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Ok, I have gotten replies to my other question and they seem positive. Before I ask her to be my girlfriend, I would need to confirm it to not embarrass myself. Ok. Whenever I look at her, she has a smile. She co-operates very well. We have never had a fight. She bumps into me and she leaned on my back once for 4 seconds. What do you think? Or is there any way of confirming it myself in school? (link)
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It looks like you already have your confirmation, my friend. All of those signs are absolute ones that she likes you - you should go for it, and take the risk! Don't be nervous, I'm sure she'll say yes and the two of you will make a great couple. Best of luck!
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this guy likes me and we're sorta friends but all of his friends keep encouraging me to get with him but id ahat to do because i dont like him. i dont want to be mean
thannx (link)
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I am going to tell you what NOT to do: Do NOT tell him that you like him, only because his friends are trying to encourage you to date him. You would only be leading him on, which will make things much worse for him. So you need to kindly tell him or just his friends, if they're the only ones saying anything, that you like him as a good friend, but you would like to keep it that way. You're better off as friends. And that should put an end to your situation without being mean or rude.
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Are there any signs that a girl likes you?
-15m (link)
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Sure, there are various signs - here are some. =)
http://www.wikihow.com/Know-if-a-Girl-Likes-You
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I am considering getting laser hair removal on my legs and had some questions about it-
a) Generally speaking, how many sessions does it take to get lasting results?
b) How effective is laser hair removal at getting rid of ingrown hairs and dots?
c) How safe is laser hair removal? (link)
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I have not had this done before, but I thought that a link couldn't hurt. =)
http://www.hairremovaljournal.org/
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okay so im kinda in a rut and i was just wondering, can you guys give me advice on why its important to be grateful for everything you have? also can you give me some examples of where youve personally had to believe that. also, people always say to me every experience has a silver lining. any thoughts? also...what do you really believe in? and why? like...i believe that you should always treat others the way you would like to be treated. what do you think? any thoughts would be appreciated. im going through a hard time right now and i just need some advice on beliefs and values. thank you for your time. (link)
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It's important to be grateful for everything you have for various reasons, a major one being that not everyone is as fortunate as you are. There are many people without a place to stay, out in the cold shivering to death, hoping that a miracle will come their way and they will find some place to stay, even if only for a night. Many people don't have food to eat or water to drink, they don't have family or friends or any type of support system.
Many children don't even grow up with toys to play with, or any parents who really care enough about them to take care of them. If the reasons I just listed aren't enough, then think about how hard your family or you have worked to get where you're at. You didn't get here by doing nothing, you worked for the things you have, whatever they may be, and knowing that you were willing and able to do those things and people close to you did the same to provide for you is a great thing, my friend.
Please, do not lose sight on the good things in life. I have been where you are, depressed and not sure where to turn or even if the turn is worth making. I have went through death after death in my family, including my dad when I was 11, I have went through various friendship and dating problems, etc. Yet I still consider myself very blessed, and you are blessed as well with the things and people you have.
Believe me, life is a beautiful thing - don't waste it. Look at the things you're good at and find a great dream, and then plan to make sure that dream will come true. Find things that you enjoy doing and make you happy, go out and do those things more often. Keep yourself surrounded by positive people, you don't need people who only talk, think and act negatively. Those people do not have your best interest at heart, and you do not need those kinds of people.
I hope that you will follow my advice here, and really listen and consider what I have to say. I believe it will help you in your life, and I wish you the best of luck!
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does leave in moisturizer weigh down hair? (link)
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The answer is simply no. You see, leave-in moisturizer only weighs down your hair when it isn't distributed properly. It's important to spray your hair lights with the the moisturizer, while getting the roots and leaning your head over to get the bottom of your hair, as well. Then, take a fine-toothed comb and go through your hair to spread it equally.
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is it damaging to blow dry hair with cold air? (link)
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As there will always be damage done to your hair when it comes to blow drying it, there will nearly as much damage caused by using cold air, rather than hot.
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I want to know if this guy likes me or not. I want to find out, but without going right out and asking him.
To the guys: Are there any hints that you throw girls to let them know you like them?
Guys only please, it probably wouldn't help as much if a girl answered. (link)
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I know you asked for a guys-only answer, but I feel that my link here is very helpful, in your situation. =)
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=507294
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well, im going out with this girl. The thing is, we've never met. I got her number from Aol, and we used to go out on and off. Recently, we started again, and for the first time, since we've ever gone out, we talk everyday on the phone, and when not that, we text each other. So when we got bed i say "good-night, bye" but im wondering, when, should i say "love you?" because it seems like a wierd thing to say. we really like each other, but should i say "love you" aswell? if it helps, im 16/m (link)
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You should only say, "I love you," if you mean it. If you really feel as though you love her, you should tell her. But I'm getting a different vibe about how you feel, and forgive me if I'm wrong, but I think you may feel a little pressured now into this relationship to say, "I love you," even though you're not quite sure that you're in love with her, at the moment.
If I'm right, please take my advice and do not say those words. It will only lead her on, and make your relationship more complicated if you say it, without meaning it.
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im 13/f
ok so theres this guy that i like in my 2nd 3rd and 4th period classes. he sitts beside me inn all of them. in 2nd, he ALWAYS talks to me instead of his like best friend. then in 3rd, he is like a complete jerk and ignores me and is always telling me to shut up in front of his other friend. then in fourth, he talks to me like nothing just happened. im so confuseed...sometimes i get the feeling that he likes me and them like 10 mins later i feel like he hates me.
HELP!! i need to know what he is thinking!! (link)
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I'm guessing there is something going on with that friend of his in 3rd period, either his friend doesn't really like you (sorry about that, I'm just trying to help you sort this out), so he decided to treat you bad in that period. And in the others, it doesn't matter. However, if that's true, and even if it isn't, there is no excuse for him being mean to you for one period, and then the rest, he's nice. That's not fair.
Here's something that might help you a little more.
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=507294
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15/F
Well my favorite cousin is having a sweet15 and since i had her in mine she put me in hers for like a dance routin very fancy whole dress up thing. and now i weigh about 135 but i want to loose like 15 lb from here until beginning of may. can someone help me with what i should eat what i should exersize. i honestly do 500 situps a day 40pushups and 30leglifts to help the tummy aread but im still sitting at that weight please help me (link)
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I think you need to slow down on the sit-ups, sometimes you can overwork your body and it will make you stay at the same weight. This may help you. =)
http://www.seventeen.com/fun-stuff/video-hub/?maven_referralPlaylistId=78e88e3a32ec65b88f7c8b95d5d19eaa2497d69e
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Tomorrow valentines day, and i dont have a boyfriend and neither do my two best friends so we're making cards for each other. I need a cute saying to put in it like about love or just bestfriends or some corny fucnny pick up line
thanks
hurry please
xoxo (link)
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Here are some great ones. =)
http://www.humorsphere.com/sms/best_friend_quotes.htm
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What would be some reason to starting your period a good week and 1/2 than your suppose to? (link)
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An irregular period. I have them all the time, as do many women and young girls. This happens especially often when you are younger, however, it still happens (just usually not as often) when you're older.
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i just want peoples personal opinions. do you think wearing leopard or cheetah striped anything would be tacky? (link)
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As long as it's only one piece of clothing or an accessory (and I mean "OR" not "and"), it's fine. But any more than that, you're breaking major fashion rules.
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everytime i get out of the shower my hair is really tangled and is hard to brush what can i do (link)
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I have the answer!
I had this problem myself, until my aunt (who is a professional beautician) taught me this trick.
You start from the bottom of your hair brushing, lift your hair up completely and drop some stands at a time. Brush those stands, and once all the tangles are out from those - drop more hair until you're finished. You may want to do this by doing the left side, and then the right side of your head - it's easier that way.
Also, Pantene has a great Detangling Leave-In Conditioner that's pretty cheap too!
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I forgot . How often are you suppose to use it ?
Two times aday? (link)
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Morning and night, all of your information should be on the bottles. =)
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anyone know the name of that movie where that girl has a baby in i think walmart?
she names her americas?
i think i spelt it wrong but yeahh
helpp?? (link)
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*Where The Heart Is*
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Okkay, my boyfriend always says he's going to kiss his girlfriend, & not referring to me, (referring to my other friend) & he goes in to kiss her & I pull him back, I know he is just playing but I would really like him to stop, what should I tell him? (link)
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You should tell him that what he's doing is not funny, and he needs to stop it immediately. Be sure not to play in his hands, by pulling him back, if he does do this again (after or before you tell him to stop). It will only cause the same behavior.
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My boyfriend talks to like 3298493287 girls on myspace, I sent him a comment the other day saying " Hey baby, call me later. " & I looked at his comments & I see all the other girls comments & not mine, like he deleted it.
What should I do? (link)
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This is the internet, which a lot of guys believe they can get away with flirting w/ other girls, without calling it cheating - since it is the internet. However, this situation depends on whether or not he is responding to these girls or not. If he isn't, I wouldn't make a big deal out of it. However, if he is responding with flirtacious comments, I would try asking him about it, if it's bothering you a lot. But try not to freak out too much on him, it could make the situation worse.
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there is this boy i like but he is dating someone but she treats him like ____ i want to get him a rose should i (link)
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I'm going to have to say no to this one, he has a girlfriend - and if you were his girlfriend (even if you treated him like crap), you would still be upset if another girl gave him a rose.
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