Question Posted Wednesday September 27 2006, 7:39 pm
Sorry it's so long.
*=This name has been changed for personal reasons.
14/F
Well, I have a friend who I have liked for a long time. He knows, but then I told him I liked someone else. His name is Allan*.
We were supposed to be really good friends. So since Monday he has been avoiding me and it made me think I did something wrong. So I got all upset and decided I 'hated' him but I didn't mean it. I was just angry. So I comment my friend on myspace and go 'yeah. so i hate this boy whos name starts with A, ends with N and has a LLA in between. And so he saw the comment and said he didn't like me and that we were no longer friends. At this, I began to cry. I said 'wow your a jerk' and he said 'you take things too seriously.' and so I got all upset. and I said 'maybe I do, but im a PERSON, kay?' and he said 'yeah. a person who should get over it.' and so I got WICKED mad at him, but I told him I was sorry and he said he wasn't trying to avoid me and all of this took place within the timespan of a hour. He said he was trying to be nice, and I told him he didn't have to be nice if he didn't want to. Now he won't answer my comments on myspace so I'm kind of upset.
I have to face him in school tomorrow. I want to be friends again but I don't think he wants to be friends and this upsets me greatly. Thankyou in advance.
Wheeler answered Thursday September 28 2006, 4:03 pm: He was just talking back; at school just try to avoid him to then at the end of school tell him your so sorry about everything, you didnt mean it. You just hate to not be friends tell him if he wants to be like this forever then fine but if he does say that say "that is dissapointing, just to think i love you" then just walk away you will most likely be in tears, (sorry to say) thats all I can think of, GOOD LUCK!!! [ Wheeler's advice column | Ask Wheeler A Question ]
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