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im going to DIE
theres this girl whose gonna be on my bus this year and she wants to beat me up for no reason. shes 2 years older than me and shes really mean. shes the kind of girl who will scream mean things at you in front of everyone! i dont know how to handle that... its so embarrassing, but i dont want to act tough because then she'll really want to beat me up. im so scared help!
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dont worry. Show her that yur not afraid. Jus pretend u dont hear her, and try not to listen. If she sees that u really dont care, she'll stop.
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aww sweetie..well talk to your parents or a counseler and maybe you can even try talkin to this bullies parents! stand up for yourself! sticks and stones may break your bones..but don't let her words hurt you! =) its kinda like this..my mom taught it to me..there is a door..and that door is your heart..anytime someone says something mean to you..close that door and dont let it hurt you..anytime someone says something nice..open that door up! just pray that she doesn't fight you! but a lot of people like that are all talk n no action! just be safe and handle it in a healthy way! and maybe try sitting up closer to the bus driver! it may seem babyish..but its better then getting beat up! lol rate me please! thanks hun! good luck! =)
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have you tried to ignore her? maybe if she doesn't get any feedback from you she'll stop bugging you. Or whenever you're around her try to have a lot of friends with you, theres always power in numbers.
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well, i would try to avoid any kind of contact at all. if you have a cd player, you can just try to be very inconspicuous ( hard to notice) and maybe she wont bother with you. If she still picks on you, then she'll seem kind of pathetic for not having any reason to bother you. Another good idea is to set up some kind of car pool instead of riding the bus at all. hope i helped pleez rate me!
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hey mIss ScARED,
jus tell her to back off.
if she doesnt leave u alone. get her AIm. n Im heR n Tell her That ur SuMonE else. basicly lie to her. and she will leave u alone. trust me. shell be jus as scared as u are.
xox Manda xox
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im sorry ur in this situation.. you are aware that bullying is illegel?.. use adult athorities at home and @ school.. report her behaivor until the adults come up with a plan.. surround yourself with friends and large guys lol but most of all.. believe in your right to be!
caity
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sit in the front of the bus so the bus driver will c what shes doing...
Hope i helped..
RaTe Me!
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ignore her. she must be really pathetic if she has to pick on someone who is 2 years younger then her(no offense). and if ignoring her doesnt work then be nice to her, like smile at her and tell her to have a good day or something when she says something to you. it'll confuse her. hope i helped.
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Ignore her..and ya kno what?If shes TWO years older than you and she's still picking on YOU then she must not be that tough...cuz no offense to you or anything but she'd be pickin on someone stronger and stuff..Ya kno?And don't take her sh**. If she wants to put on a show then why don't you join in?Don't be scared..she can't do anything.Just stay in public!lol.And if your not comfortable putting on a show then like i said,ignore her.Or just talk to her and be like "why don't you get a life because your wasting your time picking on someone who doesnt even care.."That would be good!lol. But yea..good luck!Be strong!Tell me how things work out :-D.
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I wouldn't smile at her, that'll really set her off. If you're really scared, try getting adults involved, maybe there's another way you can get to and from school. Other than that, just try not to be alone when she has her outbursts.
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What i would do is hang around your friends that are around her age and also that are stronger than you so you wont have to feel scared. And when she goes and says that i would just try to talk with her. Like if she screams something at you, look at her and just smile a lil bit and say "hi" or something and see what she does if she gets a lil confused of what she says that means she doesnt really want to beat you up its just that shes trying to get your attention, but if she goes and says something else and gets even madder i would just suggest sitting with people that are stronger than you and also are your friends. If it were me that was in your situation right now i would keep messing with her mind and basically turn her out to be one of my friends instead of an enemy:P. I hoped i helped.
~Dom
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