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i need help. i like my best friend. and im not sure if he likes me. and i really like him. he says if we go out it could ruin our relationship. but hes went out with almost all of his best friends.i want his so bad. i havnt had a boyfriend for a long time, and this could be my chance PLEASE DONT DELETE I NEED HELP IM SO CONFUSED!
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did you tell him that you want to date him? Maybe you two should just talk about it. If he says its not a good idea then maybe its not. You don't want to ruin your awesome friendship so don't pressure him to date you. If he doesn't want to then he is missing out and it just gives you another chance to find a guy who does want you.
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If he's gone out with almost all of his best friends, and he's single now, then he probably knows what he's talking about. Maybe he really values your friendship, and he's afraid to lose you. Don't push to hard because you might push him away. Just be patient and if it's meant to be it'll happen.
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He's actually right. If u guys do go out, it probably would ruin yur relationship becuz what happens wen u break up? Despite wat u say, u wont be as close with eachother as u used to be. It's okay to be really close and sometimes act like u guys are going out. That way, u'll be with him, but he'll still have the freedom of being with who he wants. Just make sure he's ok with this. U dont have to ask him, but if he goes along with it, you'll know. This strategy is perfect becuz u guys will still be friends, and no two people are closer then good friends. Keep that in mind.
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hi, I know what you mean, but he has a good point. What I think it is is that he really likes you too much to ruin your friendship, thats probably what happened with his other best friends BUT he maybe didnt care about theyre friendship and just wanted a girlfriend. He obviously cares about your friendship more than you two being together. I think you should let it go for a while and ask him like in a couple months and if he says no explain how you feel. Let me know how it works out!
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Jessica
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You say he had past relationships with others who were best friends and look at what happened. Take a lesson from that. He apparently don't have any luck moving from best friends to boyfriend/girlfriend.
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well, make sure you tell him that if you do go out that even if it doesnt work out that you still want to be friends because hes too imortant to lose him. and i think you should go for it. my bf became my best friend and we both know that even if we did break up that we would still want to be in eachothers lives. hope i helped.
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he says it could ruin your relationship but hes afraid that he would probably lose ya most likely i would go for it although thats just me you decide whats best:P
~Dom
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If you're sure, then I think you should take a chance and go out with him. But, if you've already told him you liked him, and he said he didn't want to go out with you, then don't push it, or else you will ruin the friendship.
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