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ok.. how many of you think its possible to love at 15? i kno there's girls on here and guys that say they love their bf/gf. but do most of you take it as "puppy love?" i think it is possible. bc see my bf now.. ive been with him 9 months and i lost my virginity to him and the thing is my mom and family dissapprove of me and him together... because hes black n im white. but i still go to see him and he comes to see me at like the park and stuff and we hang out. and im 15 and so is he. i mean i kno this may sound stupid but i really can see myself with him forever. like i dont want to be with anyone else. i kno i love him and not that fake stuff. i would do anything for him. i kno u all dont think i kno what love is bc im so young but thats ok. but i do love him with all my heart and i would die for him... but how many of you believe that u can love someone at 15?
id like to hear ur comments. ill rate. thanks..
Manda (link)
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I think it's possible, but not likely for the average person. Most are confused at the time. They meet someone, and they feel this rush of feelings that they think is love. Other times they see everyone talk about it, and they so desperately want it they almost fake it. Most of the time what people at this age think is love turns out to be merely a crush.
But in your case, I think it's very possible. To be with someone for nine months and still be crazy about them is rare to see at your age.
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I still have time to think, but I have NO idea what I want to major in. Im really good in english but dont want to do any teacher sort of thing and the author life is too risky. I love horses, but couldnt be a vet b/c i could never bear the sorrow of putting a horse to sleep. I love animals in general. I love designing too, but Im not awsome in math so interior design would be a bit too tricky. I cant really draw. Could anyone just list some cool things to look into even if it has nothing to do with my interests? Thanks... for the help. :-D (link)
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Well, let's see. If you work hard you could teach poetry or writing at a college level. This way you don't have to deal with annoying students making outbursts in your class, and you don't have to worry about keeping the students at a certain average, etc. If you don't want to do that, maybe you could get into wildlife conservation. I always thought that would be a neat job. And design does involve math, but not as much as one would think, you might want to still consider this. Something that's not on the list... What about the culinary arts? Cooking doesn't sound too difficult, and a good chief makes pretty good money.
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i recently found out my 7 year old cousin, danny what raped by a neighborhood kid. this is really just depressing for me... BUT also for him. so my question is, anyone with experience know what well cheer up or help rape victim cope? hes very young. (link)
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He's probably very confused at this time and his age. There's not much you can do to make someone feel better after this type of ordeal. Just your presence and understanding is enough. Make sure he knows that he's not alone in that he can always talk to you when he needs it.
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This may not be the right category, but I couldnt find a better place. I just found out today that one of my friends from school, that I graduated with passed away yesterday. His friends were going through his cell phone, found my number and called me. I had one class with the person, we always flirted with each other and talked about hooking up. I never called him after we graduated because I thought, yeah hes to good for me. Well, he still had my number in his phone and I feel bad for never calling him. I want to go to the viewing to see him one last time and to pay my respects to him. He was a great guy. But, then again, I dont want to go because I want to remember him from how he was before. I dont think I could handle seeing him in a casket. I dont know what to do. Should I go to the viewing or not? The viewing is Friday..so I need answers soon. Thanks!! (link)
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I think you should go to the viewing. Afterwords, your last memory of him won't be his death, it will still be your fond memories of before. You may dwell on the "Viewing" experience, but after a while things will remind you more of before. It matters not if you go or if you stay when it comes to what you're feeling now, because you're still going to think about his death even if you don't go. And it will make you feel better to pay your last respects. I had a friend that I lost touch with who died last year, and I still regret not going to his funeral.
After feedback: Yeah, I understand. It's still probably better to just drop by for a moment, than to not go at all. You probably won't be the only one afraid of breaking down, and I know people will understand if you do. From the way you descibe him, he was a great guy.
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ill be 15 in dayz an last year i wen ta this new skool an when i tried out 4 basketball an made it this rummor got started that i had "did it" wit the coach ta make the team.. when of course i ddin
now this new year even before skool started..
there is now a rumor that i did it wit this dude i wen out wit las year named Criag when i didn an every1 belives it..
i donno what to do bc im not a hoe like that i mean he was my 1st kiss
an all these ppl belive i did it. how can i make it stop.. how can i jus get thro it (link)
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The nest thing I can think to do is to just ignore them. But if you want it stopped now, the best way I can think of is to get to the source. I have a feeling it's one person starting this rumors, someone is clearly out to ruin your reputation. Ask around (All the people you've heard these rumors from) and find out who started the whole thing.
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I'm 15 years old & have been with my boyfriend for a few months. He's not a virgin and he's done sexual things with many girls. He told me he was ready to have sex whenever I was. I feel like I don't live up to his old girlfriends and that I'm such a good girl - being a virgin & unexperienced. I'm a little scared to have sex but when will I know I'm totally ready and mature enough to do it? Is it that wrong to not be sexually experienced at 15? (link)
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Of course it isn't wrong, a lot of people aren't experienced at your age. Don't compare yourself to anyone else. He's seeing you right now, isn't he? So you must be doing something right. And you're ready when you don't have to ask yourself if you are.
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me and my boy have been together for almost a year and he wants to do it from behind i am all for it but i am afraid it is going to hurt!
i also dont like the fact that you have to go to the bathroom after or that there is poop on his dick after we are done! it is just gross
does it actually feel good?? and what are some tips to better my experiance or to get those thoughts out of my head!
help fast (link)
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(You might want to rephrase and leave out some explicit details so it doesn't get deleted) It hurts like Hell (From what I've heard), but it does apparently feel good after a while. Make damn sure he knows what he's doing and uses a lot of lubrication, otherwise it's just going to be painful.
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Alrighty, I need some help from y'all! I really need at least one person to help me if I have any science people reading this! I need a very awesome, original-ish science project idea. I don't have any idea on what I should do, and was think you all could help me. I'm going to be participating in high school science fairs. Most peoples projects are being continued from past years, so I need a brilliant idea that could help me on my way. Please give me some project ideas or even websites. Thank you SO much! :) (link)
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Why did you sign up for the science fair if you didn't have a project in mind?
How about portable toilet paper holders that you can strap to your pants. You would look stupid, but it'll solve the "friend running out of toilet paper while you're defecating at their house" problem.
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I have allway wanted a pet chicken do you think they are a good pets ? cuz my family is thinkin about movein to a fram like in 3 year and i just wanted no if they would or not :) (link)
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Fenced in on a farm, they're fun to watch, but they're impossible inside. They're fast, stupid therefore almost impossible to train, they're messy, etc.
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it says that i've only been rated 5 times but i've been rated 12 times. how often does that thing change? its been like that for a couple days now.. (link)
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It might take a little while, but I wouldn't be too concerned about it.
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I heard that if you eat 6 small meals a day, instead of 3 big its better for you. Any truth to this? (link)
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It's true, unless you gorge upon every meal.
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theres this girl whose gonna be on my bus this year and she wants to beat me up for no reason. shes 2 years older than me and shes really mean. shes the kind of girl who will scream mean things at you in front of everyone! i dont know how to handle that... its so embarrassing, but i dont want to act tough because then she'll really want to beat me up. im so scared help! (link)
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I wouldn't smile at her, that'll really set her off. If you're really scared, try getting adults involved, maybe there's another way you can get to and from school. Other than that, just try not to be alone when she has her outbursts.
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I'm having a really big problem with a certain advicenator that gives horrible advice, puts people down, and makes fun of the questions that people can't answer... I know it's not my place to say something but this person is VERY rude and makes people feel like crud, I would know. I really want to say something.. This one girl said "Im 150 lbs and I need help losing weight" and the advicenator said "Who cares you're the f**king fat a** not me im only 112 and taller than u, fat a**" thats just rude so help me please... thanks alot (link)
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Who is it. I'll look into it and if I feel they need to be suspended, I'll suspend them.
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ive been dating a guy for six months, and im totally in love beyond belief. so was he. he went to camp and met a new girl that he likes and she likes him. he says he loves me. but notas much as before. he also said hes going on vacation to decide who hes going to choose. he mentioned as well, that if we got back together, he might do this again. omg, what should i do? just when i thought i was over him, i had a dream abouthim. im so lost (link)
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Dreams can do that to people, it's done it to me. The feelings from the dream won't last long. He's going on vacation to decide who he's going to choose? I wouldn't date him even if he picked you. He sounds too into himself to make a good boyfriend. And he's going to do it again, so there's not much of a chance to actually get anywhere in this relationship.
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ok well yeaterday at about like 2a.m. I went driving in town with my cuzine and her older bro (he's only 17) he drove us around and well he was smoking pot in the car so I got totally nervous and I didn't know what to do so I just staid in the car worring my butt off and when I got home at around 10 my dad smelt the pot and asked me if I smoked but I didn't pin it on my cuz did I do the right thing? I rate high:D (link)
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I guess there are better ways of handling that situation, but since I have friends who smoke pot, I would have handled it the same way.
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I am a 14 year old guy and I like a 10 year old girl, is this ok?? (link)
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I guess there's no harm in liking her, but I wouldn't advise dating her.
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hey i need someone's help uploading a picture, i don't know how to make it smaller so if someone can help i'd appreciate it (link)
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Did you try editing it in "paint". Then clicking on "Image" then "Stretch or Skew". Then just decrease the percent under stretch until it's small enough.
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i am a girl who has a lover it happens that the is in university why i have just finished my secondary sch level.he came home one day and told me he really luv and care well i was very happy and to his honesty, he told me he had a girl friend and not a lover in school and asked if i also have one but to be candid i have no one and he told me i should pls not have one and also he said the girl in her school wish to meet me but i told him i dont want to meet her.so pls should i meet her,and also should i go for a boyfriend too and to that kind of thing is the guy honest?. (link)
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So he has a girl friend. Does that mean they're dating or just friends? If they're dating, I'd forget about him, it sounds like a twisted situation he's trying to put you in. Try dating someone else. If they're just friends, you should definitely try to meet her.
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im going into 8th grade and im really nervous because today is the 'evaluation test.' Ive never ever started at a new schools before, because I've been going to the same district of schools for a while, and im really nervous. What kind of questions do they ask? because over the summer and I dont really study so I may have forgotten a thing or two..(or ten @_@) can someone give me in detail or somethign what kind of things they ask? thx! (link)
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I wouldn't worry about it. Most take the fact that you forget things over the summer into consideration. They just want to see how far along you are. Like **Beanie** said, it's mainly just the basics. It's not like the ACT's, SAT's or anything like that.
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Im asken this ? again cuz i still dunno wat 2 do n im hopeing this time i will get more responces! Well i went out wit this kid last year.. in september, lets call him 'Bob'. N we went out for mayb a week or two, then he broke up with me.. n me n bob i know both feel this way cuz he told me many of times, that wen we were with eachother... it just felt perfect, n even tho we have a 2year age difference it didnt even matter! N omg wen im with him it just feels soo right like i wanna be with him forever.. even if im 13 n hes 15 i mean like i -CANT- say yeah i wanna marry this kid but thats just how it feels kinda, i mean not marry him.. but i wud stay with him for very long n try to make it last as long as possible. But newayz after we broke up we argued alot, then in december, close to my birthday we started talken again, n i gess we kinda liked eachother, even tho i always had feelings for him. But then sumthing happend, he went away til umm June. Wow that was probly the hardest time i hadta face so far in life. I went crazy, i thot about him a few times a week, eventually i thought about him less and less. Then he came back. We talked alot, i told him i still had feelings for him, he told me he thot bout me wen he was away, then he went out w.sum girl, we lost touch for a lil, then started talken again. N i read him 1 of the poems i wrote wen he was away, i never thot i wud read that, but i did, n i dunno we were talken n i dunno if he likes me or not, itll be a year of likeing him this september, i mean i went out with other ppl in that year, but it wasnt tha same. But now.. he kinda likes sum girl, lets call her 'K', n i tell him to go out w/her n stuff, but i am really jealous, i just act like i want him 2 be happy... well i do, it just wont make me happy if hes with her. Wat shud i do? i rate very very good just please help me!
x0x signed confused n depressed (link)
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Before I say anything, remember that he ended it, so if you got back together, he should be the one who starts things up again. Otherwise, you never can be absolutely sure how he feels. And he knows how you feel, you discussed it with him before. You also read him a poem, so I think you've done enough in that department. And you're right in that he definitely knows you have feelings for him.
I think a portion of this is caused by who you dated in the past year. I'm thinking that he was the last really good relationship you had, so you want to have that with him again. The problem is he's moved on while you're still trying to hang on to what you had. It sounds like he complains about her to you because he sees you as a friend, he's not considering the fact that you have feelings for him, he's just blowing off steam about his current girlfriend. Don't get me wrong, there is always a chance you two will get back together, but right now not. I think the healthiest thing to do is try to find some closure, at least for now. It doesn't seem like thinking about him is benefiting you in any way. Try talking to other guys, see if there are any sparks with someone else. I'm sure in time you'll get over him. And even if you get over him, that still doesn't mean getting back together is an impossibility.
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