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well i got into a fight with a friend of mine, something she did really hurt me, but it isnt something so horrible that i want to end the friendship over it, basically this would all be solved with an appology but im not sure how to go about this. its been two days and i havent talked to her since then, so should i need help on what to do, should i wait until she IMs/calls me and appoligizes or should i do something else? 18/m if that matters at all (link)
why wont you try just calling her and talking to her about this

tell her what ever she did it hurt you and you dont want to fight with her like this or end a friendship

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hey so i have this problem with two boys coby and kalvin. i really like coby and like kalvin. coby is going to a different highschool than me and kalvin is going to my same highschool but i am in love with coby. i dont know what to do. i cant tell kalvin the truth because coby is one of his good friends. kalvin and me are close as friends and me and coby are close all around. what do i do? please help i rate 5's all the way (link)
since Coby and Kalvin are good friends and you like both guys maybe it is best if the three of you just stayed really good friends

if you go out with one guy it might hurt the other or get awkward after that

if one of them do happen to ask you out and you still want to go out with them then go for it!

but right now i think you should just stay really good friends

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what are some good songs to let people know how muhc you love them and miss being with them. please help me! i really need some good songs to express how i feel. thanks much! (link)
Armin Van Buren - Sky Falls Down

Cascada - Everytime We Touch

Faith Hill - There You'll Be

Divine - Lately

Fabolous - Can't Let You Go

Fragma - Everytime You Need Me

Happy Hardcore - Fly On The Wings Of Love

Lil Corey - First Time

Mariah Carey - We Belong Together

Rod Stewert - Have I Told You Lately I Love You

DeeDee ft Ian Van Dahl - Forever

Sarina Paris - Look At Us Now

Story of The Year - Until The Day I Die

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I was wondering how you a burn a CD i dont believe i got any sort of program but can you burn it if yuo got windows mdeia player? (link)
yes you can burn cd's with windows media player if it supports it

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is it normal for teenage girls to masturbate? (link)
yea it is normal for teenage girls to masturbate

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Hey. Well, I went on you My Space and noticed thatyou had highlights in your hair. I was just wondering, I'm 13/f-African American-with really dark brown, thick hair, and I want to get my hair temporarily highlighted like light brown (Chestnut brown) at a salon. The problem is that my mom said this lady said the highlighting your hair will cut you hair. My mom doesn't know if she was talking about the home kit or at a salon. Does highlighting African American thick, really dark brown (close to black) hair at a salon cut your hair? (link)
to be honest with you i have no clue i dont want to give you the wrong answer but...

one girl at my school has dark brown hair shes African American as well and she got a chesnut color it looked really nice and it didnt not cut her hair but she didnt have thick hair

if you do go to the salon to get highlights just ask them and they will tell you

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Im looking for a really good straightener i can buy online, i have a credit card except my mom says i cant only spend up to like..70 bucks, my hair is wavy and im not sure what to get. so does anyone know of any straighteners that i could get online, that deliver withhin like 7-10 days, and that would be within 70 bucks (including shipping and handling)?? Thanks so much for neones help! (link)
try going here
http://www.americanprohaircare.com/ceramic_tools_irons.htm

scroll down to : 2-1/4" Ceramic Tools Hair Flat Iron #CTF1289

that is a similar starightening iron i use and it works really well

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EDIT FEEDBACK - I honestly dont know but it should be about a few business days to a week
your supposed to get an email when you place your order telling you approximately how long it will take to ship and you could get rush delivery as well ♥


Hi. Iam 15 and i have a lump on my boob. I just noticed it today.. I'm pretty sure it just appeared today. I don't know what it could be. I mean, girls my age don't usually get breast cancer. I know it's possible, but i guess it could also be beningn. My mom told me that she had a benign lump about 12 years ago. Hm, maybe it's that? I haven't told her about it, though.
Please help, what do you think it is? What should i do?
thanks (link)
you should just go to the doctor that way you will be sure what it is and you wont be getting any ideas in your head that might make you more worried

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when u first like start a my space and you put a email address in and all that.. well anyway if someone wants to add you as a friend and its all like they email the request. well is the request sent there? like to ur email..because i made a email up (link)
no it gets send to your myspace friend requests folder

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if i drink a big sip of water and then go outside in the heat for about 5 minutes and go back and drink another sip..is that a way to not get dehydrated and sick and dizzy and stuff? thanks (link)
carry a water bottle with you that would be easier then running back and forth every five minutes and a water bottle would help you more then a sip of water

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my friend thinks i dress slutty, but i dont really think so because she's a slut and her clothes are a lot smaller and tighter than mine are. i like to wear tank tops and i have some miniskirts, but i havent worn miniskirts in months, and now i wear low rise jeans. do you think i'm slutty? (link)
your not a slut just because you wear tank tops mini skirts and low rise jeans there is nothing wrong about that

your friend should worry about how she dresses a little bit more then how you dress

you are your own person and if she calls you a slut shes probably one herself

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I am almost 16 and I have never kissed a guy. I've had the chance many times,meen I want to but every time I get nervice and tell the guy no. What should I do? (link)
just wait until you are ready and comfortable with the whole situation

or just go for it! thats one way to feel less nervouse each time

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there is a song and its like " I CANT MAKE IT ON MY OWN," repeat i cant make it on my own. and its like two guys playing guitars. so can you guys tell me what its called and who its by??

thanks in advance!! (link)
i love that song so much its

Hawthorne Heights - Ohio Is For Lovers

and there is another song by them that i think you might like its called "Transition"

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well i was wondering is all the drama from laguna beach actually real.... cause it seems to perfect ... like if it was palanned 2 be true (link)
yea it is real and besides when the show first starts it says all the people and drama and places are real

i believe it is real

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hey i have a question. does anyone know of any programs to download music that would work for windows XP without having to have administrator's privileges? i cant seem to find any and my dad put a password on his windows account so i cant get on there and download one. anyone know of any? (link)
limewire

www.limewire.com

i have windows xp as well and it works

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does anyone know any funny pointless songs?
Ex. (Stacy's Mom, Crazy Frog, Hampster Dance, Etc.)
Just any funny songs that you could laugh at, know any? (link)
Underwear Goes Inside The Pants by LazyBoy

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I didn't know where to put this, so i just clicked a random category...

My friend came over here last night and she called some people that we met off the internet. It was after 9 so it was free, but I was wondering...it was with Cingular just FYI...but since it was free, would it still show up on my detailed billing? My parents are the kind that don't like me talking to people that I meet off of the internet, so if they found out that they had my PHONE NUMBER they would freak...I mean I wasn't the one talking, but yeah...anyways...does it show up on the bill even though it was free? (link)
yea i have cingular and all calls show up

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I was wondering...what is the song called that the end of the chorus I think goes like "I'm beggin you, I'm begging you, I'm begging you to be my escape"? Also, who is it by, and do they have a cd?- what is the cd called? Thanks. (link)
its Be My Escape - Relient K

and the cd is "mmhmm"


School pictures are coming up, and I don't know what I should wear. Does anyone have any ideas? (link)
just wear a cute top with cute jeans

make sure whatever you decide to wear you are comfortable in it

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hey does anyone know what lmao stand for? (link)
laughing my ass off

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