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My boyfriend talks to like 3298493287 girls on myspace, I sent him a comment the other day saying " Hey baby, call me later. " & I looked at his comments & I see all the other girls comments & not mine, like he deleted it.
What should I do?
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This is the internet, which a lot of guys believe they can get away with flirting w/ other girls, without calling it cheating - since it is the internet. However, this situation depends on whether or not he is responding to these girls or not. If he isn't, I wouldn't make a big deal out of it. However, if he is responding with flirtacious comments, I would try asking him about it, if it's bothering you a lot. But try not to freak out too much on him, it could make the situation worse.
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a lot of girls in this situation would get extremely over-dramatic and yell a lot and get into a huge argument with their boyfriend.
you have every right to, but i don't think that would solve your problem, and clearly you have one. your boy isn't respecting you as a person.
you need to get him in a private place where he won't have any distractions and just ask him calmly why he didn't call, like you aren't that concerned. he'll answer, then tell him you noticed that he deleted the comment.
the thing you have to stress to him most is that you aren't mad (though maybe you are), you're just confused about where you two stand.
tell him that you've been feeling really distant, then ask him how he feels about the situation.
you can't get very over-protective of guys, espiecially when they're in middle and high school. their priorities aren't in the right place, and naturally it's not going to last forever.
just make it clear to him that you're not going to be strung along with the title of "girlfriend" if it doesn't mean anything. if he shows no signs of acknowldging your feelings, then you guys should probably seriously consider breaking up.
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it seems to me like he wants to hide he has a relationship , i guess the best to do its to talk to him about this , and explain how you feel like hes hidding this from the other girls maybe cause this will make him easier to flirt with them or anyuthign like that ,,dont let it pass,,i let my boyfriedn do that and gave stupid excuses thousands of times adn it was just worse..what i would do , its do something that ccan make him understand you hide yhour relationship too,,i know not the smartest thing to do but its just what i would do, so he can find out your talkin to lots of guys and not even mentionning you have aboyfriend and then when he complains about it ,,,i'll tell him that how he felt when i did that its how you feel when he deleted your commento hahaha ...but i guess the best advice its to talk to him first but if you're the kind of girl ..like me hahah then do that good luck :) but definatly do something about it.
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