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Whats the difference between 'making love' and having sex?? thanks..

No difference. 'Making love' is just a nicer, less perveted way of saying having sex.

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Can you get a girl pregnet after haveing butt sex with her and some cum drips on to her vagina

Umm yeah..

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I'm 13/m in jr high and I was wondering, how old is an appropriate age for sex? I've heard of people my age that have had sex, but I don't think 13 is an appropriate age, so..... how old should you be to have sex?

Whenever you find the right guy. Some people say after marraige, after the age of 16, after 18, it's all up to the person doing it.

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okay well, im well, sorta prude? i guess. i feel fine kissing, getting felt up, hangjob, you know that. but ive never been fingurd, aten out and im a virgin.i feel that i am sort of missing out? on something. and since i am attracted to older guys they will except all that from me. and i just get scared. im not very confident in myself down there and i dont know what a vagina is suppposed to look like and what if mine is gross? i dont know. i want to be in a relationship, and this stuff in the long run is goig to affect itt.

If a guy really loves you, by you telling him you don't want to do that stuff shouldn't affect your relationship. Don't do anything unless you feel 100% ready.

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I'm a 15 year old female.
I have had sex before, but it wasn't a good experience... of course.
IT seems like ever since, I have completely lost my sex drive.

Help?

That's why (because it wasn't a good experience). That's happened to me after I was fingered once. Then after you do it a few times, it will get better.

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Alright...weird question..but oh well. My boyfriend always likes to like suck on my nipples...(heh)...and now like a week later I have a weird scab thing and its never happened before..and we've been together to a year..so umm why did this happen now?

Sounds like a hickey to me.

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ok look i shave down there and wen i do like a day after there is red bumps and they hurt a lil like wen i put on my jeans and i do use shaving cream and soap wen i dont have any

Razor burn. Make sure you use a new razor, that you are all lathered up down there, and make sure you go with the hair. If you go against the way it's growing, you'll get razor burn.

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Hi!! im new to this website and Im 15 years old. I was just wondering if I should shave my vagina or do I leave it like it is. I have never been told yes or no, and I am too embarassed to ask. Thanks...I will rate high.

It's your choice. If you feel more comfortable, then do it. I do it. I think it feels alot better and more clean.

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Is it normal to not be able to get over the guy you lost your virginity to? I lost mine to an asshole who completely used me as a bet and lied about how he was a virgin and "wanted to loose his virginity to me too" I can't get over him. It's making me depressed and I don't know if I'm overreacting or what?

Yeah it's normal. That's why people say wait for the one that you fall in love with. It's a big emotional jump for you. You are never going to forget who you did it with. Him making a bet about it all isn't making it better. I'm sorry you have to go through all of this. You aren't overreacting though.

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I am a sophmore in highschool and I have been starting to talk to my old elementary school friend/ kinda of middle school boyfriend. His name is Tommie and i have known him forever. He now talks to be online alot and clearly is sort of interested but he is just so stupid! I mean he is really smart in school but is common sense towards girls is completly terrible. Me and my friends always ask him to come hangout or whatever and hes like yeaaa, then oh i cant go out.. i dont know. i am starting to like him and if i talk to him online later what should i say? good conversation starters/ how can i kind of tell him how i feel?

thankss alot

It just seems like he's shy. It's obvious he doesn't have alot of experience with girls. Bring up how you guys used to date in the past. Ask him to hang out to get to know him better. You can also ask him who he likes. If he asks you back, you can like put a wink or something. If he doesn't get the hint then yea, he is pretty stupid lol. But you can just flat out tell him that you like him, what have you got to lose?

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Is it wrong for me to like an older man? I'm 16 and he's 32, but he's really good in bed.

Personally, I don't think so. My boyfriend is 4 years older than I am. Even still, people look down upon that. A lot of people will probably say things to you about it, but if you like him, I don't see anything wrong with it.

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What shampoo do you think smells the best, but still delivers a kick-ass wash?

I rate high :)

Pantene Pro V or Herbel Essences

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can soccer improve your flexability? if it does how would it?

Sure it does. You have to stretch before you run. Then running you stretch out your legs and they become more flexible over time.

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For the gals--

what stars do you dream about and whats the best part about them {physicly]? keep in mind im only 13 so i cant have mustaches or anything like that.

PS:have you ever heard of drake bell? I like his old hairdo.

Tom Welling.

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hey guys.. well pretty soon my friend is having a keg party(drinking) and inviting everyone because her moms going to be out of town that night.. and i want to go but im scared that the cops will come and we all will get busted.. shes done a lot before and never gotten caught by her mom or anything but since its this big of a party im not sure if i should go or not it would be a ton of fun but i dont want to get totally screwed.. so let me know what i should do, thanks...

If everyone knows about it, you might get caught. Just because she never got caught before doesn't mean that she can't. Even if you go to the party but weren't drinking, you can still get in trouble.

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There's this boy that I've known ever since 5th grade (we are in 9th grade) we are very close besides the fact that I NEVER SPENT TIME WITH HIM BESIDES SCHOOL!!! Yea we would talk on the phone, text and stuff but, I would LOVE to go somewhere with him one day but there are 2 problems:

1.) I am afraid that if I am alone with him, he might put the moves on me and we might have sex! (Only a kiss will do)

2.) I am afraid that if I go to the movies with him or something, that he might try and play me by taking me somewhere far, leaving me alone or embarrassing me.

What can I do to overcome my shyness and how do I explain to him that I am shy?

P.S. I gave him some excuses! I don't want to seem like a liar or that I don't want to be with him because I DO! it would be like a DATE or something.. My FIRST date!

If you are soo close to him and know him soo well, you'd know that he wouldn't embarrass you or leave you alone. If he tries to put moves on you, tell him no.

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Ok~~ im 13 years old and im a girl lol~~well anyways have a boyfriend~ we've been going out for almost a month now~~ but he's a year younger than me and next year ill be in high school and he will be in middle school still~~ and i dont know wut to do because now football is almost over and that is the only time i see him~~ plus i sorta like another guy~ but i still love him help me i dont know wut to do~ please-- Jada

Obviously you don't love him if you can't make time to see him other than football and if you like someone else.

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There are a lot of really ugly girls at my school (( not to be mean to them becasue I think I'm ugly too )) that get really hott boyfriends, and some of them are juniors and seniors. I'm a freshman and I really want someone but I cant get anyone... ever... Can anyone help me? My friend Says I need to be more confident... HELP!

Yea you should be more confident. Sorry to break it to you, but guys don't go just for looks. You have so much time to put other people down calling them ugly when you could be out there talking to guys.

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What is fasting all about, and how's it done?
I know loads of girls at school that are talking about fasts all the time (not that I'm thinking of starving myself or anything for the sake of being thin, I'm just curious)

I heard my friend tell her cousin she was gonna do a 5 day fast and her cousin asked her how she lasted so long on a fast so I'm guessing it's got to do with not eating.

Yea fasting is pretty much just not eating for as long as you can. All they do is drink water or something.

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umm is stealing street sign illegal, like a stop sign or a name of a street, i think i know the answer but if you could help id appreciate it

Yea I think you can get in a lot of trouble for it too.

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