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hi there,
I am currently doing a survey for my college and would like to ask this question on advicenators
Would you as a girl,confess to guy about your feelings first? or would you prefer for the guy to do it?
and why would you prefer the guy or yourself to say it first?
this is in context of assuming that you both are great friends,mutual friends or strangers,,you can reply based on any situation.thanks again! (link)
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In the case of me aand my boyfriend we were mutual friends and i told him how i felt first even though he liked me too. However i would've prefered him to have told me his feelings and he be the one to ask me out. I only like that a boy ask a girl because it's old fashioned and romantic, not because i'm shy... but he can't do it then i'm not going to miss the oppurtunity to be with him.
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ok.... so i yesterday i could see it in my friends eyes that she was keeping something from me. So I calmly talked to her about and she told me that her boyfriend (my x'friend) made fun of her two best friends. He said that I was fat and he said that Melonhead was a lesbian and had bad hair. He was already a jerk but I just couldn't take this anymore. I was going to talk to him about it but I cant because Katie promised him she wouldn't tell that he made fun of us. So now, pease dont judge me but i told her that she had to choose... would she rather have a friend or a boyfriend. That sounds rude but I am just offended that my best friend would go out with a creep that makes fun of me. I am sorry that this is so long but please help me.
thank you (link)
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Well here's the thing your wrong for making her choose. however she's very wrong for dating a guy who would disrepect her friends like that, and in a way by disrespecting you, he is disrespecting her. so let her know that she's dating someone who's a waste of her time and way below her. Don't just come right out and say it's me or him, because that will turn her against you. talk to her, tell her she needs to be with someone who appreciates her and can get along with her friends. hope this is some help.
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A few days ago I had thrown a sleep over.
I invited my two best friends and they wanted to invite this girl from school. She's the 'most popular' you could say.(We'll call her pop girl)
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So, the pop. girl said yes and everyone was able to come. So we were all having a pretty good time. It was like 1 am and I started getting tired. I drifted off on accident and the rest of the girls stayed awake. In the morning they were all laughing at me and making strange faces. I said, "What's the joke?". They laughed even harder. Then, out of nowhere the popular girl pulled out a package of goodnites (training pants) and a pair of barbie underwear.I have a bad bedwetting problem, but I was pretty confident with goodnites. This week when my mom went shopping, she could only find the underwear styles ones (they look like pull ups), and not the boxers I usually get! Anyways, the underwear was actually my little sister's. My mom must have put it with my stuff on accident. So, there I stood humiliated. I tried to explain about the underwear and I lied about the goodnites, but they didn't believe me. =\! So now the pop girl and even my 2 besties are telling everyone in school. HELP! Why would my besties turn on me? What should I do. I tried confronting the pop girl at school and she just laughed at me.
-thanks. (link)
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I know that this is going to be hard, but it's best if you be the bigger person in this. yeah it would be really great to just bitch her out and let her have it, but that's what girls at this age want. Not all of them, no just the drama consumed wastes. She is the type of girl who wants to make you miserable either out of her own insecurities or boredom. Either way she's a horrible person. Ignore her and what people say, tell her you've out grown the the age she wallows in and she should grow up and find more productive things to do. As for your friends they weren't good friends to begin with if they'd turn on you that easily, so ditch them. Find people who will like you the way you are. Having a bed wetting problem is nothing to be ashamed of anyways it doesn't make you alittle kid, it just means you have an overactive bladder, and if your friends and the popular girl can't handle something like urine, then they should just go back to kindergarten where potty jokes are funny. your way better then them so don't retaliate you'll prove you're more mature, and if they don't leave you alone go to a guidance counselor. i hope this helps you out. Good Luck :]
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ok wll this morining in 3rd period health i was txtin my b.f and i said to him
:i think we should break up this isnt going well'
he said are u serious?
and i wa slike yes sorry
and then right after i was like APRIL FOOLS BABY
and he said ok w.e and the said w.e im done with this shit hope you have fun being single (link)
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Well the way he sees it that you were able to take your relationship together as a joke, and he's disgusted at the idea that you'd hurt him like that, whether it was intentional or not. He doesn't think you're taking your relationship seriously. You may have known this much already, but it's best to understand the others feelings. So you have to prove to him how much he means to you and show that you take your relationship seriously and are determined to get him back. Well you can't prove all of that in a text message, or even on the phone. Being face to face so he can see your emotions and know you're being honest. As for the distance inconvenience, you may have to wait or get a ride some how. Make him something like a card, alot of guys find it cute when a girlfriend does that for them and they appreciate it more than something you could go out and buy. hope this helps you somehow. good luck!
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