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I`m Desiree

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i`m 17 years old

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Okay. I lost my virginity on Monday to my boyfriend. We've had sex several times since then. My question is, I'm still bleeding during sex. Is that normal? Sometimes I get cramps, is that normal?

Yes bleeding is normal.. But you probably need to not do it so often for a while.. Cramps are also normal but if you didn`t do it several times it would stop.. also try taking a hot bath that`ll help hun.. ♥ Dez

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okay so tonight my bf and i were in the hott tub.. kinda fooling around. no we didnt have sex. But i did end up getting alittttleee excited and i think he did too. But it was all touching n stuff. ANYWAY.. its pretty silly buttt is there anyway i could possibly get pregnant if he did ejaculate? i mean theres cylorine.. and stuff. but idk. just wanted to see if theres a possible chance.
dont be lame with your answers. its not a joke. An honest answer would be greatly appreciated.

5 for whoever can tell me.

No you would only get pregnant if it went inside you and i mean from his penis hun.. ♥ Dez

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ill be 16 in about 2 months. what is the average weight for a girl my age? thanks!!

This would be easier to answer if you mentioned your height.. If you`d like ask in my inbox and i`d be happy to help you out.. ♥ Dez

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Hey 16-m. I'm terrible at keeping to a schedule and managing my time. Does anyone have any suggestions as to what I could try to manage my time better? I usually have things to do after school, and by the time I get home I have just enough homework to keep me going late into the night. After I look back on the day, I spot out about half an hour at the least I could have saved if I did things differently. Any ideas? ...I used to have a tan line on my wrist from my watch, which might explain why I've been bad at this lately [would getting a new one help?] Will rate - thanks a lot.

Well if you did better before when you had a watch then YES that might help you out.. Try wearing one again and check the time.. Don`t waste time on stupid things.. You need rest hun.. Best of luck ♥ Dez

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is it gay for a guy to go on a diet?

No that doesn`t make a guy gay.. Tons of people go on diets.. Even males.. my uncle is on a diet and he diff. isn`t GAY!!.. ♥Dez

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hey i'm 13/f and wondering if anybody has a good plan for the mostly abs (i'd like to get a four or six pack maybe!) and i'd also like some muscle in my legs and arms... any ideas?

Crunches and Situps will get that six pack in.. Try running,walking or Swimming for your legs or even lifting weights like at a gym which would be hard cuz your 13 but maybe you can at school or something.. You can do pushups for your arms or lift weights also.. ♥ Dez

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i have read coloumns in magazines saying if you excersise too much it is damaging your body. is this true? i excersise at a gym for about 4 1/2 hours each week. i also do 30 mins of cardio at home. am i doing too much?

Exercising cannot harm you in anyway.. By the way your not doing to much if you decide you want to do more go for it.. ♥Dez

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Hi. If a person has sex and then gets her period a day or less afterwards, does it mean she can't be pregnant? A friend of mine is really freaked out right now, and I'm trying to calm her down by telling her that she can't be pregnant. Thanks.

Tell your friend she is perfectly FINE!! =) ♥ Dez

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I'm 13 years old, and a really tiny person, and I think it's good for me to start exercising---now don't get me wrong, I don't think I'm fat or anything, but I just think it's a good idea to move my muscles. But I hate sports of all kinds. Is there anything I can do at home BESIDES push-ups and sit-ups/crunches?

Try walking.. That`ll help with your legs.. Maybe lift some weights.. Not real heavy ones.. ♥ Dez

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I just had a volleyball tournament recently. Well, I got a few injures. I can't extend my left leg without my knee hurting ((Could y'all tell me what's up with that? I skinned it pretty bad)) and I think I cracked my tailbone. And my muscles are real stiff. Can y'all tell me what I can do to relive this pain?

Hot baths are the best thing to do and lay down and rest as much as possible.. Try putting a heating pad on your back take some pain medicine.. Maybe put some ice on your knee.. If this doesn`t get better within a few days then i`d see a doctor.. Hope you feel better =) ♥ Dez

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ok can you get pregnant by being AROUND sperm. not actually having sex?? like if it was on a surface er in the shower. like if you use the bathroom & theres sperm er anything??

thanks

No its impossible hun.. ♥ Dez

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this may seem like a dumb question but i heard someone talking about it.

lets say you use a public bathroom & you're a girl. if there's sperm anywhere near the toilet, on the seat, in the toilet itself, is it possible to get pregnant?? if you were juss using the bathroom??

thanks!!

No hunny its impossible.. Sperm dies pretty quick.. ♥ Dez

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How old Should a child be when they start dating?

Well guys and girls seem to began to get interested around the age of 13.. I don`t really think there is a certain age to began dating.. I think when they feel ready.. but i suppose 13 would be a good estimate.. ♥Dez

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alright so there is a black and white party coming up
and i want a black dress

any cute websites to find them?

i want it mid thigh, and flowy .. black ofcourse

i need help as soon as possible

thanks!

try Macy`s,Dillards or JC Penneys.. ♥ Dez

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okay say if you give someone oral sex and you do swallow their cum. well do you like always get STDS or only if they have an STD? because people make it sounds that everyone has an STD and if you dont use a condom then you'll get STDS. like im confused.

If they don`t have an STD then you won`t get it.. But if they do then most LIKELY you will.. ♥ Dez

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ok i have to make a kid story for like 1st graders in school well i dont know what topic it should be about the story doesnt have to be long and its due tuesday so i need anwsers soo.
thanks i rate 5

I would ask some kids around that age to see what they like now a days..

Maybe make it about a made up super hero.. Kids love things like that.. Or like a talking animal that had like magical powers or something..

Make it exciting.. Think like a 1st grader ha ha.. ♥ Dez

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Is giving head considered Anal Sex?

Anal is in the ass nd Oral is when you give a guy head.. ♥ Dez

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Hi, thanks for your reply.

I have actually asked him out. We met and he actually brought his laptop just to show me the pictures have taken at a function, which I have asked him earlier to show me. We chat along well.

When you said that I should ask him to do something for me, can I ask him to go watch a movie with me? Or maybe buy a compact disc for me?

Regards.

Yea.. Thats sounds great.. ♥ Dez

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I am very skinny and some people make jokes even my so call friends. I am 19 5'3 and my weight is 108. My friends say I need a body like them cause they are thick with ass and chest. I heard about caltine bars but where do you buy them.

Hey you are not TOO SKINNY.. You are the average weight for your height.. Your perfectly fit.. Also don`t worry about what they think.. Everybody is built differently you just happen to be fit and naturally small.. Nothing is wrong with that.. ♥Dez

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Hi guys,
I know it's really early to be asking this, but I was hoping someone could help me with deciding on what I should get my really good friend Dan. He lives in another state(he's in MN and I'm in OH) and we really like each other a lot. We talk every single day and he is very sweet, so I'm wanting to get him something that he'll really like for Valentines day. I've already looked at a bunch of sites by typing in Valentines Day gifts. I've found one really good site that I love. It's www.bandannabear.com I was thinking of getting him a bear from there, but I don't wanna seem like a freak to him. I was going to just get him a teddy bear with some chocolate and maybe make him a card. He really likes seals a lot though. If It's possible at all, I was hoping someone could find me a site that has seal stuffed animals that have to do with Valentines day. That is probably impossible though because seals have nothing to do with Valentines Day. It doesn't matter what kind of seals they are. I don't want him to hate what I get him! Any other animals would be fine though. I'm really sorry I'm asking this question early like this. I'm also very sorry about the length. Thank you so much to anyone who tries to help me out.

Well i did look for some like Seal but i couldn`t find nothing sorry.. Maybe just get him a bear like you said hun.. I`m sure the guy would like it don`t freak out like this and worry just get what you can and if he don`t appreciate it then you probably shouldn`t be talking to him.. Also Build a Bear.com has some very cute valentines bears.. ♥ DEz

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