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Q: Grreeattt. So im deffinitly going through puberty.

I have a dance comin up and im going to wear this strapless dress..
'PROBLEMO

i have a skin problem.

I have acne on my shoulders and my back.

Not serious but i mean visable.

ugh ewwwwwwwwwwwww. i neeed themm goonnee!

advice?
hey i went to the dermatologist for that like a week ago and she told me to go to the pharmacy and get a Benzoyl Peroxide. The pimples on my back are barely there but its cuz i has them seriously. Since you say yours are not that serious i think you should consider this, it will be gone in no time.

hope i helped =]

Q:

it's from like, a few years back.
but it had like a bunch of cereals on it.
like trix and cocoa puffs and lucky charms

does anyone know it? :D
i think your talking about millsberry.com
hope i helped. =]

Q: hi there,

I am currently doing a survey for my college and would like to ask this question on advicenators

Would you as a girl,confess to guy about your feelings first? or would you prefer for the guy to do it?

and why would you prefer the guy or yourself to say it first?

this is in context of assuming that you both are great friends,mutual friends or strangers,,you can reply based on any situation.thanks again!
im a female. 16 years old.

As a female i would really prefer for guys to confess theirs feelings first to avoid myself an embarasment if i do say it and he doesnt feel the same?...also it makes him look like a man, hes really serious and wants a relationship. If he's interested he needs to chase what he wants.

- hope i helped out =].

Q: hi. i am in fact 13/f.
i have such a big bladder problem.
Like i have accidents sometimes.
my mom treats me like such a little kid because of it. She makes me wear pull ups every night!
embarrasing. =|
is there something i can tell her to stop me from having to wear these things.
i swear she thinks i'm like 3.
and i can't ever have a sleepover at my house.
gosh.
i know its embarrasing. = /. when i was your age i had the same thing happening to me. Thats why i feel like i have to answer this. Well now i dont have these accidents but it all improved after i stopped drinking any fluids after 8pm. My mom had me wearing pullups also! which i never told anyone but now here because i know your missery. After i proved to my mom those accidents wouldnt happen thats when she stopped buying them. I didnt even notice but in sometime i was having them little accidents.

Q: what are some really pretty anc omplemmentary colors for girls with brown eyes?

i have brown eyes (not too dark brown) light tan/olive skin (def. gets tanner in summer tho) and medium brown hair.

thanks so much! :)

these are some that go nice with me and from what ive heared we seem to have many things in common.

green
gold
orange
purple
and fushia pink

hope i helped =]

Q: So this guy who I've liked forever is sending some crazy signals. I told him I liked him and he said he liked me too but didn't want a GF. He said to wait untill he did. I said I would. Then he tells me how beautiful I am and how he really wants to kiss me. I tell him I wanna wait before kissing him ebcause I wait my first kiss to be with a boyfriend. He said something about how he really wanted to still. Then the next day he was telling my friend how much he loves her and how he wants to date her. I ask him about it and he said that he meant he liked me as a friend. What should I do?
well if he said the same thing to your friends and said it didnt mean anything that could also what he feels when he tell you things. Truth is if a guy likes you when you tell them you like them they say how they feel and try to do something about it. With him saying he didnt want a girlfriend, i get the sense he just wants someone to mess around with. If you arent looking for this i think you should forget about him.

Hope i helped. =] && i hope you find someone valueable who actually wants to be commited.

Q: ok well this boy i used to like asked me what i would say if he asked me out. which basically means that he likes me right?. well i told him that we didnt talk alot anymore so i ddnt know. i was talking to another boy that i realli liked at the time but now i dont think me and the boy i like have a chance so how do i let the one who texted me know that he can still talk to me like that because i think he got the hint that i didnt like him anymore.?. sory if its confusing.!
you should text him and say something like " you should find out for yourself ;]" make your you flirt with him so he can get the hint that your also interested.

Q: did ashley tisdale get a nose job??
yes, in fact she did.
hope i helped =]

Q:
my friend the other day was saying that her and her boyfriend were having sex in the butt...and the he cummed in her butt. now shes scared she could get pregnant from that. i told her it wasn't true but she keeps worrying and saying that it probably is true.

sooo...heres my question

can you get pregnant if a guy cums when hes inside your butt?
It is not possible to become pregnant from anal sex (inserting the penis into the but). But remember that pregnancy can occur when ejaculate or pre-ejaculate gets in the vagina or on the vulva.

Although pregnancy is not possible from anal sex, keep in mind that it is still very important to use protection during anal sex. Unprotected anal intercourse puts you at high risk for many sexually transmitted infections, including HIV, gonorrhea, and chlamydia. Proper use of condoms can reduce the risk of contracting dangerous infections.

Q: what are the best colleges to go to as a freshmen for fashion merchandising?
well im in Ny dont know where your from but theirs.

F.i.T (the Fashion Institute Of technology)

also theirs The Fashion Institute of Design & Merchandising this is in California though.

...It all depends on where you live or if you are willing to travel..but these are two of the schools i positively can tell you are the best for any type of Fashion career your intrested in.

Q: what are some jobs that have to do with fashion besides being a fashion designer?
theres:

Fashion design.
which varies from either...
-making the clothes
-drawing it(sketch)

Fashion Merchandising.
which would be like having a boutique or w.e and selling trends.

Magazine editorial.
- choose the next it trend.

Model
-actually modeling trends

Fashion Photographer
- like taking the the pictures you see on magazines

=] hope I helped…if you have any further questions feel free to contact me I major in Fashion Design, and in a regularly day basis am exposed to all type of Fashion. I would have to say though its not as easy as it looks it takes a lot of dedication. =]

Q: Okay, I'm looking at losing weight over a long period of time, so it's not just water weight, and it's a healthy weight loss.

I'm not obese. I'm chubby, and I eat healthy most of the time (I don't eat candy or chocolate, I can't have soft drink so I only drink water & flavoured mineral water and I rarely eat junk food) it's just this exercise I need to think of.

What do you think would be better not only for losing weight, but exercise altogether

Doing 15 minutes (time to increase once I start doing it more) of walking up and down a pretty steep hill, and a walk everyday

or

Doing that exercise where you lie on the ground, lift your legs up and then lower them but don't touch the ground for 5 minutes (time to increase once I start doing it more) and going for a walk everyday
i think choice would would be better. One it will get your heart pumping and you will sweat. choice two sounds something people would do to tone their legs.

hope i helped =]

Q: So I got a new shirt for Easter, and I wanted to know what would be some cute ways to wear it.
Layers, etc etc. I just want some opinions on how other people would wear it.

(http://www.hollisterco.com/hol/images/store/collection/18181_02_l.jpg)
i would wear it with like a color tanktop under so that it shows in the v cut it has the front. thats how i would wear it, hope i helped =]

Q: Hi, well i have this really bad habit of eating loads of food when not needed and i cant get out of it, i find it incredibly hard. I am not exactly fat but i am gaining quite a bit of weight now pretty much everywhere and i have love handles which i HATE so much!! I cant go to a gym yet because im not 16 and i dont like running on my own and my friend who i usually run with is so annoying and never does it anymore. Its just so fustrating i dont know how to control my eating habits and how to exercise and how long to do it for any advice would be great thanks =] x
you cant go to the gym? im 15 and i go to the gym. You should try lucille roberts thats where i go. Uhmm well i know exactly how you feel i sort of had the same problem but found a solution. It doesnt really matter how much you eat actually eating alot is good because it doesnt slow up your metabolism. =] The thing is how do you plan on excersising the calories. In order to loose weight you have to excersise more calories than the amout your taking in daily. I suggest you eat things that dont have many calories. Like fruits? and stuff. Also about your friend not going to run with you, i think you should find someone who is overweight and wants to something about it im sure they would do it with you. Maybe your friend slacks on the running because she feels good about her body? but yeah hope i helped =] if anything other problems, you can always contact me. =D

Q: well what is something i could give my bf when i move? i want to make a memory scrapbook thing but something else that he can remember me by. im giving my bffs rings or those little token things but i dont know what to do for him. cause those are more for girls arent they? thanks so much :)
some ideas are you can give him

- a perfume you wear alot. everytime he smells it, hell be reminded of you.

- pictures of you two

thoose are the two i would do hope i helped. =]

Q: I like this kid...and I think he MIGHT like me back...Well here's the story...I catch him staring at me ALOT and he always talks to me. He's never had a girlfriend but my friend asks him who he likes and if he would ever go out with me and stuff like that. but today when my friend told him to ask me out he said why? does she want me to? no!...well guys does he like me?
theres alot of hints that he's interested. Flirt with him, he should get the idea. It sounds like hes scared to say anything you know fearing rejection. I suggest you let him know the deal make it clear that you are interested also. good luck! =D.

Q: you know how people veiw your pics on myspace. well is there any way possible i can have music playing when they veiw them?


much appreciated. :]
yeah you can get a code of any music you like and post the code as a comment to yourself on the picture you want it to play. =]

get music codes from: www.imeem.com theres many more but thats the one i use. =]

Q: Ok, me and my boyfriend have been dating for over a year and we really love each other. But, see, he moved back in January to a town thats really far away from where i live. So, lately my boyfriend and I havent been really connecting like we used to, and its just been awful. I really love him, dont get me wrong, but I've got a huge problem. There's this boy at my school, and he's really my type and he and I have been talking a lot and he wants to date me. I dont want to break up with him but then, hes talking about getting married and he's asked me to marry him and I'm not entirely ready for that. He's my first BIG relationship. I kinda wanna have some different experiences and thats exactly what this other boy is offering...fun, freedom, and no strings. I love my boyfriend, but sometimes I feel smothered...what should i do?
let him know how you feel. It sounds like your not ready for marriage. im guessing your young and want to have fun. In your possition i think i would let him go. if it was meant to be it will make its way in the future when your ready. Try dating other guys experience others before you actually comit and then realize what your missing.

Q: ok i dont have internet on my razor is there a possible way to get music. i have quad band gsm technolgy thanks.
hey i have the razor also. well i downloaded some program called motorola phone tools and i conect the razor to my computer and can transfer any song i want for free. hope i helped. =]

you could get it by downloading it at: download.com

Q: so today i was taking random pictures and the flash was VERY bright even if i set the flash on low. so then all of a sudden the flash wouldnt even go on and it even said flash was on, even when i put it on high. so now its not working, and i just got it for christmas and i dont really want to tell me dad cause hes gonna kill me.. what should i do? oh and its not the settings or whatever.
ooo that happened to me and i took the camera to the place where i had bought it but they told me that i had put the flash on automatic and that where i was talking pictures didnt need the flash. i suggest you make sure its not on automatic. If thats not the problem take it to any store they sell cameras and ask them if they can help.

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