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im 13 and in 8th grade and im 5'3...but i like someone thats 12 in 7th grade and is 4'7. i think he's gonna ask me out, but idk what to say cuz hes so short and younger than me....help! (i like him too but...)

You say you like him, then why worry about his age or height. If you like him and he likes you, go out! Don't worry about the height and age difference

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how do i get a job here? i want to help people and be an advice columnist. can you help me get a job at www.advicenators.com?
Im a 13 year old girl.

~Kelsee

I'm new here so I don't know if you can get an actual job here, you may want to go to the help section or email advicenators, My only suggestion is just register here and answer as many questions as possible.

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Hi see I found this really cute guy on the net but he lives far away, and he said he likes me and that we should meet sometime. but see he asked if we could date online, but I don't know bc he might be cheating on me
What do i do , Answer fast so I could give him the answer!!!

dating online isn't a good idea. For one thing you guys don't know each other that well and he could cheat on you and just lie. Plus i would reccommend not meeting this guy in person because you never know, he may be a child molester or something.

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hi. my rich grandparents just bought me a saleen s7 for my 16th bday. I LOVE THE CAR and ive always wanted it. The only problem is, even though my neighborhood is fairly nice nobody has a car like mine and everyone is making fun of me! they say rich girl, spoiled brat, snob and stuff like that. My car got egged too :(. How can i make this stop??
thankz

what losers! They're probably just jealous, so try to ignore their comments and put a cover on your car so it doesn't get egged or keep it in a garage. If this keeps up notify the police, they'll take care of the problem.

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Sorry guys.. I wasnt sure what to put it under.. But... Thursday i go for my road test.. and I'm extremely nervous.... and I know when the day comes I'm going to like freak out.. and I have a feeling i'm going to do bad... I drive really good. But when I'm with people I dont know I tend to make stupid little mistakes... What can I do to keep myself calm while i'm taking my road test...

Just keep telling yourself that you're fine and you're going to pass. Also imagine the driving tester person is a parent or something. Just pretend that you're going for a little drive, not that you're being tested.

Good Luck!

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if you dye your hair, is there any way to get it out before it washes out?

they make dye removers, but i've never tried them so i can't guarantee that they work. Other than that i don't think you can get it out before it washes out.

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I am 13 years old, and I'm going to a new school. I really wanna be happy, because the last school I went to, people made fun of me and teased me because they knew I was sensitive. How do I make a good impression? What if someone teases me? How do I handle it? Btw, my school starts in a week!

I'm sorry people at your old school didn't treat you well, but now its time to make a fresh start. Walk in confident with your head held high, this gives off a vibe to the other kids that you are a confident person and that nothing could bring you down. Be friendly when you meet new people, smile and be sincere. However if someone does tease you, ignore it, they're stupid. They're less likely to stop teasing you if they don't get a response. Or if they don't stop just ask them whats up with what they're doing, say its not cool to tease other people and that no matter what they say they can't bring you down. Good luck at your new school and i hope you have an awesome start!

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ive had plenty of guy friends before, but i cant remember how we got to be friends and i wanna become friends with more guys, but i dont know how! what do i do?

be friendly and talk to them, maybe you'll find some guys that have the same interests as you which makes it easier the become friends with. Like if you see a group of guys playing cards go up to them and tell them that you're really awesome at that game and ask to join them, that way to can talk to more guys and gain more friends.

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I jus got signed with an agent for my voice!! and in 3 weeks im supposed to go to L.A. to record my first cd!! im so excited...but im really nervous and sad ill have to leave my friends in my freshman year. i know i should take the job considering ill be BiG and i really wanna see my name in lights but im so scared ill lose my friends while im gone and all the new friends ill make (celebs maybe :)) will not turn out to be real and ill be all alone! what to do!? HELP!

Wow congratulations! Thats awesome! But its kinda bites to leave your friends behind. So while you're working call your friends up and talk to them frequently, see what they're up to and you can fill them in with your new exciting lifestyle. You may lose some but those who still remain your loyal friends are the probably the best people ever. Congratulations again and i wish you the best with your new career.

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okay i was supposed to get my period on friday and it's now monday... i've never been late before could it be the stress of going back to school or something? because i'm a little freaked out that something might be wrong

don't sweat it, stress can make your period later than usual, just wait. If it doesn't come within the next 2 weeks and you're really concerned maybe you should go to the doctor, but right now i dont' think you have anything to be concerned with.

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i need help. i like my best friend. and im not sure if he likes me. and i really like him. he says if we go out it could ruin our relationship. but hes went out with almost all of his best friends.i want his so bad. i havnt had a boyfriend for a long time, and this could be my chance PLEASE DONT DELETE I NEED HELP IM SO CONFUSED!

did you tell him that you want to date him? Maybe you two should just talk about it. If he says its not a good idea then maybe its not. You don't want to ruin your awesome friendship so don't pressure him to date you. If he doesn't want to then he is missing out and it just gives you another chance to find a guy who does want you.

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omg im sooo nervous for school to start!! im going to a school different from all my other friends in a new town! what can i do to calm myself down and maybe make this a more enjoyable expierence (school)?!

thanks!

i know how it is to start a new school, its really scary but try to tell yourself "I'm going to do fine and people will love me" just walk in with your head held high and introduce yourself to as many people as possible! They'll find you friendly and easy to talk to and want to be your friend. Hope you have an awesome first day.

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For blonde hair and blue eys what is usually the best color to wear in clothes .. i just want a little adive because my school starts tomrorow and i need some ideas .. THANKS

pink and blue looks really cute, try to find shades of blue that match your eyes to make them pop out, like turquoise. Turquoise always seems to make my blue eyes look even bluer.

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I need an idea for a date. I don't know they guy real well, we've only talked 2 times. So i want to get to know him, and i'm kinda nervous that going to a movie would me akward. Please give me ideas.

movies aren't good for a first date since you can't talk much, why don't you take him to a cool resturaunt and maybe go skating afterwards, that way you can talk and get to know him better and have fun!

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okay my boyfriend is turning 16 on the 15th of september... i know him very well but i have NO clue what to get him for his birthday!! i was going to get him a present or 2 and then put a bow around myself as another gift (stupid i know but his friend thought it would be a good idea) i've never gone shopping for a guy! does anyone suggestions on what to get him??

what kind of music does he like? Get him a CD of someone he hasn't ever heard of in a genre that he digs, it will open his mind and ears to new music. Or if hes more of a movies guy, get him a film he hasn't seen by his favorite actor/actress. The wrapping a bow around yourself is a cute idea, i would suggest keeping that idea.

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Ok, last year I dressed very plain. Just tee shirts and jeans. Kinda boring. Does anyone have any advice on how to spice up my look?

you could wear more skirts, they always spice up different outfits, or maybe get some awesome accessories such as a funky hat or cute earings or a bold necklace, sometimes just the littlest things can make a big difference to your outfits.

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Has anyone ever gone on a "water-diet"? nothing but water...ice/water...and then u eat something on the third day...?has anyone gone on this or know if it works??

thats not a very healthy diet, think, water only? your body needs food EVERYDAY. If you're worried about your weight eat healthier and excercise, everyone says this but it works!

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i play soccer and want to try for extreme legue but like i dont know If I am Goood enough for It or not Plz help aBBz

the only way to know if you're good enough is to practice and try out! Maybe ask you coach what he thinks and other people around you who play soccer. But just go out for it!

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I this freind and we have been friends 4 years and just this past summer she has been always hanging with her other friend and just leaving me behind.

have you talked to her about it? Tell her your feelings and maybe she'll change her ways.

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Okay, my computers are on a wireless connection. (SBC yahoo DSL) The wireless connection is working, because I'm on my laptop right now and I'm obviously online. However the main computer where everything is plugged into (the main source) won't go online? Anyone why know this would happen? Please, any advice would be awesome.

have you tried calling SBC yahoo DSL and asking them about whats going on? Thats what i do whenever my internet goes wacko.

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