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girls!!!...i'm doing a survey,,need your answers pls.
hi there,
I am currently doing a survey for my college and would like to ask this question on advicenators
Would you as a girl,confess to guy about your feelings first? or would you prefer for the guy to do it?
and why would you prefer the guy or yourself to say it first?
this is in context of assuming that you both are great friends,mutual friends or strangers,,you can reply based on any situation.thanks again!
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I would prefer a guy to actually acknowledge the feelings first, but girls should hint at it so the guys have a reason to let them know, I guess, if that makes sense?
Why?
Personally, I'm terrified of rejection and being hurt. In general? I think a lot of girls are just shy, and maybe even afraid like myself.
-Laura. (15-f)
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Generally, I would prefer the guy to do it first. I would be apprehensive about telling him my feelings first because I wouldn't know if he would return them. And, if the guy tells me first, I'll then open up and tell him how I feel about him.
However, if we were talking about my best, best, best guy friend, I might be the one to share my feelings first just because I'm so comfortable with him.
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Either as great friends, mutal or strangers, I would be the one to confess my feelings first. In this day and age women are getting stronger, more intellegent, and more independant. I would believe that most WOMEN such as myself see what they want and have no problems going after it. Life is to short to be afraid to hold anything back or be hesitant, the chance just might pass you by. Hopefully this helped a little bit.
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In the case of me aand my boyfriend we were mutual friends and i told him how i felt first even though he liked me too. However i would've prefered him to have told me his feelings and he be the one to ask me out. I only like that a boy ask a girl because it's old fashioned and romantic, not because i'm shy... but he can't do it then i'm not going to miss the oppurtunity to be with him.
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I am pretty outgoing, but if theres one thing Im too shy to do is tell a guy I like him before he tells me he does. I would deffinately prefer a guy to say it first, especially if your friends cause I wouldnt accidnetly want to ruin our friendship.
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let the guy go first!if a guy really likes agirl he can build up the courage to confess his feelings first.thats just the way its supposed to be.i mean not that im saying a girl cant make the first move but i wouldnt.you need to let the guys come to you.if you ask a guy it may make you look desperate plus alot of guys wouldjust say yes because they want a girlfriend or some pretty girl to put their arm around but girls are different[most anyway],they have self control,if they dont like a guy they will say it in the nicest way possible.ya know what i mean?if your great friends you have to hint at it or flirt excessively so they know you like them.and if your strangers,who cares?!alot of times people have alot more self confidence knowing they may never see them again.
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i mean im a very shy girl when it comes to guys and i think if it was a guy that i really really had feelings for i would tell him first i would just tell him how i feel because if i dont he'll never know xoxo gossipbabe
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As a girl, I had always desired the guy to confess his feelings first, I was very shy and tepid.
But, as a woman *wink*, it's different, I still prefer to be "pursued" as it is the way of feminine wiles *laugh*.
But now, I also watch his body language, his mannerisms around others (Does he exclaim to others in my presence how much he adores me? Does he sit possessively close when in social situations with his closest friends and around other women?), among other things..(ie. the eyes are the windows to the soul *smile*), etc,..and then decide whether I might want to make the "jump" first.
Good luck on that survey *smile*
Jasmine
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I would like if the boy would confess his feelings first because im really shy. But if i was good friends with him and he seemed interested and wasent saying anything i would tell him before somone else did.
I hope this helps your survey!!
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Though might having to wait much longer, In my opinion i would much rather wait for the guy to confess first, because if he does it first and you like him than it can all work out. But if you would confess first and the guy doesnt have the same feeling you are left to feel embarrassed and such.
Hope I Helped =]
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im a female. 16 years old.
As a female i would really prefer for guys to confess theirs feelings first to avoid myself an embarasment if i do say it and he doesnt feel the same?...also it makes him look like a man, hes really serious and wants a relationship. If he's interested he needs to chase what he wants.
- hope i helped out =].
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hi :).
well, i as a girl personaly like the guy to say his feelings first.. no matter if we're friends or strangers etc... i do tell a guy i like him first if i feel comfortable enough and im sure that he's not a jerk. why would i want a guy to say it first? i wouldn't want to feel like im the only one feeling something. not all guys, but most guys tend to keep feelings inside them, and not show them... whereas if a guy REALLY likes a girl and shares hi feelings, im 100% sure i;d give him a striaght and clear answer... hope i helped!
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