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I'm looking for a guy that woud fit me well but each time i go out with the guys i fing something i hate about them right away...what should i do?
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well on full house.. tha one dad guy he always found sumthing rong in everyone he dated since his wife died.. because he was scared i think. and he looks 4 things 2 be wrong in ppl. maybe ur scared 2, or maybe u juz havent found tha rite guy... he will come, in tha meantime, dont be negative, look 4 the positive in guys!!!
Xo HoPe I hElPeD oX
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well when u find something bad about them try and find 2 good things about them 2 kinda like cancel the bad one out u know what i mean cuz everyone has a bad thing about them just give a guy i chance and try and look for the good things not the bad one * i am glad 2 answer ne other questions u have *Stephanie* *x*o*x*o*
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Sweetie.. I know how you feel.. I'm the same way... My problem is I try comparing these guys to my ex.. and if i cant find somethinng they have that my ex had I dont give them a chance.. But.. You really need to give people a chance.. Even if you dislike something about them.. Still try and give them a chance... Thats about the best advice I can give you... I hope I helped.
~*Jackie~*
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you should go out with them anyway maybe one day youll get over that one thing and not worry about it as much hope i helped
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just wait for love..don't go out looking! the right one will come along soon enough! just have fun with all your girl friends and party! lol
<3*Chelsea xoxo
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dont look at the things u hate and find the things u like try to ingnore the things u hate
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Ignore the things u find wrong with them and look at the things u like. U will soon learn to put the positive in front of the negative
Hope I helped! if u need anything else, drop one in the inbox! Im always here to help!!
** Jeanine **
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juss dont give up on them so fast i mean juss becuz there iz 1 thing that u dont like duznt mean u cant find a thousand things u love about him i mean juss give them a chance get to kno them better b4 u decide their not for u i mean if your lookin for thast special "one" u gutta get to kno the guyz and not juss think about that 1 thing u hate bout them cuz trust me u can find thigns that u love bout him besides that 1 thing u hate and juss try n make it work!!! hope i helped if u need n e thing u can juss drop 1 in my inbox k hun!!!
Caitlin*<3
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It kind of seems like you'Re too picky. Not eveRyone is peRfect; you have to give people a chance. HoweveR, don't settle foR much LESS THAN peRfect... just be Realistic. Keep youR head up, and neveR give up the seaRch!! Hope I helped!! =D
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well stop being so judgemental. and if you catch yourself complainin make yourself name 10 things you LOVE about him! stick with it. and stop worrying ...the right guy will come good luck <3
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i think u shud get to know them a little better first. It seems to me that if u find sumone suitable for u, u jump rite into dating them, before u REALLY get a chance to know them. But i have good news. The best relationships start of wit being friends. So maybe u shud start considering if u like sumone more then a friend. If not, wen u meet sumone, make sure u becum friends wit them first. Nothings closer then friendship.
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maybe you should b more open minded cuz if you give up on every guy right away then you'll never find the perfect guy every had pet peves you just gotta let them grow on you. but if they really bug you that much then try talkin to him about it and politly say like.."i honestly don't like it when you do ....." or next time he does it just say"stop thats annoying..." and you can add a lil giggle in it so its not too harsh.
hope i helped out a bit
.:*livvy*:.
ps. need n e thing else just ask
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you have to look beyond there imperfections.
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Maybe you should be more open minded...like don't look for things you hate about em.Look for his good spots! That should help!Good Luck!
:.tasha.:
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Its ok..there might be somethin you hate, but i bet theres a lot of stuff you like, right? Maybe make a list of things you like and dislike. I bet the things you like about him will outnumber the things you dont like! Try and forget about the thing you hate about him and just concentrate on getting to know him. Hope I helped! Drop me somethin in the inbox if you want :)
-melissa-
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you should probably be alittle more open to guys, but its okay if you havent found Mr. Perfect yet because im guessing your not too old. Someone will come along sometime and there will still be things wrong with him, but there will be more good than bad. Good Luck !!
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well what you could do even if you hate one spec about him just try to let it go and get used to it and if it doesn't work try sum1 else you wont find a perfect guy you'll always have sumthing wrong with him
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