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can't stand seeing him with her.. =(


Question Posted Friday January 6 2006, 5:36 pm

Hey guys,

I know I might sound like a whiny bitch but here it goes. I've liked my best friend for a while now, and he just recently hooked up with a girl who I almost fought last year. When they starting going out I wasn't upset, but when I see them in the hallways kissing, it makes me fume! I get so angry! How can I stop this? And why am I feeling this way after I thought I was over him!?

Thanks.

BTW - I'm 14/f.


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Additional info, added Friday January 6 2006, 5:39 pm:
Also, on his AIM profile and all his away messages he always puts "I LUV U ANGELA !!! <333 01*03*06" .

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15Kori answered Friday January 6 2006, 10:58 pm:
Hey, I was in the Exact Same situation last year. I started to like one of my really close guy friends and then he started talking about how he likes this one girl. After a while, They started to go out, I was soo mad and I was Sad whenever I saw them kissing and being all lovey-dovey! I ended up telling him how I felt and he said he was Sorry and so he never talked to me about her and whenever she would want to come into class with him (our class) he would strongly suggest that she not. So What I think you should do, Is just tell him how you feel, He should be respectful enough to try not to mention her in front of you. After a while, you will end up moving past him and start not caring about the two of them being together. Don't worry, As time passes, You will get over him and even though you don't like her, She will become nothing to you. By the way, I was the same age when this happened to me! I Hope I Helped.
Kori

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charmed3fanatic answered Friday January 6 2006, 7:17 pm:
i know how you feel exactly.. what i did was try to aviod talking to him or seeing him anywhere.. (tried to aviod him at all costs) what your feeling is jealousy... yeahh i know it sucks doesn't it! you are feeling that way because just because you though you were over him doesn't mean that you were... i think you were denying it to youself that you didn't like him.. that's what i do.. and anyone who asked you you would be like "no, i don't like him anymore.." i don't know if you went out or not.. but you might be jealous maybe because he gave her a chance and he didn't you? idk... your prolly just mad because you know that he knows that you don't like her ... and he still went out with her without even talking to you about it... and seeing how you felt... hope i helped... if you need anything else just let me know

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DeadMemories answered Friday January 6 2006, 6:31 pm:
Whoa, I know how you feel. Trust me they will break up. Does he like you? If so get a boyfriend and if you don't want to do that then go right in front of her and give him a big hug.That should make him fume.

I usually don't like Love Life questions but I really liked your grammer [:)] and that you didn't say "Rate all 5's!!!". Nice Job on the question though.

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