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My boyfriend
Okkay, my boyfriend always says he's going to kiss his girlfriend, & not referring to me, (referring to my other friend) & he goes in to kiss her & I pull him back, I know he is just playing but I would really like him to stop, what should I tell him?
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You should tell him that what he's doing is not funny, and he needs to stop it immediately. Be sure not to play in his hands, by pulling him back, if he does do this again (after or before you tell him to stop). It will only cause the same behavior.
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hes just seeing if you will get jealous. Its a guy thing. They just want to see if you will care. And obviously you will so just tell him to stop. thats the only thing you can do
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Tell him to stop.
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Tell him it isn't funny.
Then stop pulling him back. Simply look at him and remind him that you told him it isn't funny and that you aren't laughing.
Once you stop playing the 'game' he should stop it pretty quickly.
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You need to make it clear that even if its just a friend or he's just playing that its not the thing to do. To me it doenst really seem that he is committed and its only hurting you not him oviously. Just talk to him about it first , tell him it doesnt make you feel to sure about [ yalls]
relationship and it makes you mad . Thats the only way ... [ communication ]
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first, bake him brownies. or cookies. or something to start off the conversation on a positive note.
get him somewhere private and say, i made these for you but i want to talk to you about something first.
say, i know you're just kidding when you call so-and-so your girlfriend and pretend to kiss her, but it makes me really uncomfortable and i'd really like it if you didn't do that anymore.
then let him have the brownies.
men are like dogs sometimes, you have to give them an incentive to remember what you say sometimes :]
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You should definitely tell him how much it's bothering you. Let him know that it's not okay, even just jokingly, to kiss one of your friends. If he can't understand this, then he really isn't worth your time.
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