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ive been dating a guy for six months, and im totally in love beyond belief. so was he. he went to camp and met a new girl that he likes and she likes him. he says he loves me. but notas much as before. he also said hes going on vacation to decide who hes going to choose. he mentioned as well, that if we got back together, he might do this again. omg, what should i do? just when i thought i was over him, i had a dream abouthim. im so lost
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Leave him in the dirt. It's better to end it right now because the stuff thats going on now is only going to get worse and its going to hurt alot more then what it will now if you just ditch him now.
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if hes cheating on you, leave him! you're so much better than he is. it might be hard but in the end it might be the best decision, that way you can meet a guy who really likes you and only you.
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One of my favoRie quotes is : "If you 'love' two, you don't 'love' eitheR one enough". He neveR loved you. How much could he have possibly loved you if he could so easily Run off and be with some ho?? Not veRy much, obviously. I know that he didn't love you, because when you'Re in love... youR paRtneR is supposed to come along and sweep you off youR feet. And I'm not saying this was youR fault, but he shouldn't HAVE TO find some otheR giRl, because no one else should even come CLOSE to COMPARING!! What should you do? You should definitely move on! I know it's easieR said than done, but you know what helps me? I'm not shoRe what type of music ya dig, but I always blast some female empoweRing music; such as : Madonna, ChRistina AguileRa, Mandy MooRe, Michelle BRanch, Janet Jackson, P!nk, Destiny's Child, BRitney SpeaRs and so on. Also, the VERY best way to get oveR someone is to find a new infatuation, so just keep youR head up and don't look back; you'll be much betteR off. I wish you the best!! Hope I helped!!
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well im sorry to say but if he likes someone else then hes not really in love with you. not like you are with him anyway. i dont think hes worth your time. he might hurt you later on if he doesnt now. not that he hasnt hurt you already. you should find someone who will be loyal to you and it sounds like you deserve someone better then him. hope i helped. if you need help on trying to get over him then drop one in my inbox. i've had to do something like that as well.
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He probably luvs u both, but honestly cant choose. Give him time. And respect his decision. That way, if he breaks up with her and cums bak to u, he wont have to remember about u freakin out the last time, cuz u didnt! I know its hard to let people go, but wen u do, it cud mean there's sumone out there much better for u.
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This guy should be just as crazy about you as you are with him. If he can put girls above you that easy than you might want to have a talk with him or find someone else who is going to treat you like the wonderful person you are, no matter who likes him!
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Wow,he's trust worthy.:-/. I don't really think that you should even take the chance with him. Because if he goes on vacations and finds new ladies and those ladies interfere w/ your guys' relationship that you've had goin on for 6 months (which is a pretty long time compared to some) then what if that happens when you've been goin out for a year...and also if he did break up w/ you for some other chick then you would have wasted 6 months of your life on someone that broke up w/ you for a fling! So good luck and if you really really love him then i guess you can stay and see what happends. Just be careful.I was just sayin i would not go w/ him. But good luck!!
:.tasha.: {tell me how everything turns out:)
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aw..I feel for you :( Its ok..guys can be weird . They dont see how good they have it sometimes. If he said this to me..I wouldnt want to go back with him. I mean, whats worse than getting hurt twice? Probably getting hurt three times. I wouldnt subject myself to getting hurt like that..i would tell him "ok..maybe its best if we just end it now" Hes confused right now..i would try getting over him because he said he might do this again. Spend more time with friends..family..sports..just keep busy and with time, you`ll get over him. Stay busy and keep the good times and memories with him close to you.Its hard now, but it will get easier hun. Hope I helped...best of luck. Feel free to drop me somethin in my inbox
-melissa- :)
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Dreams can do that to people, it's done it to me. The feelings from the dream won't last long. He's going on vacation to decide who he's going to choose? I wouldn't date him even if he picked you. He sounds too into himself to make a good boyfriend. And he's going to do it again, so there's not much of a chance to actually get anywhere in this relationship.
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