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I'm a 23 year old girl
This is important ,...I love my bf with all my heart but it seems like I completley lost interest in sex .
To be honest I never was interested to have sex with any one ,....I do love him but I just don't want people to get close to me ..I DON'T LIKE THAT.When he is on top of me I get sick and very uncomfortable and sometimes want even to cry ....But I never told him nothing
I hate the fact that I can't satisfy him ,since I always has an excuse or come home very late just to escape from the occassion....
I want to stop feeling this way ,.....The problem is me not him
Tell me what to do ....,
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Your not alone. Some girls just aren't into sex. The reasons are because bad experience or your uncomfortable. That is totally fine!
It's your choice, do you want to make love to your bf but your uncomfortable? Or you don't want to make it at all, even though if your no uncomfortable.
Your not sexually active, which I consider normal. There are people are like that! Just sit down at the dinner table and discuss with your bf. If he loves you, he will understand your reasons. Open out to him, he needs to know. You don't want him to wonder why you don't like sex. If he was a true man, also, he won't go searching for sex. Sex is a minor thing but over the years, it's become more major because people put porn on the internet, which stimulate young people into doing it and they grow up with that.
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How do I tell my bf that I don't want to have sex with him? I don't want him to be hurt.. (link)
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Does your boyfriend care for you? Does he love you? If he does, just tell him your not ready. A real man will say, i'm fine with that. If he says hes dumping you, that's his fault. Men are so stupid! Don't feel like it's your fault, it's his fault. Hopefully, he will understand, and do it when you are comfortable and ready. Maybe your boyfriend just wants sex from you...you don't want to be used, right?
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Hey =) well there's this song that I have been wondering who sings it and what it's called. Here are some of the words...
This is the story of a girl
Who cried a river that drowned the whole world
And when she looked so sad in photographs
I absolutely loved her-when she smiled
sorry...that's all I know. If you all could please tell me the name of the song and who it's by I would greatly appreciate it! Thanks (link)
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A story of a girl by 3 doors down!
I Love that song.
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When buying hair prodcuts, would it be cheaper at wal mart or shoppers drug mart? (link)
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I prefer Wal-Mart. They have good quantity, price, and product.. Your choice.
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Hey. I was just curious as to how people get the gold stars. Like when I was looking up some columnists some had one gold star. Does it mean they answered like a lot of questions or that they've been on advicenators for a really long time? I'm just pretty curious. Thanks so much in advance help is really appreciated! =) (link)
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they just pay ten dollars a year for it....... it comes with the paid account.
http://www.advicenators.com/paidaccounts.php
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i really didn't know what cagtagory to put this in but...
whats wrong with using all capital letters. why could you be banned if you do it. i just wanna know whats so bad about it
thanks (link)
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usually when you type in capital letters the people (or person) reading it thinks that you sre yelling at them.
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when i go to my itunes&have my ipod plugged in, there`s the area where it says what`s taking up the memory. in my memory area, it has 14.6 mb of other stuff. what other stuff is it ? &how do i get rid of it so i can put more songs instead ? (link)
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the other stuff is like the games or like if you have notes or peoples names and phone numbers in it. to delete it you just go to like games (if thats what you have) and delete the games.
how is this a 3?! my dad works at apple (you no where they sell ipods, and hes the manager and like fixes ppls things if they mess up) so i should know.
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19/F
Ok this seems long and soap-opera-ish but please bear with me. I’ve gotten rid of some of the details to make it shorter but please tell me if it isn’t clear enough. And please don't rant at me about being a cheating b**** or anything. I know I am a bad bad person. I just need you to tell me what to do.
Nate has always been the typical "rich bad boy" type. He gets a pack mentality when he is with his boys so he’s labeled an official ***hole. He's had a pretty bad past and when you get him alone, he’s different. He and I go a few years back when I wasn't into the party scene, and it got around that he "wanted" me. I shot that down and he gave up. I've been intrigued by him (i.e. had a crush on him) and we always used to exchange looks all the time at school and parties and I could feel the sizzles (but wasn’t sure it was mutual). Only last year did we start talking a bit inside and outside school. Then I finished school and didn’t see him.
In May, I met Blake. He’s ridiculously good-looking, the sweetest guy ever, and a cook. I didn’t think he was into me so I backed off then recently, Blake started showing interest in me and I was thrilled. We were perfect for each other, our life goals and views were the same, we had minor arguments sometimes, which ended with practically no resentment on either end, and we always made up quickly. It was the perfect relationship. I was still a virgin but he understood because he had only been with one chick (his year-long girlfriend in grade 11).
End of last year, Nate and I ended up at a party together. I was hammered out of my mind and we had sex in a bedroom. It was harsh to the point that he did it, shoved me away and left. I was broken after. Eventually, I told Blake and he was mostly sad for me and he did whatever he could to make me feel better. Including sex and it was just like the rest of our relationship, comfortable.
Then one day, Nate showed up at my house after I saw him at the mall and went home all shaken up. We had sex. We have had sex about five times now altogether. Usually it’s when I’m vunerable. It’s pretty much casual sex but it is explosive as in really really hot, stuff I thought didn’t exist outside novels. Blake and I haven’t even come close, even though there is some sizzle, it isn’t comparable. Told Blake once and he was mad but he came back and told me he’d still have me and he didn’t understand. Usually Nate just has sex with me and sticks around for a while and leaves but one time, he actually stayed after and kissed my face and stuff.
This is what confuses me. Blake and I are perfect for each other and it’s not a completely devoid of sexual drive either but when I’m with Nate, it feels right like it’s exactly where I belong.
I’m just so afraid of hurting Blake. I want to stay with him but at the same time, I feel like puking when I think about what a disgusting unfaithful slut I’m being. And I’m pretty sure Nate doesn’t want a relationship. I just don’t know what to do anymore. I don’t want to look back twenty years from now and regret it. I know that bad boy’s can’t be tamed but I know his history and I kind of still ache for Nate but Blake is just perfect.
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You are not a slut and you are not a bitch either. You just proove the theory that girls always end up with the bad guy in real life.
For your own well being and Blakes of course you should learn a couple of stuff.
1)Its not always about rainbows and Butterflies, its compromise. You shouldn t be that eager to sell him out in an instance, control yourself.
2)Dont think about yourself that much. Trust me, its girls like you that end up really really miserable in their life.
Its good to have many people inside your heart but when people attached to your heart leave you, you ll remain empty.
But I also think that Blake is not perfect. Maybe he should be a little bit more of a man, tell you to shut up every now and then and help you get your shit together. I dont know many "perfect" man that would take their girl back that easily after such a thing. And pretty much most of the real men in his place would kick Nates ass at least twice a weak. Unless... he does not care that much about you to bother. Maybe he lucks the passion.
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My brother has a rare disease that was caused by dieting and no doctor was able to cure it.When I learnt that cancer patients who were given something they thuoght would help them recover, that was not really a medicine actually helped them.I made up this fake medicine and he didn't think it would work but he never suspected that it was not real.Please help me find a software that enables me to create a fake web page that exists only on our computer. (link)
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Placebo is the word you are looking for.
If you cant make a page online and cant make it look realistic through photoshop and all you could try making fake documents. Like a shit load of papers that are some doctors (globally famous) latest work presented in a seminar with doctors from all around the world etc.
Use your imagination.
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do wicca spells really work? has anyone performed a love spell and did it work?? any feedback would be nice. thanks (link)
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If they did work, then half the female population of Earth would be married to Brad Pitt now.
Nope it doesn t.
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Hey.. i'm a girl and i used to look at porn, but i'm really trying to stop. and i want to masturbate, but is there any other way then actually having sex and sticking things "up there"? i mean, i've tried fantasizing.. but it doesn't work.. will rate high thanx!! (link)
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I use lip gloss. Some have round ends and practice with that. When you are older, buy a vibrator.
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when im making out with my boyfriend and messing around i get really wet like alot of it and is there anyway to prevent not getting so wet because when we have sex it sometimes makes noises ; can i prevent the noises ? (link)
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No, guys do like the sound, just like when they like women making noise. It makes the nosie because your wet, making it easier for the penis to insert into the vagina. Have you ever did sex when you aren't wet...kind of difficult.
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This is my second year running track. I was in the store buying some more track shoes and I saw a young man trying them on without socks. I have never ran without socks and I wanted to know if it was a difference? Thank you for you help in advance! (link)
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don't run w/out socks because it makes ur feet/shoes smell and your feet get blisters, when my little brother was little he went to the playgroung and didn't wear socks, and he got huge blisters.
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I don't understand how to tell if a girl is flirting with you/likes you...My friends tell me all sorts of different things, and I would like to hear what some advice givers have to say... (link)
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There are hundreds of ways a girl is flirting with you.
If the girl is shy, she would:
1. Not talk to you because she is to scared.
2. Might follow you..don't consider this stalking.
3. Will like to be in the same with you.
4. Calls you and hangs up when you say hello
If the girl is hyper, she would:
1. Talks to you a lot
2. Is loud when she is around you
3. Becomes friends with your friends.
4. Calls you a few times and just wants to listen to you say, "hello...hello? or wants to know more about you
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ok its really bothering me. does anyone know the song name for the KIA car commercial it has the weird people in a group swinging back and forth singing a song. they might be saying "earth to sunshine" and theres a rainbow. whats that song??
PLEASE HELP ME GET IT OUT OF MY HEAD. (link)
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The 5th Dimension - Let the sun shine in
I'm not sure if thats the song, because i've never seen the advert but if its not then I'll try my best to find it
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hey i'm going to middle school next yer and i'm freaking what's going to happen between me and my friends. Are boys going to start likeing me and those school dances. I can't take it i'm so scared what's going to happen to me help please. (link)
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The girls start getting more annoying, and they try to be preppy. But it just makes the older people hate them. The guys start trying to think they are cool, but they just act weird. Middle School is a tough time, everyone is trying to find out who they are. Don't go insane and ruin your reputation, just play it cool. I can't be very specific because I don't know anything about you.
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16/F
When someone has a boyfriend, how long should it be before they begin to "french kiss"? My boyfriend and I have been going out for about a month, maybe a little more. The other night, when he was dropping me off, he began to kiss me. Now, don't get me wrong, I am fine with a quick peck on the lips. But he opened up my mouth! I felt a little uncomfortable, but I let it go... until he started to use his tongue! I told him he was going WAY too fast. Did I do the right thing? (link)
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I personally think it should be no longer than a week before making out, becuase its a fun flirty way to show you care! i could tooottaaalllyyy see why you got freaked out i guess... but its seriously noo big deal and if you want to take it slow you should!
i think its good that you know what your comfortable with, because i have friends that give handis and bjs in like 2-3 weeks. good for you!!
honestly i dont think frenching is a big deal, but don't do it if your not comfortable with it, cuz then it'll be an awkward kiss! and you dont your first french with him to be bad!!
*****yea so you asked what handis and bjs are... hand jobs and blowjobs (oral)
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Is lime wire illegal?? because its pretty much like illegal downloading isnt it. i just want to know so i dont get busted for using it thanx
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its legal to download it, but its illegal to download songs/videos you dont par for... you can buy songs on it too, but most people just download free songs (which is illegal)
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what exactly does sketchy mean? (link)
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at my school sketchy is nothing close to nottoworrys answer... with my friends it means shady, creepy, you know like if you saw a man in a tenchcoat in an alley way that would be a sketchy situation. i dunno thats how everybody i know (from diff schools too) say it...? so yea just like shady character or somethign =]
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how do i get myspace layouts and where do i get them? im new at myspace.
ex_oh (link)
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whateverlife.com layoutsduh.com
mygirlyspace.com
hotfreelayouts.com
freeuniquelayouts.com
createblog.com
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