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I can't get anyone... HELP!
There are a lot of really ugly girls at my school (( not to be mean to them becasue I think I'm ugly too )) that get really hott boyfriends, and some of them are juniors and seniors. I'm a freshman and I really want someone but I cant get anyone... ever... Can anyone help me? My friend Says I need to be more confident... HELP!
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its ok for people to tell you to be confident.. but its not as easy doing it! so i wont say to you 'Be confident!' b/c its not that simple, i know. so what i will say to you is be yourself! that may sound really cheesy but its true. & not all guys just want to go with you for your looks, as im sure is proved if a lot of ugly girls have boyfriends!
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You think that you are ugly, but want others to find you attractive? Plus you are comparing yourself to other older girls with more life experience. That is a recipe of success if I ever saw one....ok, I lied a little. There is a difference between being fat and being ugly. I got news for you, even the most attractive person can be made ugly by being an embarassment to breathing. If they are as ugly as you say they are, you can lose the weight, but they will always be ugly. Its not the most mature thing, but if it makes you feel better...
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ok first off ive seen tha same thing and its all because of the way someone acts and it won't matter what they look like at all. You really do need confidence so stop saying that you're ugly if you see yourself in a better way other people will too and you'll have a hot boyfriend before u know it.
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Guys don't just look at looks they look at confidence, personality, and other things too. You're probably not ugly; you just need confidence. Not all guys just see looks. (Some do sadly)
x0brittany0x <3 hope I helped!
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Try meeting people from different schools. I kinda had that problem too; it turns out that there was nothing wrong with me. The people at my school just sucked. lol.
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Yea you should be more confident. Sorry to break it to you, but guys don't go just for looks. You have so much time to put other people down calling them ugly when you could be out there talking to guys.
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You do need to be more confident. But it shouldnt matter to the other person if you cute or not it should matter whats on the inside(im sure youve heard this before but its the truth!) Also i know that you want a bf but u have to be patient! It will happen edventually!
Hope i helped!
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If you do not like yourself or your looks why expect anyone else to? Guys and for that matter anyone else can spot the person with self-image problems and they stay clear. You need to learn to like yourself and see you are not ugly and that your perception of self is screwing up everything.
Once you love yourself, get confident and enjoy things and let unfoldment happen you will find yourself with more than what you desired. Stop trying too hard also.
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You may not have someone now but you will. I know there are people you cant believe are hooking up. You will have your chance at getting someone. Just be patient. Someone will notice you. Maybe you should get involved in an activity or something. You can meet new people that way. Maybe someone very special. Also getting someone is not the most important thing right now.
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