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is it weird for an 8th grader to be friends with a 6th grader? and not just friends like hey, friends like hanging out after school and going to birthday parties. thanks.

erm, well it is a bit odd but i think its okay, but you still should have friends your own age. If you have no friends that you hang out with your own age, that is weird and you should try to make friends with people your age. But otherwise, its okay to be friends with a sixth grader.

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hey umm i no this sounds wrong, but i think i really like my cousin. i dont know what to do, i mean hes family and all and he lives like 6 hours away and i dont no if he would ever like me but what can i do?

yeah, I used to like my cousin too. But its better off not to. It's probably just a phase and you will grow out of it (like I did) I know its hard to hide your feelings, but I wouldn't tell him because he may be completely weirded out and never want to talk to you again. Don't ruin the relationship you already have. :)

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theres this gurl i ask out and we went out 4 a day we went out and she beoke up wit me the next day and i really liked her she said she want to get to know mw better and thisother girl ask me out do i wait o her to we can ghet to kknow each other or should i go out with the other girl who ask me out wat should i do????! reel confused!

First of all, calm down. This is not a life threatening situation. My advice is to get to know the girl you really like. (the 1st one) If you like her that much, you will respect her wishes. So ask that girl just to hang out after school. You don't necessarily have to ask her to be your girlfriend.

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I'm going on vacation in a few days and I need some good music to put on my mp3 player. I listen to pop and rock music. Does anyone know some good songs? Thanks

1. Green Day- Basketcase
2. Gwen Stefani- What you waiting for
3. David Bowie and Queen- Under Pressure
4. My Chemical Romance -I'm not okay
5. My Chemical Romance -Helena
6. Hawthorne Heights -Ohio is for lovers
7. Jimi Hendrix -Purple Haze
8. White Stripes - Blue Orchid
9. White Stripes - seven nation army
10. Seether -Remedy
11. Godsmack -Serenity
12. Courtney Love -Mono
13. Reverend Horton Heat -Loco Gringos like a Party
14. Fall out Boy -Sugar were goin down
15. Reliant K- Be my escape
16. Abba or A*teens- Dancing Queen

^^ sum of my favorites

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I have a friend Luke, and I really like him. As in more than a friend. His girlfriend is a really good friend of mine, and his ex is my best friend. Only one person knows that i like Luke, and thats one of my friends. Im scared that if i tell him i like him, we wont be friends anymore, and if i tell his girlfriend that i like him, there will be a cat fight or something. But his girlfriend does LOVE him, she just likes him kinda. All his girlfriends have been asian, and one of his friends said that he liked asian chicks since he was small. The problem is, im not asian. So i doubt that he will ever like me. But i REALLY like him. Please help!!!

Well, first of all, I advise you not to try to break Luke and his girlfriend up because its just not the right thing to do. I think that if Luke feels the same way about you, then he will break up with his girlfriend. But if he doesn't, move on. If he only likes girls for how they look, hes definitely not worth it.

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i am just really hard on myself for not being exactly how i wanna be. i want to be more popular, and a beauty. everyone tells me i am beutiful and i know i am (not to be conceited) but i wish people at school could see it. (or atleast the popular people cuz geeks have crushes on me). just what are some tips to boost my confidence and be everything i wanna be! help!

I can relate to how you feel because I always feel like I'm not skinny or pretty enough. Everyone tells me I am though. My advice is to just be happy with yourself. I know this sounds corny but its true. You need to see yourself in a new lense. There are people in way worse situations than you- people who are sick, dying, hurt. Just thinking of that makes me feel alot more confident and luckier about myself and it should help you too.

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Sometimes i come to think that im a loner. Its summer time now and i just sit home and do nothing, or im with my boring family. Im friends with the popular group, or the "it" group in school. Whenever i ask them if they want to do something they say they cant or make up excuses. I dont know what im doing wrong. How could i get them to actually want to hang out with me?

I know EXACTLY how you feel. I am the exact same way. You need to ask yourself if these "popular girls" are really your TRUE friends? Would a TRUE friend turn you down many times? The answer is no, so it seems that this girls arent truly your friends. "Popular Girls" at my school tend to be backstabbers so I would stay away from them. The best advice I can give you is to find some new friends. Find someone like you who feels "like a loner" You need to start over! Forget those girls who exclude you!

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I recently broke up with my bf of 2 months because we hadn't been seeing each other as much and I felt a distance grow between us... and started to dislike things about him! At the time when we finished it it seemed right to go back to friendship because we get on well in that way, but now I'm really feeling like I shouldn't have split with him and I regret it! What should I do, will this pass or should I tell him how I feel? Even though I broke up with him? Would it be considered messing with his head? :( im not physically attracted to him either this is purely emotional relation...
im 16!

My advice is to tell him. I would tell him but I wouldnt ask him out again. Wait to see what his reaction is. If he doesnt feel the same way, I would let it go. Sometimes you need to move on. Don't push things either, you don't can't make him like you again.

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