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how do i choose? <3 (kinda long)
Ok, me and my boyfriend have been dating for over a year and we really love each other. But, see, he moved back in January to a town thats really far away from where i live. So, lately my boyfriend and I havent been really connecting like we used to, and its just been awful. I really love him, dont get me wrong, but I've got a huge problem. There's this boy at my school, and he's really my type and he and I have been talking a lot and he wants to date me. I dont want to break up with him but then, hes talking about getting married and he's asked me to marry him and I'm not entirely ready for that. He's my first BIG relationship. I kinda wanna have some different experiences and thats exactly what this other boy is offering...fun, freedom, and no strings. I love my boyfriend, but sometimes I feel smothered...what should i do?
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dude i recently went through this same exact thing. i was in the same position as you, i loved my boyfriend with all my heart, but were young and need to have fun you know, and i did feel very smothered. he asked me to marry him as well, and i had said yes. anyway, i ended up breaking up with him. let me tell you that was the hardest thing ive ever had to do and it still hurts me and him both, and this happened in november, but at the same time its a relief. of course i miss him and what we had, but it feels soo great to not be tied down. i told myself and him, breaking up is inevitable eventually. you cant be with one person forever, and if you were, chances are you'd have broken up with them at least once and then came back. you have to test the waters to know exactly what you want in a relationship. does that mean you and your boyfriend are completely over? no. but you cant strain a relationship just because you're afraid to lose it. especially in the situation where you two arent near each other anymore, because thats a big burden in a young relationship. if youre not ready to break up, try just going on a break. ive had another guy like me since before me and him broke up, and i still cant bring myself to go out with him yet because im not completely over my ex, so no it wont be easy. but its worth the shot and it will get easier. good luck girl!
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let him know how you feel. It sounds like your not ready for marriage. im guessing your young and want to have fun. In your possition i think i would let him go. if it was meant to be it will make its way in the future when your ready. Try dating other guys experience others before you actually comit and then realize what your missing.
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