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<3 MATT <3
Hi, I need some advice...so anyone PLEASE HELP!!I love this guy named Matt...he's so amazing... tonight I am going to write a email to him( if my friend finds it) I am going to tell him how I feel about him... my friend is his friend on my space...she says he likes girls who mean it when they say they love him.I absolutely do!! I don't know what I should do when I go back to school Monday... how I should act...I'll be happy that he reads it..(if he does) but..I'll be extra nervous. I am so shy around him... I can't EVEN talk to him... so someone help me out...also do you think he'll not read it even when I say to?? Please...I would like ANYONE to try to help... thanks to whoever try's to help..
- Mattlover
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talk to him dont be scare. Tell him how you feel
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I wouldn't do it in a email.
Talk to him face to face. Then he can tell you're really serious and that you like him. Words mean nothing when there written. If you speak to him and say how you really feel - you're more likley to sort of "interest him" because its all from the heart.
And though your friend said that he likes girls who love him. I wouldn't say that straight away. Boys can be scared off by that. I mean , if he doesn't like you, and you say you love him, things will be really awkard at school
Just tell him , you really like him and say why ( ie you make me laugh, they like it when girls find boys funny, the majority anyway )and you were hoping you could meet up . Get him on his own, and don't tell you mates what you're going to do ; things can get around and things just totally backfire.
Talk to him face to face. It's also a great learning experience so you're not nervous if you ever decide to date someone else!
Hope I Helped : )
Ps - If he doesnt really read emails, you won't know if he ever got it.
GO get matt !
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I wouldn't tell him that you love him in the email because the first time you say, "I love you," it should be face to face. I am pretty positive he will read your email, even if it's only out of curiosity, but he may not want to admit he read it if you put him on the spot in some way. Don't write something like, "hey, do you really like me?" because he may not want to answer the question, so he'll pretend he didn't read it. You should tell him that you really like him a lot and have some reasons to back it up. You can tell him you're attracted to him physically, but also talk about some of the things you like about his personality. Make an open-ended invitation like, "Maybe we should get together sometime," or "I think I really want to ask you out on a date, but then I'd be the one who would have to pay, huh?" Don't ask him for a specific date, like Saturday afternoon, because that goes back to putting him on the spot. When you go back to school on Monday, you shouldn't put too much emphasis on the letter, or bombard him with a whole bunch of your friends asking him what he thought, etc. Your friend said he likes girls who mean it when they say they love him, so it seems like he might be more on the mature side, like he isn't into a bunch of games and gossip. If you tell him you love him now, and you haven't ever really had an honest conversation with him it is going to turn him off.
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Yeah, I don't want to sound rude, but if you can't even talk to him in person, then just randomly sending him your love for him in an email would really freak him out. Do both yourselves a favor and take it slow. There's no need to rush anything here. I would suggest you start by TALKING to him casually first, and take it from there.
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I don't recommend you tell him you love him right away, especially in an email. Just let him know you're interested and let it go from there.
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