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I'M A HUGE LOSER AND FAILURE WITH GIRLS
Hi,
I'm currently going into high school and have one huge problem, all girls find me non-attractive. I'm a redhead, freckle faced short haired pale (a little tan, barely) loser. I've had a crush on exactly 27 people since second grade and none what so ever have liked me back. This summer I have currently been training 4 two reasons, to look nice for girls and for soccer. Is there anything ANYTHING AT ALL I can do to improve myself and my looks so I will atleast be a little bit more attractive. BTW I have my left ear piecred twice. I'M DESPERATE, PLEASE HELP ME. A girl friends would help my confindence alot. Plus I cant stop spooning my pillow.
HELP ME PLEASE
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hey,
sorry i didn't answer sooner--busy,long day.
anyways..i'm sure there are PLENTY of girls in the high school who will find you very attractive..I, myself have gone out with two guys who fit your description..redhead,freckles--and they were damn sexy. belive it or not but girls in high school are actually mature and don't just worry about what guys look like, they finally realize that looks ARE NOT everything and that personallity should be the first thing you're worried about.Please hear me out when I say this--don't do anything to change your appearance, or as you say improve it...be yourself! You'll be so much happier with yourself when you find a girl who likes you for you! not for the person you're tryin to be. one thing you could do though, is get out there..high school offers a lot of opportunity-you'll find youself talking to and becoming friends with people that you would never expect to. you could start doing that by getting involved, play more sports, join clubs, volunteer for after school activites, go to the football games, dances,etc,etc. also, saying
"I'M A HUGE LOSER AND FAILURE WITH GIRLS" is not kewl! girls like guys who are confident! don't be conceited and think your the hottest thing, but don't say you're ugly either..or a huge loser! and don't think that a girl friend would help your confidence-yah she could make you happier, but you have to be happy with yourself in order to gain confidence!-a girl cannot do that for you. my advice to you, is to go to the high school, don't over do it,be the sexy person that im sure you are!, talk to everybody, flirt a little, & don't be afraid to ask a girl out! if you do find someone you like, ASK HER OUT! every1 gets rejected so don't worry about that-its no big deal. you'll get 1 out of 2 things with asking out a girl.
1) she'll like you and say yes.
or
2) she'll turn you down and say no..BUT high school's a lot diff. TRUST ME! word spreads fast..by the end of the day every1 will hear that you asked some1 out and she said no, then 9 out of 10 girls who like you will see that you want a g/f and you'll find yourself with 2 or 3 girls flirting with you--so either way you win! thats usually how it works in our school!
BTW..piercings are sexy! =)
So, stop spoonin that poor pillow, get out there, BE CONFIDENT, have fun and find yourself a girl!
hope this has helped you out--member only YOU can make yourself happy! a girl just adds to it!
if you need anything else, i'm always here, or IM me..lilhottie9610
xO`Lexi
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well tan! Go outside and tan! then Open up. SAy something nice and flirt with lots of girls. They will notice you when they hear how your so sweet and everything. If they are in your class talk to them. dont try SUPER hard tho. Its not that HUGE of a deal. You get a girlfriend when you get one. even maybe die your hair? alittle...? make it shaggy and go blonde.. or brunette. GOOD lUCk! -aMaNdA<3*
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