ask orphans



read advice get advice make favorite read feedback advicenators



This is the account that questions and answers from abandoned accounts are assigned to.
Member Since: January 14, 2006
Answers: 12040
Last Update: February 16, 2011
Visitors: 144131

Main Categories:
Colleges & Universities
Job Searches
Personal Finance
View All

Favorite Columnists
iSLAND_iNTHE_SUNx0
karenR
DangerNerd
AdviceMistress
Sherry
christina
Razhie
Matt
theymos
The_MoUsY_spell_checker
Cux
more...
I'm going to be 16 next year, and i have a lot of money saved up for a car. (almost 6 grand) and i've always wanted a V8 Firebird (the one the guy held for me is $5500). but my parents dont want me to get it because they said if i get good grades (3.5 gpa or better) they would pay insurance, and if i get this car, and keep my gpa up, they would have to pay it.

reality check, who would, it would be $1,200 every 6 months at the LEAST. and if i was a girl itd be $800, (according to online thing i used).

i know it shouldnt be that big of a deal, but ive got my car all picked out and insurance is holding me back.

how can i convince my parents, and or get the money to pay for it, without spending all my time working, and not dumping pay check to pay check into insurance.

im a rater. (link)
a trans-am is an expensive car to insure. but here's what you can do to get the car and keep low insurance. buy one that's older. and when i say older i mean like a 1978 trans-am. the 2002 WS6 TA, or firebird TA is gonna cost an arm and a leg to insure. and i bet it'll be a lot more than what the online thing said to insure when all is said and done. but the thing about an older vehicle. even when paying it off over time is that insurance on it would be dirt cheap. my friend owns a 78 trans-am and he pays $40 a month on it for insurance. he pays $310 a month on the loan he got to buy the car. but if you were to put the 6 grand you have down on an older collector trans-am you'd get a lot cheaper one to insure in the long run and a lot cooler looking one to boot.

but here's my question: where can you find a V8 firebird or trans-am for 6000 bucks? i see em sell for at least 14000 or more all the time. are you looking at one from the 80's or something? either way i suggest going for a 70's one, they cost about the same as the 02's do now but you get a much cheaper car to insure, and the same amount of fun.

my only gripe with all this though is a trans-am is not a good first car for a kid. too much power at too young an age. that's why the insurance is so high because they know that most kids wreck their first cars, and they know that somethin with that kinda power is a much higher risk. i'm gonna suggest you go for something a bit more restrained but still fun. miata perhaps? older corolla (back when they were rear wheel drive)? MR2 maybe? you'd be suprised how much cheaper insurance is when you lose the V8 engine for a smaller one. just a suggestion though, good luck.


i was just wondering...
guys, when you are making out OR having sex with a girl, does it turn you on when a girl not only moans, but says things like "yes, yes" "harder" or things like that...or is that more in the movies?? haha i dunno just sort of a random question..and do they whipser it or sort of yell it like they do on most tv things? (link)
they do make noises like that if you know what you're doing, and yes it is a turn on. you just gotta do it right, otherwise they just tell you to quit. haha


formerly DeepDiscountDVD.com

Has anyone ever ordered from that site? I want to make sure it's a legitamate site & not a scam. I'm sure it's okay, I just want to be absolutely certain.

Thank you so much! (link)
hey

yeah they're totally legal with a great selection

no worries :]

i have ordered from that site and nothing went wrong.

and it's not a scam.




i love these songs.
are there any more good songs like these?

find a new way-young love
harder,better,faster,stronger-daft punk
fer sure-medic droid
bad boy-cascada
everytime we touch-cascada
all of your love-hellogoodbye

thanks in advance! (link)
"fire" joe budden(s) ft busta rhymes
"satisfaction" benny benassi

go to www.artistdirect.com and search some of your favorite bands and then do "similar artists"


me and my friend Vanessa are really close(yes same friend from last question)but....things are slipping.Im becoming popular, hanging out with new,mature people, and she well isnt.I want her to fit in with my new friends but,whenever she does she makes a fool out of her self what do i do?Im not gunna ditch her, but i am gunna stay friends with the populars, cause theyre really nice to me! (link)
hey

that's really nice of you to continue to try to be her friend despite her differences. but if she's not cool, you might wanna consider just keeping your space with her a little bit. i mean, it's not like everyone gets to hang out with cool, popular people everyday.

she might just not get it... like the concept of "pop people" so maybe you wanna try talking to her? like "hey me and some girls are hanging out later today. wanna come?" try to include her once in a while. it's doubtful that the popuular people will last forever without saying something mean about her.

in the end, if things are really getting rough with your other friend and the popular people, decide who you'd rather have [ or neither if they're both being immature! ]

i hope i helped. and remember, hang with people who treat you right, respect you for who you are and what you look like, and won't judge you. that's what friends are for, popular or not.


Okay, my jack russel just had one puppy. So, he was born today, and there's a problem. The mother won't let him feed and kicks him. So we tried to hold her down to let him feed and she'll just squirm till she gets let loose. So we went to the vet and she said that she just might not have the mother instinct, considering that she's only one year. So she told us that we'll have to make the mother feed at least once a day and use formula for the rest of the day. And also, since the mother won't keep her warm, we have to keep her on a heating pad to keep him warm, and we also have to wet his anus and penis ti stimulate him to make him go to the bathroom. So if we continue to have to manually do this to the puppy, what are the odss of him living? (link)
If you do exactly what the Vet said he will stand a very good chance. the first two weeks are crucial. also he should be fed every 2-3 hours!!!




i love music that makes you want to dance. & for my myspace, i want a good song that has words and makes you wanna dance. i've already had songs from bands like.

rediscover.
hellogoodbye.
uffie.
alice in videoland.
etc.

so can some people name some good songs and who sings them that make you wanna dance?
thanks. (link)
hey

this song, "find a new way" by young love really really wants to make me dance [ haha. ]

check it out, it's my favorite song now.

i also like "satisfaction" by benny benassi, and "fire" by joe budden(s).

hope i helped :]


I don't know if this is in the right category but anyways,

In Mean Girls, Regina says.. "I was half a virgin when I met him."

What does this mean? (link)
half a virgin most likely means oral sex

but some people might mean it making out, feeling up, but most likely oral


How can you take a song off your music list and attach it so that a friend can hear it? (link)
hey

if you downloaded the song from limewire or something, then you probably saved it under my music in my documents.

go to your inbox and click 'attach a file' or whatever you use and usually you have to click 'browse' or something similar.

do you remember where you saved the song? just find the file when you click 'browse'

if i didn't address your question properly or you still have uncertainties, send me another question and i'll try to answer it the best i can. if i didn't answer your question at all, please do not rate.


everytime i shave i get these little dots on my legs. i hatee themm!!! how do i make them go away?? (link)
hey

make sure you use shaving cream! and lots of it. it makes your shave closer without making it drier. i get them on my leg too.

also, after you shower, moisturize. and keep the place moisturized.

if you don't wear shorts or skirts in the winter time (some people need to for gym, etc.) just don't shave. that way, it won't unnecessariily be irritated / dry and it's not like anyone's gonna see it :]

if they don't go away by doing the above listed, then you might consider asking an older female sibling, friend, or other female member of your family about it because they're not going away. they're probably not a big deal, but if youre concerned, feel free.


When i've worn tampons, and i go to change it ill take it out and when i go to put another one in it hurts because its dry i guess. What can i do? (link)
hey

you probably have a really light period and that's why it hurts (and yeah, because it's dry). use the tampon that says "light" or "super light period" or something like that. usually, they are thinner and don't hurt when inserting them.

besides that, you might consider using pads if your period is on it's last day. that way, you can easily find out if it's over or not just by looking at your pad. and you won't waste tampons when they can be used for emergency purposes (like in school).


so tell me, this is my plan

in the mornings eat: Special K Mozzeralla cheese Fruit & have OJ or Tea. & 50 crunches

in the afternoon: for lunch.. water and idk yet. & 100 crunches & run/walk at least 2 miles

in the night: water, main meal, & fruit. & 50 crunches & go to the gym with cardio for about 40 mintues.


&& for snacks eat like carrots and no soda just water or 100% fruit juice..


now will that help me lose weight? will it show results? please tell me! lol how long do you think it will take? ergh is this right? sooo many questions! (link)
hey

a few things. it depends on how quickly you burn fat, how much you currently weigh (your height, bmi) and how much you want to lose.

this looks pretty good, but just remember you need food from all parts of the food pyramid. so there's no such thing as "not eating something". just have it in moderation.

if you only want to lose a few pounds, then that will work great in a couple weeks (depending on how quickly you burn fat, etc.)

if you want to loose a significant amount of weight, it will take a lot of determination and no "goofing off." i'd say something like two "fatty" foods a week. like maybe you want a couple cookies, or a soda. those each count as one. that way, youre not depriving yourself from what you want, and you can loose weight. it also puts you in a mental state so that youre not thinking "i'm on a diet. i can't eat." cause that makes you want to eat fatty foods even more!


What does it mean by "update your page at least once a week ?" (link)
blair ok is wrooongg

it means that you answer a question once a week. going on simply will not count as updating your column!


When I went to see if I could be a moderator the last question said


Have you been a updated your column in the last week?
No. Your last update was Monday February 26 2007, 6:36 pm

but i've been on just about EVERY single day
what does it meannn ? (link)
theres a difference between going on advicenators and answering questions!! so yea just go out there and answer a lot of q's
and i also dont htink answering a question counts as updating your column


Hi, I go to bed at 10, and wake up at 6:30
is it safe to leave a tampon in? (link)
youd probably should go to bed at 10 15 and wake up at 6 15, so that its 10 hours..
try not to do more than 10 hours, because then your chance for tss goes up!!


i didnt really know what to put this under, so i just said health..anyways...
i really want white teeth. what are some inexpensive was to do whiten them? should i got to a doctor or do them at home?

thanks!! (link)

****EDIIIITTT: so you were wondering what was the price for tres white, it costs about 100 dollars for 10 strips
crest costs about 35 for 7, so 5 each, where as tres white costs 10 each.
tres white is the serious bleaching system, it works reallllly well!



i wrote this one a while ago becasue i recently answered a similar question... i hope thats ok!!




ok so i first began to get them whitened with orbit white -- trust me it works, WELL!
and after that i became OBSESESEd with teeth whitening!
crest whitestrips did not work for me, at all, but they may work well for other people. I used these similar htings called tres white, its AMAZING, and its deffinantly better than crest because its a more profesional version; not sold in drug stores, you have to order it through your dentist!
lastly, like a month ago i went to myyy dentist actually, and i asked them about whitening toothpoaste, and she said the only one that works is the rembrandt plus, and she was sooo right. ive tried every single toothpaste out there, rembrandt plus IS the only one that worked (for me) its has breaching in it, thats so effective!
if you drink tea/coffee/soda/berry drinks (yes, berrys stain your teeth, so chew them in the back of your mouth!) drink those through straws!
the colors that will make your teeth look whiter for braces are blue and purple. any that have a "yellow" in it make it look ytellow; green, orange, pink. red might work for some. NEVER USE WHITE!!!
lastly, "blue-based" lip stick/lip gloss makes it look whiter. basically what i sadi above. use red lipstick or pink, but dont use oragnge... not that i think you would...?? haha


ok so yeaa if i didndt answer annyyy of your questions, tell me asap!!


me and this guy are going out for over 7 months.
hes really sexual.
im 15 and i was wunderinn if havin sex now is too early.

cause we kiss every day + make out almost every day too. [tounguee]

so like, would sex be okay now?

nd i REALLLLy dont wanna get pregnant.
or i dont wanna get aids or something (link)
solution to not getting pregnant and not getting aids: condom -- only way! you nEED to use one, and if you dont want to, your probably not ready.

if you want ssex, just make sure that its the right choice, like your friends wont think your a slut and stuff, because in your community it might be an uncommon thing... but my school a lot of people do it...

but if you dont use a condom thats so stupid -- if he doesnt want one, hes only concerned about HIM not YOU and that means that you two shouldnt be having sex. make sure you use one!!


When I went to see if I could be a moderator the last question said


Have you been a updated your column in the last week?
No. Your last update was Monday February 26 2007, 6:36 pm

but i've been on just about EVERY single day
what does it meannn ? (link)
even though your on, it doesnt mean youve updated your coloumn. an update is answering a question.

good luck ;]


My youngestr sister has been so mean to me for some reason. We just went through like a family crisis and she is like meaner than she used to be to me. I don't know why though. Please help.


Alex
Don't mind this, my computer won't erase things right now.- eds (link)
hey

ask her if something is bothering her [ besides the family crisis. ] maybe one of her friends moved and she's upset.

tell her youre there for her if she needs you. don't be mean to her back; it will only make her more upset about whatever's bothering her.

ask her if she's mad at you.. and if she is, why? she might not even be mad at you; she's probably just taking her anger out on you.

you gotta be direct. buy her a small present, like if she likes chocolates buy her a box to make her feel better. tell her everything's gonna be okay about the family crisis.

i hope i helped, and if that doesn't work, just give her a little space to sort out her thoughts. sometimes, that's all that people need.

:]


I like this seionor and i think he likes me because he always stares at me and also smiles at me what does this mean does he like me or is he just being wierd? (link)
hey

maybe he does like you! talk to him. flirt with him. make eye contact. if you think he likes you, check out this website:

http://www.links2love.com/quizzes/does_he_like_you_quiz.htm

hopefully that will help you out.

here's another site:
http://ezinearticles.com/?How-to-Tell-if-a-Guy-Likes-You:-Does-He-Like-You?-Why-are-Guys-So-Hard-to-Read?&id=95260

guys are weird.. so just don't worry if he suddenly stops talking to you or smiling at you. try not to get too attached. you never know if he'll ask you out or not though, so keep an open mind.

hope i helped :]




read advice get advice make favorite read feedback advicenators

<<< Previous Advice Column
Next Advice Column >>>

eXTReMe Tracker