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What am I supposed to say?


Question Posted Friday January 9 2009, 8:15 pm

A guy who i have been talking to for the past week keeps on texting me. (even though idk what he looks like, much less what he likes or anything like that.) we've been talking and iv asked him the basic ques. and all what kinda music does he like?, Deos he play any sports or instruments?, his previous relationships. Now we have nuthing to talk about and i just don't know what to say.


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Additional info, added Friday January 9 2009, 8:50 pm:
can someone please tell me how to have a normal conversation or not have like an awkward silence? b/c when we do i feel like an idiot for some reason. I just need someone to tell me how to talk naturally without running out of things to say. PLEASE!!!
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itdependsonyoux3 answered Friday January 9 2009, 11:34 pm:
Ok, basically, you just go with the flow. lets say your conversation is something like this ...
you: hey
him: hey
you: what are you doing?
him: nothing, just chillen, you?
you: same...
[this is where the awkward pause would probably be] so you should say something like...
you: same, i have so much to do today.
something along those lines that will start a conversation. you can be as random as you want when there are awkward pauses. you could tell him something funny that happened to you. or something a teacher said to you, or something that happened at school. tell him about anything your excited for, what he likes to do on weekends, and maybe tell him that you guys should hang sometime or maybe something that reminded you of him. stuff like that, yuh know? he will probably relate to some stuff you say, so just be random :] it's not as awkward as it sounds, trust me. it gets easier, i promise. and guys usually like spontaneous statements :] keep that in mind haha. hope i helped ! xxo good luck.

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o0Yourmom0o answered Friday January 9 2009, 9:34 pm:
ask him what he did that day, or grades at school, or his family and your family. favorite movies, friends, family. etc.. :) hope i helped

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