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teacher ordeals.. oh boy
I love my teacher and dont tell me i dont because i know better. You can feel love when you are as young as i am. I am 16 and he is 25. Everything i will ever need is him. He is single still living at home, but i dont care. My friend says she sees the way we look at each other and said that she can tell that we just click. She said we both get a little sparkle in our eye. I can honestly say what i feel, is real. It might not be full blown out love, but i am definitely bordering that. My friend wrote him a note and said "i know someone that likes you do you know who they are" and she says he looked at me, but i didnt want her to tell him and it make everything akward like. So she made me promise i will tell him on monday... I want to tell him though i dont want anyone else too, but im not so sure i should do it right now at this moment. she said i have more of a chance than what i think, which makes me wonder. I dont know what to do...
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If you really think you might, sometime in the nesar future, love this man, than I'm not going to tell you to not follow your heart. But I just want to warn you that you would be doing smething illegal if you and your teacher confessed to eachother that you like one another and become and "item" secret or not. I mean, you could jeapordize his job if someone found out that you told your teacher you like him and if he says something back, then he could get fired. You can tell him now, but if you do, you have to keep it very VERY quiet. However, if you wait until the school year is over, and then tell him, it'll take some of the stress and pressure off of the situation. And if you're not sure you should say anything to him right now, don't. It might be awkward if you tell him how you feel, because he might let you down, and if you get caught with him, saying that ... it probably won't be good. If I were you, I would wait a bit. I know you like him, but you have to think of the consequences and what could happen. are you willing to wreck your reputation and his if it comes down to that? But on the other hand, it could all work out in your favor. I'm sure your friend means well, but if shes MAKING you promise you'll do it, and you're uncertain, then she shouldn't be pressuring you like that. This isn't her dilemma, yuh know? But I can tell you aren't completly comfrotable with telling him right now, so wait until you are SURE that you are ready t share this information about how you feel wih your teacher. but 16 and 25 is a huge age difference, I know of another situation like this but the girl waited until she was out of school, and i college to get with her teacher. Just keep that in mind and as a possibility. But do what your heart tells you.
Hope i helped ! xxo :]
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