with someone if you've never met them. I think you can know that you love them, from talking to them and finding that you care about them and understand each other, but you can't know exactly which type of love it is. For example, you can talk to someone online and really care about them, and even think you are in love with them. But then when you meet up with them, you might realise that there's no real chemistry or you simply don't feel attracted to them, and that you only love them as a friend. It's easy to think you love someone as more than a friend when you only speak to them online, because you know that you click and you care about them and you flirt and you understand each other, but you don't actually know if you have any chemistry till you meet up with them, so you assume that you are right for each other without knowing for sure.

I still think it is possible that you could fall in love without ever meeting the person, but I think it is best to meet them after a while so you know for sure.

I think I do believe you can fall in love at any age. I can't be exactly sure, but I'm 15 and I KNOW that I have been in love. Without a doubt, I know. I guess I can never know for sure, but yeah, I think you can fall in love at any age.

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duudee_advicer answered Friday January 9 2009, 7:03 pm:
People say you can't fall in love with someone you met online because you've never seen them. Have you ever heard of the famous quote, "Love is blind"?
Love is a mystery, so one person's opinion doesn't dictate the rules of love. It can happen any way.
Personally, I could easily become very interested in someone I met online, but love would develop more when I spent personal time with them and saw how they acted in real life. I'm pretty picky.

My brother met his girlfriend online. They dated for three years and he proposed a few weeks ago, they're set to be married soon.

Anything can happen.
Good luck
Kymmy :)

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itdependsonyoux3 answered Friday January 9 2009, 6:51 pm:
I don't think you can fall in love with a person you meet online because, in my opinion, you need to be with the person face to face to get to really know them, and fall in love. I believe in love at frst sight, but not love at first internet "site" yuh know? But there could be a way, although I am not a true believer.
I think you can fall in love anywhere from your early teen years until you die. I don't think you can fall in love at every age because when you are young, like ages 12 and under, people don't take love THAT seriously or they don't know what it means to be in love.
However, these are just my opinions. hope i helped ! xxo :]

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Breezyx answered Friday January 9 2009, 6:51 pm:
If I was you..I'd stay away from online chatrooms. You never know who you are actually chatting with. I don't think you can fall in love at any age; some ages are too immature. You should stop chatting with this person you like, and go find somoneone else! (not online)

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