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Once you have an abortion is it not possible to have a baby again? (link)
no you can still have them! but if you get too many, you can p;ossibly become infertile


13/f. how much is a 13 year old girl supposed to weigh? I'm around 4'7 and weigh around 167. I think that is wayyyyy to much. How much should I weigh? thanks! (link)
yea 4/7 is pretty short, so that should be about 90 (thats to be thin)
since 4'7 is short like i said, if youw ant to be average, go for about 100


im in 8th grade, and please dont tell me that it is too young to be having sex--I KNOW!! i am a christian, and it's just that i live in a really small town, and so everybody just seems to know when you've lost your virginity, and i dont know, its just that there is quite a bit of pressure put on having sex. but my question is, is that ive heard that you have a less chance of getting pregnant while on your period. i would just die if i decided to have sex and ended up getting pregnant!! but the problem is, is that i dont know if guys will have sex if a girl is on her period. is that gross to them?? (link)
yea basically you cant get pregnant when your on your period because the egg is getting washed out, so unless the sperm likves for weeks, which is impossible. basically yea its disgusting during a period though because its messy


im not sure if this is the right category but anyway..

my name is stephanie and people at school call me 'stiffy' and 'stifffanie' I dont like it and have told them to stop it or ill tell the deputy principal but the dont listen and now everyone one calls me that what should I do im to affraid to tell the deputy principal (link)
if you tell the deputy principal, that is just such a dorky thing, and you will become like THE outcast of the century basically. anyways, if someone says stiffanie, jsut dont turn around or ignore them, and then wait until they say stephanie.


Whats like the official definition of "hooked up" I thought it meant having sex, some of my friends just say like making out. So when I watch shows like Laguna and such, I never know what they mean! (link)
really it means having sex with stragners, but middle and high schoolers say it means make out with strangers


I like my guy friend ALOT. we talk and flirt ALL the time. but the problem is he likes another girl but the good part is she's moving TOMORROW! (farther away) =]. this girl is a SLUT, she's had sex with two guys on my bus!! I think the kid i like only wants her for sex. Today they were all over eachother on the bus and it made me kinda upset. I know that when she leaves i'll be the attention =] haha soo should I talk to him right away or just wait till he talks to me? What should I do to get him to notice me more? (link)
well if hes just dating her for sex, maybe you shouldnt like him, because then he`ll do the same to you.
but otherwise wait for her to move, give him a few days, and then if he doesn`t start talking to you, you should makea move.
otherwise, just laugh and giggle a lot and stuff


Hey guys! Yes, if your wondring, this is the same person that asked some of the other tropical room questions. I know, you might get tired of me asking these questions about tropical stuff but here it goes... I really want some tropical beads for my front door (cheap) I looked on oriental trading co. and they have some but the $4.00 ones are just paper and the actually bead ones (i really like) are a whoping $30.00! Anyone have anyideas where i can get some tropical beads? thanks! (link)
wow! america is a real rip off! ours cost like about £7 which is about $14. buy from a british website


I need help with buying a car. It must follow all of these guidelines:
- 4 doors
- 4 wheel drive
- a lot of trunk space
- not a mini van.

I'd prefer a big car. Like and SUV or a truck?
It must be under $15,000.

I know absolutely nothing about cars. I need help quick because I have to tell my dad soon!! (link)
subaru forester
subaru outback
volvo XC70
volvo XC90
ford escape
ford explorer
jeep cherokee
dodge durango
jeep liberty
chevrolet blazer
GMC jimmy
toyota 4 runner
toyota rav-4
chevrolet sierra
ford F-150
honda CR-V
honda pilot
saturn vue AWD
isuzu vehicross
isuzu amigo
isuzu rodeo
land rover discovery
honda passport


all of these cars come with 4-wheel drive option packages, and all of them can be found the way you want them used. new they'd all be out of the pricerange specified, but used you could get any one of them. you left me a pretty broad spectrum to work with so i gave you all i could come up with off the top of my head. good luck. they are also all midsize, or small SUV's/trucks because the huge monster SUV's are often designed for carrying a lot of people, and towing a lot of stuff and get gas mileage that would break the bank several times over.


I really don't like Joei (it's a girl) right now. We used to be really tite, but then she started bein closer with this other girl. Now she acting all weird to me. She's such a follower, she just follows what the other girl does, if its ignore me then thats what she does. I know shes not a good friend shes just so fake and a follower. What do I do? If I talk to her she'll be like yeah omg ill change and she wont. So help pls (link)
id just completely forget about her. if thats her personality then shes following a piece of trash then shell turn out a piece of trash unless she stops being a follower. id tell her what shes acting like and how dull and naive it is to act like that and if shes cool shell take ur advice, if not, shes still a jackass.


I like to read, I really like the book "Holes." I have'nt seen the movie. I'm 13, what is something aproprete [sorry I can't spell] for a 13 year old girl.

Not to childish though, & something I could get at barnes and nobles, or so? (link)
out of the silent planet is a sick book. its set at a 15+ level but its a good book.


my mom has a pot problem.
i dont know, it really bugs me and its taking a toll on me. i dont knwo what to do, and she doesnt know i know, ive known since 3rd grade, now in 9th. we live in a very high scale town.
i feel like peopel will look at me differntly or soemthing.
only my bestfriend, best guy friend and my cousin, know about it.
-i feel liek i have troubling opening my feelings up to people from it.(i know it's cheesy.)
- and its causing me to be in really pissed off mood, or really depressed, i want to help her, but i can never get the words out when i just want to scream at her about it.
what can i do?
how can i confront her?
you dont knoow how much this will mean if you help me. (link)
i dont usually answer questions truthfully but this one ill give it a shot. i would just confront her right away and talk about it with her. 6 years is a long time to wait. i wouldnt try to hide the situation from everyone or that would make matters worse. I would be open about the situation and talk about it. It may seem like a hard thing to do at first, but youll find after a while it will ultimately settle things.


Alot of the time, I start to like guys after I find out they like me. I feel like this is wrong or cheating them somehow. I mean it kinda feels like I only like them because I like the attention of having them like me. Is this ok? does anyone else do this? (link)
yeah thats stupid. if george bush liked you would you like him back? maybe you would. but it still is stupid. dont automatically like people that like me just so i can get attention..that would be naive and dull.


This my new year, 7th grade, and I want to make new friends and stuff. But sometimes I feel like some of my friends are like settling.. and dont really wanna make more friends. I mean, they are good people, but they just arent like me and my personality. Sometimes some of them are like tired for no reason and it really annoys me, especially cuz i may sleep for like 4 hours and still be energetic in the morning. yah we have our differences, but i'd like to meet somebody who i can just really have a good time with, and know that they seriously are my best friend. i already have some.. but.. idk. i dont really care if they're popular or anything, just not like butt ugly or whatever, and have similar interests as me somewhat,and stuff. or maybe im just being too tough and 'not appreciating my friends' but sometimes i feel as though they're kinda.. um dull.

any tips on how to meet new people? i guess i also tend to settle, and i get a little shy around new people and dont really show them my real self till they get to know me and i trust them and feel comfortable around them and stuff. how can i be like more outgoing or something? thanks a bunchh.

also, what traits do you admire about a person? (link)
maby you should be less shallow. and make friends with people regardless of whether theyre "butt ugly" or not.


I have chrome letters on the back of my car and was going to get them painted but they said they'd have to scrape the chrome off before painting it, and it'd cost a lot of money.
I was wondering, does anybody know of a place where I can find black letters that are made for cars (I'm talking external here). I've searched and cannot find any.
Thanks (link)
my question is why would you do this? it costs a lot of money to get it done, and isn't pertinent to the car's performance why do you need it?sure it might look kinda cool but in the end it'd lower the resale value, and cost you a lot of money.; i wouldn't do it, but if you must there is a pretty simple fix. albeit a cheap one. get some black spray paint, remove the chrome words, put them on a solid, flat surface, coat them with a nice even coat of paint on both sides, let it dry, recoat, and put them back on once they're dry.


Hehe hi everybody, i may be the only guy in this column.

I am wondering... my girlfriend likes it when im neat and tidy... downstairs, but its a major hassle and really quite dangerous if you ask me. Would this Nair shit, the mousse or whatever be able to help me out or would it burn uncontrollably? i mean for everywhere, not just above the waistline.

Thanks everybody (link)
nair normally doesnt burn, but if you are doing your crotch area, jhust use bikini nnair because its more sensitive


who sings the theme song(the song that plays when the show begins and when it ends) for the tyra banks show...it goes liek this:
just for today, i will not worry what tommorow will bring, noo
im gonna try something new,.......
i am gonna shine, shine shine, i am gonna shine, shine shine
plz somebody give me the title of the song and the artist ...it sounds like india arie but i dont noe.

the song really sounds inspirational and i need some inspiration
thanx in advance (link)
i am actually in love with that show.

yea it is india arie, and i believe its called "Just for Today"


No explanations please, just a straight up answer.

Is it easier to get pregnant before, during, or after your period.

Thanks (link)
half way (14 days in between) you wont get prgnant during your period, but its messy..


When you use a tampon, can you pop your cherry? and does it hurt? (link)
pop your cherry means your hymen breaks, so yea its possible. but most people actulaly consider popping your cherry having sex for the first time. tampons dont hurt to much. you should use a gentle glide or something, not cardboard the first time because that can hurt, but cardboards are better because they are good for the environment :]


in an AIM profile how do you make crossed out text? or strike through text?

thanks :] (link)
high light the word, right lcick it, go to text, then font. one of the boxes said strikeout,just check it


Okay, so if a guy asks you to slow dance with them, that doesn't make them your boyfriend or anyhthing...does it? And it's perfectly normal to dance with more than one guys..right? Also if you're going to the homecoming with a guy, are they considered your boyfriend...or if they aren't can you dance with other guys at the homecoming too...? (link)
dancing doesnt mean you guys are dating. also homecoming doesnt necessarily mean it either. its different in different situations, such as a guy can ask you to homecomeing as a friend




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