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Question Posted Wednesday January 18 2006, 9:11 pm

Okay. I lost my virginity on Monday to my boyfriend. We've had sex several times since then. My question is, I'm still bleeding during sex. Is that normal? Sometimes I get cramps, is that normal?

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syireen answered Saturday January 21 2006, 12:55 am:
ya i think your vagina is getting used to it, as long as it dosnet hurt and as long as it looks like it decreasing every time, then just wait and it should stop bleeding after maybe a week. other wise go talk to your doctor.

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DirtySchmageggie answered Friday January 20 2006, 10:09 pm:
Sounds like "honeymooners syndrome", the first time you have sex (or the first time in a long time) can cause bleeding and pain. Don't over do it. You could get a UTI from er overuse. If it persists go to the doctor.

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ThugGirl041790 answered Thursday January 19 2006, 2:51 pm:
Yes bleeding is normal.. But you probably need to not do it so often for a while.. Cramps are also normal but if you didn`t do it several times it would stop.. also try taking a hot bath that`ll help hun.. ♥ Dez

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alisonmarie answered Thursday January 19 2006, 1:51 pm:
Basically, you need to give your body a chance to heal. If you're still bleeding, it means that every time you have sex it's probably aggravating the areas that were first hurt when you lost your virginity.

Take a week off of sex and that should help with the bleeding. It's natural to still feel discomfort the first few times anyway, as your body needs time to adjust.

The cramps could be due to several reasons: stomach muscles cramping from their usage during sex, your period coming, or it could be related to your vagina not being used to sex. It's best to get this, and the bleeding, checked out by your doctor if they persist.

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jesa21 answered Thursday January 19 2006, 10:59 am:
the bleeding is normal, however if your not expecting your period soon, id get the cramps checked out by your healthcare provider.

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extton answered Thursday January 19 2006, 2:03 am:
I've heard of bleeding more than once, but cramps? I'm not sure.

When in doubt, ask a doctor. Better safe than sorry.

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