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Ahg! why would they do this!?
A few days ago I had thrown a sleep over.
I invited my two best friends and they wanted to invite this girl from school. She's the 'most popular' you could say.(We'll call her pop girl)
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So, the pop. girl said yes and everyone was able to come. So we were all having a pretty good time. It was like 1 am and I started getting tired. I drifted off on accident and the rest of the girls stayed awake. In the morning they were all laughing at me and making strange faces. I said, "What's the joke?". They laughed even harder. Then, out of nowhere the popular girl pulled out a package of goodnites (training pants) and a pair of barbie underwear.I have a bad bedwetting problem, but I was pretty confident with goodnites. This week when my mom went shopping, she could only find the underwear styles ones (they look like pull ups), and not the boxers I usually get! Anyways, the underwear was actually my little sister's. My mom must have put it with my stuff on accident. So, there I stood humiliated. I tried to explain about the underwear and I lied about the goodnites, but they didn't believe me. =\! So now the pop girl and even my 2 besties are telling everyone in school. HELP! Why would my besties turn on me? What should I do. I tried confronting the pop girl at school and she just laughed at me.
-thanks.
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Well, first off, i think your two best friends should be more supportive of you and stand up for you if they are in fact your best friends. This is nothing to be ashamed of. We all have inperfections and whether it was your training pants or not should not matter to your true friends, and they should care how you feel when you are getting made fun of for it. As for "pop girl" she sounds like a HUGE LOSER and it is not worth your time to give her any of your attention. Someone who needs to make fun of someone else and spread rumors are insecure about themselves. One day she will be at the other end of it and know how she made other people feel. My advice would be to sit down and have a talk with your bestfriends and tell them honestly how they made you feel really bad, and ask them why they did it. chances are they just want to be popular like that other b**ch, but this will not help them get there. And definately ignore pop girl, she is not worth it. Decide if these two girls are really your true friends, because true friends don't hurt eachother. good luck, and don't feel bad, you are perfectly normal and the better person in this situation. Just remember never to do this to someone else.
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I know that this is going to be hard, but it's best if you be the bigger person in this. yeah it would be really great to just bitch her out and let her have it, but that's what girls at this age want. Not all of them, no just the drama consumed wastes. She is the type of girl who wants to make you miserable either out of her own insecurities or boredom. Either way she's a horrible person. Ignore her and what people say, tell her you've out grown the the age she wallows in and she should grow up and find more productive things to do. As for your friends they weren't good friends to begin with if they'd turn on you that easily, so ditch them. Find people who will like you the way you are. Having a bed wetting problem is nothing to be ashamed of anyways it doesn't make you alittle kid, it just means you have an overactive bladder, and if your friends and the popular girl can't handle something like urine, then they should just go back to kindergarten where potty jokes are funny. your way better then them so don't retaliate you'll prove you're more mature, and if they don't leave you alone go to a guidance counselor. i hope this helps you out. Good Luck :]
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