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Alot of the time, I start to like guys after I find out they like me. I feel like this is wrong or cheating them somehow. I mean it kinda feels like I only like them because I like the attention of having them like me. Is this ok? does anyone else do this?
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okay. i dont want to say that i do that... but i totally do that.. i think its because you kinda sorta look at them a different way.. like idn.. lol. but yeahh i defff do that too!!
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I wouldn't call it wrong to do that, I think you just don't want to start liking a guy, and then find out he doesn't like you back, and get heartbroken. But I do think it's good to make the first move sometimes, and give some guys a chance. Sadly, everyone does get heartbroken, whether they like a guy and he doesn't like her back, or even when you're with a guy and you break up, ect.
I think it's just a risk you take, but think about it. If you don't take the risk, you could be missing out a lot. He could even be the love of your life (cheesy, I know, but it could be true!). You wouldn't know, unless you took that risk.
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I do that.. and i dont feel it is a bad thing, and no you arent cheating him. the way it works for me is. when i find out a guy likes me i start realizing more things about him and get to know him better and then i start to like him for the right reasons not just becuase he likes me. Maybe this is your case also. just be true to yourself and him.
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yeah thats stupid. if george bush liked you would you like him back? maybe you would. but it still is stupid. dont automatically like people that like me just so i can get attention..that would be naive and dull.
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lol EVERYONE well almost everyone does that..i mean its not a GOOD thing but its a normal thing..dont worry your completely normal. hope i helped!
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