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virgin & a little scared
I'm 15 years old & have been with my boyfriend for a few months. He's not a virgin and he's done sexual things with many girls. He told me he was ready to have sex whenever I was. I feel like I don't live up to his old girlfriends and that I'm such a good girl - being a virgin & unexperienced. I'm a little scared to have sex but when will I know I'm totally ready and mature enough to do it? Is it that wrong to not be sexually experienced at 15?
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no its definatly not wrong, everyone knows at different points in thier lives.Trust me you'll know when your ready for sex , something will click and you'll realize that it's something your ready for.hope i helped.
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Hey hun. No, it's completly alright not to be sexually experienced when your 15. Look, don't compare yourself with his ex's. That will make your confidence level so low ... and it's awesome that this guy is willing to wait for you. Once you feel comfortable with him and yourself, do it. And you will know when your ready.
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there's nothing wrong with being not sexually experienced at 15, considering in england the age of consent for sex is 16. i think you will know when you're ready for it, and i wouldnt suggest doing it until you know you're ready. are you sure of this guys intentions? because to me it kinda seems like him telling you he's ready for sex whenever you are is a way for him to tell you he wants sex and is trying to push you. don't let anyone push you into having sex if you don't want to. you have all the time in the world to lose your virginity :)
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NOTHING IS WRONG WITH BEING A VIRGIN! Jessica Simpson and alot of other people saved themselves until they were married...if he really likes you, he'll accept you for who you are...hope it helps!
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its not wrong at all to not be experienced...and if you feel like you dont live up to his old girl friends then tell him that. explain that u feel that way and that you arent ready for sex yet. if he trully cares about you then he wont be mad and he will understand...
xO sarah Ox
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It's not wrong to be 15, and a virgin! If your his girlfriend, then you are obviously better in some ways than his ex's, right? I bet they are wondering how they can be like you! But you have a great guy if he's saying that he'll wait until YOUR'RE ready! You picked a good one, so don't be pressured in to giving in! Only you'll know when you want to have sex. Make sure that he's the one you want to do it with, and not have regrets later! I know that you'll make the right choice, you picked a good boy-friend! -Ce
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If this guy has a rep, for having sex with girls and then breaking up with them, don't have sex with him. If you really feel ready now, its up to you to decide. I hope you make the right choice for you. Good luck!
~Cayd
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If your boyfriend can't respect the fact that you might not be "ready" for a really long time, then he isn't worth the worry.
This is going to be a test of his feelings for you moreso than it will be a test of your so-called little "scare" of having sex.
Being that I am a thirty year old man, I believe that even boys should wait until they have a high school diploma in their possession before engaging in ANY sort of sex.
GIRLS TAKE NOTE :)
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You should have sex whenever you feel comfortable and ready for it. It doesn't matter if you dont live up to your boyfriends 'old girlfriends' and he should care for you not just because ur sleeping with him. You'll know your ready to do it when u feel like you can handle all the responsibilities of sex. There are the emotional ties and the worries of an STD or unplanned pregancy. You must be willing and ready or sex is not what its supposed to be. It's not wrong to be sexualy experienced at 15. Do what you feel comfortable with.
xoxo
ali
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no its your own choice yooh dont have to do anything if yooh dont wana so jus do wat yooh want .. wen yooh want .. many poeoeps wait til their muhc older os dont worry bout it nd jus do it wen your ready .. if yooh need to talk im me
[ LyL qT x lOnLy ] i hope i helped *megan
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There's nothing wrong with still being a virgin at 15. When the time is right, you'll know it. If there's any doubt in your mind, you shouldn't do it. Once you lose your virginity, you can never get it back. Hopefully your boyfriend respects you enough to wait until you are absolutely ready. He can wait because you're worth it.
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It's definitely not wrong to not be sexually experienced. I sure wasn't when I was 15. I wouldn't worry about it at all. You'll know when you're ready because it will just happen. I hope this helps!
Crystal
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There's absolutely NOTHiNG wrong with not being sexually experienced at 15. Don't worry about living up to his old girlfriends or whatever. Chances are a few of them were virgins too. I mean, he knows you're not experienced, so he's not going to expect anything crazy. Don't do anything you're not ready for, and don't do anything just to "live up to his other girlfriends".
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No,it's not wrong at all. It's good to wait until you're older.
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its not wrong to be 'sexually experienced' at 65 if your not ready. Make sure hes the right guy cause you only have that first time once. You dont just wake up and tell yourself "im ready to have sex today" You have to really think about it and know him enough to know that hes gonna love you if you have sex with him or not. If he gets mad because you wont have sex with him then you shouldnt even bother with him hes not worth it.
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It's deffinetly not wrong to be sexually experienced at 15!! When your ready, you'll know. You wont feel as nervous and you'll be completely confident. Don't do anything that you would regret in the future-- Good luck!!
-xXoBrianna
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Don't worry about his past girlfriends, just worry about yourself. Don't even do it unless you are 100% SURE you are ready. And even then, look at him and ask yourself "Is this the guy I want to lose my virginity to?" And if you are unsure, don't do it. No, it is not wrong to be a virgin at 15.
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If you have to ask this.. you'Re obviously not Ready! And don't woRRie about living up to otheR people... who caRes! That was THEM.. this is YOU! You aRe youR own peRson, and that's as good as it gets!! And it doesn't seem like he's pRessuRing you *FOR* sex, so don't botheR even mentioning it. FoR now... hold on to that ViRginity foR deaR life, my FRiend! I wish you the best of luck!! Hope I helped!! =D
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WAIT A MIN! You honestly honestly don't need to be having sex right now REALLY! If I was you I'd wait...life without it right now will be alot easier in the future. I'm not sayin your gonna get pregnant or somthing like that, Cause I know you take care of yourself. But like I am sayin, save yourself. In the future it will be worth it. I am 16 yrs old and still a virgin and proud. I know waiting will better my future! I hope you make the right decision! Good Luck! God Bless! Beebyes!
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no you should wait. besides your young. and youve only been seeing your boyfriend for a few months. NO WAY JOSE. ew. lets all go back to elementary school days. EW BOYS HAVE koooDIES.
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Of course it isn't wrong, a lot of people aren't experienced at your age. Don't compare yourself to anyone else. He's seeing you right now, isn't he? So you must be doing something right. And you're ready when you don't have to ask yourself if you are.
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