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What do the numbers after a person's name mean in the bible?

ex- Mark 16:16

The first number is the chapter of the book and the second number is the verse.

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i love chris ladoux..but no one i know listens to him or even knows who he is. i know. crazy.

so the point is, i'e never heard anyone say his name before. how do you pronounce it?

le doo is the correct way to say it
your welcome kristen22's husband

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You mantioned in one of your answers you have your tongue pierced.. Well i have a question.. I wanted to know if it hurt? And can you discribe it in some sort of way..? I`m not a big baby about pain i just am nervous like most people.. Also i wanted to know does it get in the way of anything? Thanks alot if you answer i`d really a appreciate it.. ♥Dez

It does hurt just for a sec right when you get it done but what sucked the most for me was the 3 days after the piercing. You can't eat alot of the foods that you are used to because your tounge is swollen. After that thou your fine and back to eating whatever you want. I've had it for almost a year now and it doesnt get in my way at all infact sometimes I forget I have it unless someone mention's it. It just feels like part of my tounge now.

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Why is it that some peoples bodies reject their piercings shortly after they are done?

It totally sucks My body "accepted" my tounge piercing just fine, healed in no time but my belly button piercing...wow had to go to the hospital with that. My body just wasn't havin it! Here is why:

Given the choice your body doesn't want foreign objects inside itself, and that includes piercings. If it is "easier" for your body to push the piercing out like a splinter than it is for your body to heal a fistula (skin tunnel) around it. This risk aftects first surface piercings, and then piercings like navel piercing and eyebrow piercing as well.

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please help me i was sexualy abused when i was younger by my grandad and i hate him for it but i cant stay mad at him i still talk to him and everthing and then all the memories all come back to me i know i am not to blame but i just want to know why he done this to me but i am scared to ask him because he will not admit it and i want to be mad at him but i am the kind of person who forgives people no matter what they have done what can i do please help me.

You do not have to talk to him again, and I personally would advise that you didn't. People that do that have severe problems. Please talk to someone about this. I know that this having happened to you has made you loose a lot of trust for people and having your innosence riped away from you at such a young age. Best of luck

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Ok, I'm going to go through all of this and try to not sound vain or concieted. I'm just going to be totally honest because I am the 'advisor' of our group and I am totally killing myself trying to help her.
So my friend Angela and I were fat geeks two years ago. I was the one with the sense of fashion though. Last summer, she went on vacation and came back totally transformed and in shape. She has a really nice body now. I passed on all my advice to her and she started wearing designer labels and boots and pretty much copying my "style". I didn't mind though, like it's flattering to me that she would take whatever I said to heed.
Over the last two years, I got thinner too but I a little overweight and not nearly as thin as Angela.
The problem with Angela is that she isn't the prettiest girl on the block. She has a huge forehead which she has covered up with bangs but now her face is totally square-shaped and it kind of looks like a block. She has no-lips, not thin lips, just no lips. The thing that stands out about her is her gorgeous blue eyes and her body. Anyway, she's not very attractive but she's a very nice and honest (although sometimes she annoys guys by nagging and starting arguments).
So I don't have that great of a body but I'm lucky, I inhereted good genes from my parents. I'm not as beautiful as mother but I'm fairly ok.
All my other friends are really pretty too.
So we recently found out that Angela was upset because the rest of our friends complemented me more than they complemented her. Well, I was pretty mad because I didn't think she should be that superficial. People usually commented when she went the extra mile to get ready when they do that all the time to me. Honestly, I thought it was a fair trade, I was... I guess prettier than her but she has a great body.
Now guys aren't all that interested in her. She's pretty much labeled herself desperate in fun (something no one should do even if they're joking, in my opinion). Some guys say it's becasue she comes on too strong and some say she isn't that pretty.
Recently, this guy told one of my friends that he thought I was hotter than Angela. That friend told Angela and Angela hinted that she didn't understand why. When we're all together and I talk about how so-and-so might have been hitting on me, she agrees with everyone when they say that he probably was but I can kind of -sense- that "Yeah right" is on her mind.
For example, if a guy in our class talks to me a lot, the next day, she'll wear a more revealing sexy top to the same top and try to talk to him a lot.
I'm wondering what's going on with her. Does she think I'm ugly or something? Is it jealousy? Or she thinks I'm unattractive and doesn't think guys will like me? Is she competing with me? She doesn't do it with my other friends and they're prettier than me and have better bodies. I'm afraid that this thing will escalate and I'll lose her.
I need to know how to fix this- and also try to get her a boy friend because she really wants one too. I rate 5s.

I'll propbably get a 1 for this but ah well I think.....you have to much time on your hands. Your to concerned with dumb stuff like the size of someone's forhead lol I don't know why she's your friend you talk about her like she look's like shrek.

Let me make sure I go this right...Your statement's about what is supposed to be your best friend is "She has a huge forehead her face is totally square-shaped and it kind of looks like a block She has no-lips, not thin lips, just no lips she's not very attractive she annoys guys by nagging and starting arguments She's pretty much labeled herself desperate" If you think your best friend is trying to compete with you then just say that or even if you want gradually mention that friends comment you more on your looks than her and you think that might be the reason. But I do not see why degrading her in your question is anywhere helpful.

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aah! so here is the deal!! i once read in a magazine about a girl who got sexually harassed by her teacher. and im like oh i feel so bad for that girl, but i never thought about it happening to me. well i hate to admit it.. but it did. this is what happened: i needed extra help in math so i told my teacher about it (lets call him mr. a) and hes like oh why dont you stay after class today i have no meetings and i was king of hesistating cause thursdays are busy for me. but he was like insisting and it was kind of awkward and i felt uncomfortable rejecting it so i did stay after school. when he told me to sit down next to him at a table, i did. and by the way the chairs were a little to close. the whole time he was helping me he always tryed to get good excuses to get close to me. not actually saying stuff, but like syaing "ok lets go over the steps .. *nudge close, nudge closer* then after we started talking and he asked me what my favorite classes werwe and i told him, and hes like "what do you think about the sex unit in health" and in my head im like "WHAT??"so i said awkwardly.. "um yes its good." so out of the blue.. hes like "ever wanted to have sex" and i said "i dontknow.." hes like "want to try it with me" i got creeped out at that i felt like crying.WHAT SHOULD I DO?? PLEASE HELP. i'm so confused, im afraid of going to school or even walking in the halls cause i might bump into hiM!!!!

He definately overstepped his boundaries. Tell someone right now. Your school's guidance counselor, principal, mom, dad....You wouldn't want him to do this to someone else would you? Don't be afraid sweetie and if for some reason you cant find the courage to do this get a friend to say someone told her or write a letter and slip it under the guidance counselor's door.

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My boyfriend is 24 and I'm 22 and we've been dating for at least 2 years. We love eachother dearly and are serious about one another. The only issue he and I occasionally discuss is religion. We do have a lot of the same morals however he's Christian and I was born into a sect of Hinduism, which I do believe in. Although we do respect and appreciate eachothers beliefs, I kinda get the feeling he wants me to convert. I really don't want to label myself something I'm not comepletely. Is it possible to have a healthy 'interfatih' relationship that works in the long run?!

Yall love EACH OTHER correct? then that's all that matters. Yes religion is a tricky subject in a marriage if the two fo you believe in something different but as long as neither one of you "knock" the other's religion then there should be nothing to worrry about. Be thankful that the only "complaint" you have with the man you love is over religion and not something like cheating or lying.

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over a period of time about 6 months i have become infatuatated with my colleugues wife. whenever i go to her house to see my collegue i keep staring at her. some times i feel she is also doing the same some times.i have definiteky seen her doing the same. I am 45yrs old happily married.she is about 40.I have a hunch that she wants me to make a move but i am not sure.i want to to take minimum of risk as the consequences are too much to bear.on other hand i feel a fling for a short time is not bad as we only live once.please help me

I'm not some little kid answering your question, so maybe you'll take me more seriously when I tell you to LEAVE IT ALONE. You want to go to bed at night with thoughts of your wife cheating on you? her hands all over a man that's not you becauase you weren't enough for her? Don't do that to her. If you want to sleep with other women let her go. No one deserves to be cheated on.

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Ok, my ex-boyfriend and I broke up less than 2 months ago. I still love him a lot (I want to get back together with him) and we are still best friends. Lately he and one of my friends have been text messageing (on their cell phones) a lot. Like 12 times in ONE day. She is my friend and we all used to go out together (when she was with her ex a while ago). They are friends but me and her were much closer friends. But she hasn't phoned me in ever but always text messages him (and he replies just as much). It drives me insane. I will admit I am jealous because I still love him and want him back and angry that they'd both do that to me (it seems like they are flirting with each other). My ex and I made a rule about not going after friends and he says they only hang out and nothing has ever happened between them (he also says he isn't interested in her, but it doesn't appear like it). Am I right to be feeling hurt and alone and confused and everything else I am feeling? Are they wrong to be doing that? It's mostly the amount they text message each other and that he'll lie about talking to her and his phone is now his main priority (we can't watch tv or have a conversation without him checking his phone or texting someone, mainly her). What does everyone think?

OMG I'd be so pissed!! Talk to your "friend" and tell her in the nicest way possible how it hurts you that she text messages him when she know's you still love him and want him back. I say to be nice to her, and maybe she'll quit with the textin. Calling her the names that I would call her will only piss her off and probably force her more into his arms...

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I wear makeup to hide ugly scars on my face. With my makeup on no one ever knows that I have them. Only my family has ever seen me without my makeup. My boyfriend of one year is getting fed up with me. He cant accept the fact that he cant see me as sporadically as he'd like. When he comes over unannounced I make him wait 10 or 20 mins while I fix myself up. He says that he loves me no matter what.. and yet he is always saying the best thing about me is my beauty. Should I reveal to him how I truly look and risk losing him? Or save face and let him be upset?

He should accept you for who you are...scars and all. If he doesn't then he's waisting your time...your time that you could spend with someone else that was worth it. Beauty is only skin deep and when you get old and that beauty fades you sure as hell better have something worth wanting...a warm heart, awesome personality....you get my point. I say show em'...Best of Luck xoxo

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Hey guys, I wanted to know what kind of hair products make your hair sleek and shiny, won't weigh it down and conceals dead ends? Thanks. I'm open to all opinions =)

Garnier Fruitcus sleek & shine shampoo & conditioner or Dove Intense Moisture both are my fav's.

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I think i may have OCD. (obsessive compulsive disorder). I seem to have like scary and gross thoughts and images in my head that I cant make go away and i get like obsessed over it and I cant concentrate. Another thing is I wont eat food thats over 4 days old even if it doesnt get old for another month. No madder what. Another thing is everything has to be clean. As in washed. Like my bes sheats. If they're not I cant sleep in them. Like ill obeses and I cant even sleep, or I wont sleep at all. There are so many things that I obsess over, and I get stressed over. Its so weird. I can name other things but does this seem like OCD to you?

Some of what you say just sounds like your just a quirky person...nothing wrong with that. There are certaing things that "bug" everyone to a point. I personally have to have all my hangers in my closet facing the right way. My friend used to come over and turn the hanger around to see how long it would take for me to notice then laugh her ass off when i corrected it....lol

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I want my hair to be less frizzy and big..what can I do?
I have to get a hair cut and get more layers since parts of my hair are dead. I've tried using gel and hairspray but it makes my hair curly.. And that just makes it more frizzier than it was before. I dont know what to use. Is there some product or hair treatment that I can do? It seems like if I try to straighten my hair..it'll poof up. >__

Make sure when you tell them you want layers that you want it thinned out. This will help keep your hair from looking so B I G. Other than that you probably know what to do.. I have found using the right products for our kind of hair makes it either less frizz or in my case none at all. I use Garnier Fructius sleek & shine shampoo & conditioner then blowdry and straighten with and i stress this part of course I use a straightner but make sure you spend a xtra dollar and get the better one. It will make all the difference as to how long your hair will remain straight. then I put on Dove straightening creme. it's awesome and these products are great on a budget. Hope I helped.

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whats a good site for guitar tab? (im a beginner)

www.guitartabs.com and olga.com are good starts. If those dont help just go to your favorite search engine and type in guitar tabs and your favorite artist. Remember that these tabs are written by other fans not the artist and arent 100% accurate.

-The boyfriend

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Okay so like 2 months ago my mom got married again to this man she knew from her home town. At first I did not like him because he was not my dad but he grew on me. One day after classes i went to meet my mom at work for lunch. I went straight home afterwards.When I got home I heard something like a man moaning. I Knew no one was supposed to be home becasue my stepdad was supposed to be at work. The moans became louder as I aproached my moms room. So I thought to myself I just had lunch with my mom. And she was at work how could she be two places at once? I came to the conclusion the my stepdad was having an affair. I got angry and decided to bust open the door and catch him in action. To my great surprise it was not a woman in bed but a man. I could not belive the image I saw. I screamed and shot the door. I could not belive it. My stepdad who is such a Monday night football guy and who usally does not care for gay people was having sex with a man. WHAT THE HELL IS GOING ON. He begged me to be quiet but I told my my mom anyway and what I can't belive is that she thiks that I made the entire thing up. She looked at me like i was crazy. She says that I never liked him in the first place (which is true) and that I would do anything to split them up. (not true). She cried all night none stop, she told me that I was breaking her heart how could i be so cruel. Our relationship is down the drain now. How do I get my Mom to see that I am not lying? Please help.

tell your mom this: I love you and am not lying. When you finally wise up to what he's doing behing your back don't come cry to me because I wont be there. I'm a liar remember? Also bring this ? up on your screen with everybody's response to you and call her in the room to read it. She will be sorry fot not listening to you sooner. Man oh man she need's to call my mom lol she's going thru that shit now. Took her a long time to point out what everybody else already knew. Best of luck to you sweetie.

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I've started seeing a guy and I have fallen totally head over heels for him. He assures me he feels the same, and as they say, actions speak louder than words and he clearly does love me to bits.
The problem is, that I just can't understand what he sees in me and find myself doubting the relationship all the time, and I can't let myself relax because I'm so sure he'll break my heart. This isn't his problem, it's completely about me, but how can I get over this without ruining the relationship, and without him thinking I am completely neurotic!

You can't fully love someone until you start to love yourself. Your problem is very simple to point out but very complicated to fix. You have low self esteem issues. Now why it's complicated is you have to figure out why you feel like you have no self worth. Everyone was put here for a REASON. Not to just take up air and space.

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This might sound weird considering the fact that most girls want big boobs...but they really arent my thing..

I am 13/f so i cant really have surgery...

but is there any way to stunt the growth of my boobs...they are allready big.

Oh, honey I wish there was something you could do to stunt the growth...this coming from someone that's a size DDD and only 23 years old. Im attempting to undergo breast reduction surgery in the next couple months. Just be thankful for what you have... you could be a member of the "itty bitty titty" club lol if they get to big later in life then you can pursue a reduction.

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From a female,
When you are sexually active is there supposed to be hair uhh "down there"? or do you shave it off or what? sorry if this is like a stupid question or whatever but i'll rate.

It's totally up to you. Every guy I've talked to said they liked it shaven. You got a man....talk to him and see what he would prefer down there. Shaven is more cleaner. When you have hair the scent of urine gets trapped in the hair. Disgusting yes, but the truth.

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Okay so I went to this party at a hotel, and there were supposed to be parents there, but when I showed up, it was only a bunch of friends, withs lots of alcohol and stuff... So I got drunk and stuff, and it ended up the guy I was in love with was there. But he had a girlfriend, and his girlfriend happened to be my best friend, but me and her were fighting at the time. So I was sooo drunk that I wanted to make her as mad as possible, so I made out with her boyfriend and gave him a handjob. Now idk if she's gonna find out or w/e. I need help... should i tell her or let just let it go!!

Whoa your in love with your best friends boyfriend? ok first off i realize that you cant help the way you feel and cant be held responsable for that but your actions on that night...are horrible! Being "drunk" is not a valid excuse for what you did to your best friend. A best friend is someone that you consider blood and even though yall may fight at some point in time, any secrets between the both of you stay that way...a SECRET. that's the power of having a best friend. Man Im glad im not your friend... we would get mad at each other and then to get back at me for something petty you would try to screw my boyfriend? This causes hurt in your "friend" & causes her not to ever trust you again and have problems trusting other men again. Congratulations! you get the WORST EVER best friend award. Sorry to be so harsh but step back as I did and put yourself in her shoes.

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