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12 Text messages...in one day
Ok, my ex-boyfriend and I broke up less than 2 months ago. I still love him a lot (I want to get back together with him) and we are still best friends. Lately he and one of my friends have been text messageing (on their cell phones) a lot. Like 12 times in ONE day. She is my friend and we all used to go out together (when she was with her ex a while ago). They are friends but me and her were much closer friends. But she hasn't phoned me in ever but always text messages him (and he replies just as much). It drives me insane. I will admit I am jealous because I still love him and want him back and angry that they'd both do that to me (it seems like they are flirting with each other). My ex and I made a rule about not going after friends and he says they only hang out and nothing has ever happened between them (he also says he isn't interested in her, but it doesn't appear like it). Am I right to be feeling hurt and alone and confused and everything else I am feeling? Are they wrong to be doing that? It's mostly the amount they text message each other and that he'll lie about talking to her and his phone is now his main priority (we can't watch tv or have a conversation without him checking his phone or texting someone, mainly her). What does everyone think?
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I would talk to her but she never calls me and I refuse to because before Christmas I called her lots to hang out and she never came out (now I find out she doesnt like one of my good friends). She calls him and invites him out and then he'll ditch me to go out because he doesnt want to "sit at home" (we live togehter too). She is pissing me off so much right now.
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OMG I'd be so pissed!! Talk to your "friend" and tell her in the nicest way possible how it hurts you that she text messages him when she know's you still love him and want him back. I say to be nice to her, and maybe she'll quit with the textin. Calling her the names that I would call her will only piss her off and probably force her more into his arms...
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