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alright i really need a little advice here.
thank-you in advance.
Alright well my bestfriend came out and told me that hes liked me for two years. i was very shocked because i would have never guessed. he gave me a list of reasons why he liked me
-im not like other girls
-im cool
-easy to talk to
-good looking
-the only girl that hes liked that has actually paid attention to him
ionno there was a few other things too but i forget. Its all very cute, but there is one problem.... i dont like him back in the way and i told him that i dont want to ruin our friendship if were to date because i value it a lot. and he seemed to get it. Now we talk and its not awkward but he brings up the fact that he likes me. hes always bringing up the fact that he dealt with holding in his emotions for two years and that since i dont want to go out with him he can do it for however longer he has feeling for me. so its all good.... EXCEPT that now im hearing rumours that hes going to ask me out.. and i dont know what to say this time. please help
thanks
Aww I think that`s really cute. If I was in this situation, I`d give him a chance, because you never know you guys might be perfect for eachother. But on the other hand if you`re not willing to give him a chance then just let him ask you out, and then say, "sorry you`re a great friend and all but I kind of like someone else." Or anything like that. & yeah it`s going to take him a while to get over you, but who know`s maybe you`ll start liking him later on! Good Luck & I hope everything goes Okay! ♥ =)
13/f
1. please give me a good website for a color chart for myspace.
2. a background code.
3. background images.
4. how to add a table [like music, television, movies, etc.]
thanks!
If you go to this website you can find all the answers to the questions you have about myspace
http://help.nuclearcentury.com/archive/index.php/f-3.html
& to get a background you can go to this website
www.mygirlyspace.com they have the cutest layouts for girls!
& for the table just look at the first link i gave you i`m sure it tells how to add tables like music, television and all that in there.
I hope I helped! ♥
i really want to loose 15-20 pounds by beginning of march. it's hard around the holidays & everything but i really dont like the way my clothes look on me and i just feel so fat and i want to feel hot and feel good aout myself so can someone please give me tips to aide me in eating & exercise? PLEASE PLEASEEEEEEEE im desperate
Yeah, it sure is hard to loose weight on Holidays, because that`s the time of year when you actually gain more weight than usual. Here are some things you could do to loose weight, if you are wanting to loose weight around your stomach area and develop some abs then you should deffinantly do crunches. Crunches work very good in that area. But if you are wanting to loose weight just all over, then you should think about running a mile everyday. My friend did that and she looks so much skinnier now. & when you run ware alot of layers of clothes, because when you sweat that brings more fat out, I surely recommend running, it really works. But if you are looking for something easier you could perhaps try dancing, dancing works very well too. Or you can go to a heated pool, and swim it really works too! Or you can just get a membership at the gym, and hop on a tread-mill =)! Those are just some things you could do! You should also eat healthy, that`s the number one way to loose weight, because you can`t just work out and then eat like a pig. You should eat alot of salad for instance tuna salad if you want some good taste in it. Eat alot of fruit & steamed vegetables those are very healthy. I hope I helped & I wish you tons of Luck! & If you stick to a basic balanced diet, you could just be amazed by the results! ♥ =)
15/m
i've been running 3 miles a day for about 3 months now. but now that its over ive gone down to 1 mile a day, to give my body a rest. so now i have all this energy, but my face has always remained...chubby? and i dont find it attractive, also i'm 50 german 50 italian, so it deffinitely cannot be genetics. So any way to define my face more?
I have chubby cheeks & it really dosen`t go away. I`ve asked and tryed so many things, but my doctor said it just goes away by itself , or either you`re stuck with it. I think it`s a european thing though. Cuz i`m Bosnian & I was born in Germany, So hmm Idk but really it`ll go away by its self. Just be patient! Good Luck ♥ :]] Hope I helped
Alright im not good for asking advice from people i dont know. But here it goes, there is this guy iv been going out with for about 3 weeks now. Well it all started on holloween when we were sitting around me and him started to be uhmmm F*** buddies if you get my drift. At the time he still had a girlfriend, well he would tell me all these stories about her and it was horrid. Well he came attached to me and i to him needless to say he broke up with her for me. Well now this girl is coming up to me saying that he is her boyfriend and theyve been together for 2 years she doesnt care what the hell he says hes hers and if i talk or go near him shes gonna kick my ass blah blah the normal shit. When she walked away she said she was gonna cut me, well im not one to be intimidated or back down from something i want. So now another girl coems up to me this time and tells me hes cheating on me again and by now three girls have all came up to me. But on the other hand they are all of her friends to. Iv talked to him each time and he said that they wernt going out and hes getting mad or so i think he is if its all an act i dont know. So now im confused out of my mind and hurt beyound hell and i need help what should i do? I RATE
Wow, I honestly think you should just forget about this guy & move on. Just let him and his old g/f get back together, because if it just goes on like this then you guys are going to get absolutely no where. If i were you then I`d just end it with him, he seems like a "player" type & maybe he is cheating on you, just brake up with him & find your self a real boyfriend who won`t leave you for his old g/f`s :]] Good Luck & hope I helped ♥
Well there is this boy that i really like and think about 24/7! his name is Victor! But hes is really bad in school and he got in school suspention twice a month does that mean hes expeled from school???????
Oh yeah does Expelled mean that you cant ever go back to school for a certain time or forever????
Please help i really am in love with this hottie dude!!!!!!!
~deprested
No, that dosen`t mean he got expelled. I know people who get in-schools like every other week. & they don`t get expelled, you only get expelled if you do something really wrong like do a drug infront of a teacher or soemthing like that! :]] ♥
14/f
Ok, I have dated this boy on and off since the fourth grade. Well the last time we dated was for 6 months steady... The last time I broke up with him he said he didn't have feelings for me anymore. For some reason I think he has feelings for me because we have been doing this for years. How do I find out if he still likes me without asking him or having my friends ask him. I of course still like him, but don't know what his feelings are... I need to know so I can eighter let out or try once more... PLEASE anything would be helpful, PLEASE help me!!!
To be honost, Ofcourse he is going to have feelings for you, you guys have been dating on and off since 4th grade... he`s deff. always going to have feelings for you, so he does like you. Guys are like that they try to deny their feelings for a girl they usually like, but then if you start to talk to them alot they will say they like you. The same thing happend to me & he still ended up liking me! So just talk to him & be nice & sooner or later you`ll be going out with him again, but this time don`t end it too soon . :]] Good Luck ♥
how do i take my bestfriend back into my life again.. :( this is not the first time that this happend she forgived me alot of times but this time she got fed up now i have a really big problem because i did this.
i ending up telling someone... When i talked to her she just said that "i don't think you can earn it back" :( but shes open to be mutual friends and its up to me if i want to catch her the last words i heard from her is "catch me if you can" the hardest is I'AM FALLING FOR MY BESTFRIEND!!! pls... she means alot to me I'll do anything just to be with her i feel so empty without her i don't care if wer just friends or shes my girlfriend bottom line is im with her Plzzz.......give me advice to what to do.. :(
You reallyy need to talk to her. & to me it seem`s like she`s playing "hard to get back". So deff. talk to her or write her a note, that`s the only way you`ll get her back! :]] Good Luck! ♥
Ok I need some advice on what to do.
There is this one person who her and i used to be Best Friends.
We did almost everything together.
We were together as much as we could
Well then durring the Carnival by my house she started to hang with someone else
I didnt really like that other person that much
I think she can be really freaking annoying
The girl who was my friend we still talked
But then she started to hang out with the other girl more
I would hang out with them but i would be the third wheel
I would try to join them but it was just so akward
Well that girl who was my friend her and i hardly ever talked
We would hang out occasionly but the other girl would be there
so i would just be so left out
I tryed telling my friend that
she said she would try and stop
well she didnt it just got worse
now we hardly ever talk
So i wrote her a letter a few weeks ago because i finally had enough of it and told her how i felt
Well she said that it made her feel bad and that she wanted to hang out some more because she was getting the same treatment from that one girl
that girl was hanging out with someone else and was leaving her out
well she hasnt talked to me since she said that
i sent her a text saying "What happened to us? we used to be so close. I lost another best friend. They either ditch me or move away."
and she never replied
I dont know what to do
This girl is just so close to my heart and i dont want to lose her
Please help me and tell me what i should do,
If i should just forget about her and see if she comes back then
or If i should try and talk to her again?
Please I really need the advice.
Ok
Thanks
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this is for my freind so if its confusing its because shes a little M.R.
Awee! Okay well wow it really seems like you LOVE this girl , maybe even more than a friend. Which is totally okay! What I think you should do is call her up & say that youd like to meet her somewhere. & If she says yes then go and meet her and tell her everything that you have been wanting to tell her, but if she says no. Then just tell her over the phone. It will work! & I really hope you guys work this out! :]] ♥ Good Luck!
my mom is having her 29th birthday and ma bff invited me to the ross game and then go to the haunted hydro so wut should i do i think that i should go to ma moms b-day and then go to the hydro so wut should i do ?????????????
Go to your mom`s birthday first! Deff. & Then if it`s over early , then go to your friends ross game and the haunted hydro! Havce fun! ♥
I've decided to take up indoor tanning. I'm gonna start a membership at Hollywood tans this month. I was wondering, how many times should I go a week, and for how long (10 minutes, 15 minutes)? I want to build up a DARK tan. As dark as i can get. If it helps, I'm using HT60 tanning bed. Thanks alot! : )
You should go atleast 5 times a week , and go for 15-20 minutes. But usually some people get kind of a sunburn from it. So if you get one then stop going for atleast 2 days. & ware tanning lotion , because if you don`t then you can develop skin cancer [ be careful ] & Hope I helped ♥
So there's this girl that i like. It just started out as a casual thing after i met her at a festival. We were seeing each other quite regularly and I thought our relationship was starting to develop. I started to talk to her about things getting more serious and she said there was "another guy". I was really cut up over it but she said that he was goin away to university and that she was going to just get over him and that i would just have to give her some time. I did, and things started going well again, then when I was going to see about furthering our relationship she said she was going out with this other guy. She led me on and i was upset, but i still like her, and now im worried that with him being at university he's going to cheat on her and hurt her but she won't listen to me because she just thinks that i'll be doing it to be petty. I still have feelings for her and I want her to be happy whether thats with me or without, but anyone know how i could talk to her about this?
Well , You should leave her alone for a little while. & then see how it goes. But if you don`t want to leave her alone & you want to talk to her you can say this to her -> Hey , I really care alot about you , I always have. I really like you alot & you probably don`t like me which I understand. But there are so many guys out there that are jerks , and I don`t want to see you get hurt. Why can`t you just give me a chance? I`ve liked you for so long , and I`ve tryed to get over you. But let me be totally honost with you... no matter what I do , I can`t get over you.< say something like that , and if she seems like she dosen`t really care about what you said. Then you know what , just forget about her. There`s so many other girls out there that would love to be your girlfriend , I know it`s hard to get over somebody & it takes forever , but eventually you will get over her. Good Luck & I Hope I helped ♥
Things were going GREAT with Nick until Friday afternoon. Earlier that day, he said I could sit by him at lunch since my friends weren't going to be there. I didn't actually end up sitting by him because my friends came back and forced me to be by them. But anyways, then I sat by him at the pep ralley and he said "What happened at lunch? I saved you a seat". I explained to him the story and apologized and then we just joked and laughed the whole time. I really like Nick because of his personality. Everything he says or does makes me smile or laugh. BUT after school, everything changed. Nick's friend, Will, knew that I liked Nick so he asked Nick if he'd want to go to homecoming with me. That made me really mad because I wanted Nick to ask ME. And if I was going to be the person who asked, I wanted to do it myself and not have somebody else do it for me. Well long story short, Nick said no. I have no idea why. Maybe it was because he couldn't make it or maybe it's because he doesn't like me. I really want to know! If I don't have a chance with him, I'd rather him tell me that so I can move on. It's just confusing because all of the signs point to him liking me. He flirts with me all the time! I'm not upset that he said no to me, but I'm upset because now everything is different. He completley avoided me after that and didn't talk to me like he normally would've. I just want things to go back to how they used to be =( Even if that means we are only friends! What should I do?
aww! Well I deff. think that Nick likes you. I think the reason he said no it because usually when guy`s say "oh that girl likes you / wants to go to homecomming with you" the guy dosen`t want it to seem like he likes her so ofcourse he said no , guys at the age of 14 can be really immature. You should just pretend like you don`t know anything about what happend , and just talk to him like normal. & if he brings anything up about the homecomming thing , then just say "Huh? What are you taking about?" && then it will be all normal again. Hope everything works out! & I hope I helped! ♥
i dont get it,when a guy comes into a relationship, my friends get whacko, any ideas to change that?
Well they`re probably scared that they aren`t going to be friends with you anymore , they probably think you will want to spend more time with the guy then with your friends. Some ways you could change that are by talking to them and telling them that "no guy could ever ruin your guys`s relationship" just talk to your friends & then they won`t go "whacko" , I hope I helped & Good Luck ♥
I have a huge crush and he doesnt feel the same but I really want to be closer friends anyway. He doesnt like going places where he's the only guy so it has to be a group thing. What do you think we should do? I always thought of me having a holiday party and having a sevcret santa and "secretly" giving him me.He also loves the jets so I thought a couple of friends and I could go to the game. I really want something fun that can show him that i'm a fun, cute, sweet girl. Any suggestions?
aww , well i know what you`re going through. He might just like you , you never know! Well some things you could do are invite him to that jets game like invite on of your girls and then invite that guy you like and say hey you can bring a friend if you want! He will probably start to like you! Or that holiday party sounds so cute..but i don`t think you should do that yet. You should just hang around him alot , but don`t be really annoying or anything , Because the more you guys spend time with eachother - the more he will like you , trust me! : ] . & then wait like 2 weeks after the jets game & then have a holiday party and secretly give him yourself. && before you know it , you 2 will be a couple! Good Luck! ♥
okay so i'm 13 & i'm gonna turn 14 on november 12th. & i'm def. gonna have a b-day party! i just dont know what to do 4 it. like what places to go...things like that. & i think i wanna rent a limo or sumthin. so what should i do 4 my party?
Happy Early Birthday! ♥ - You could rent a limo & then drive to get ice-cream & then you could go to the movies//mall. Or you can always have a party at your house & do crazy stuff , that`s what I did for my birthday it turned out pretty fun : ] . Or you can go to tee-time or a place with go carts or something like that , that`s always fun! But i personally think the limo idea would be totally fun! : ] Have fun! ♥
hey,thanks for opening this,i hope you girls can answer my question.
WHat is the most creative/romantic/unforgettable way to tell a girl you love her?
I mean i can go with the traditional telling her "i love you",but i want something different.
here are some of my suggestions
1)ask her is she believes in love at first sight,if she says yes then i will say i didin't believe it at first until i met you.
2)the sky is full of stars,the sea is full water,but my heart is full of you.
3)third question:do you girls think that sending a letter,speaking face to face,sending a message,sending an email,or just telling her through her friends will give the best impression? I mean,I think that messaging her is kind of sissy,and that sending her an eamil is also a pussy way of telling her,so would girls flip for a guy that sends her a letter or just tells her face to face about his feelings?or would you rather a guy tell you through the phone?
thanks a lot for reading,please answer my questions if the first two choices are good and what way you girls would prefer from the third question,and if you guys have any other creative suggestions please fell free to send it,i will rate good ones.
Aww! Well first of all you should tell her in person! Telling someone you like them over AIM or E-MAiL or over a NOTE is just stupid , because it`s just better to say it in person. I know it`s pretty scary , & you`ll be so nervouse but you can do anything you set your mind too , when you tell her you should start out by saying "Hey can I talk to you?" Then she`ll probably say yes. Then you should say " Have you ever loved someone so much that no matter what you do they`re always on your mind?" And she`ll say something , then you should say "Well i have , and I can`t get this girl out of my mind It`s driving me crazy , and I`ve been dying to tell her how I feel , but she`s just so perfect , that maybe if I mess up when I tell her I Love her she will just leave me , and then say you want to know who the girl is? "Well that girl is you , i Love you Alot & I hope you love me too But if you don`t then that just really sucks for me , but whatever guy gets you must be the luckiest guy on earth , and then kiss her. That`s just really sweet! : ] Good Luck! ♥
theres this boy that liked me and i liked him for years, he was my first kiss when i was younger and everything. Last year we got really close to going out. things were really exciting for a while cuz we both liked each other and he was telling him and my closest friends that he wanted to ask me out. Well, summer came, school ended..and he didnt. he screwed me over because once school started up again..he bascially never talked to me. i know he doesnt like me enough to do anything about it now, and im over it. But now one of my close friends likes him. she says its a small crush for now..but it still bothers me, even tho i dont like him...you dont go after your friends ex love right? hoes over bros..... it scares me to think that they would go out..because that would be awfully weird. What should i do? am i out of line to be weirded out?
15/f
Aww! You and that guy really need to go out , that would be so cute! Well first of all let me say that he maybe does like you because boys are pretty good about hiding their feelings, trust me. Your friend deff. should NOT go out with him , because first of all she should be smart enough to know that you are always going to have feelings for him because he was your first kiss and nothing will ever make you forget that [[ so what i`m saying is , [[ you know you still got a thing for him! ]] You need to talk to your friend and say , "Okay look I know that you like him and all that but seriously if you are my true friend [[which i think you are ]] then don`t go out with him , you know i am always going to have a thing for him , hello he was my first kiss and i always liked him. So if you are willing to screw our friend ship over a guy , then you go right ahead! But when you 2 brake up I won`t be there for you. < Write her a note saying something like that , Good Luck!
♥ minela
i just got finished with my period..like a dayago and today my boyfriend came over and he fingered me really hard..it felt good ..but then blood came out andi felt really dizzy..could it be he popped my cherry?..or could it be my period wasnt quiete finished yet..please help because i cried for hours not knowing what to do..i seriously do not want to lose my virgenty im 14/f
Since your period was over a day ago & then alot of blood just started comming back after he fingerd you that means he popped your cherry , But It`ll be okay , there`s kids who loose their virginity at the age of 10 or younger , so it`s not a big deal. Good Luck babe ♥
ok so theres this guy i really like and homecoming is coming up and i really want him to ask me. he flirts with me a little and one of my friends thinks he likes me but i dont know. he doesnt know that i like him. are their any things i can do to let him know im interested without telling him because everytime i told a guy i liked him he said "let's just be friends" and he never talked to me again. thanks for the advice.
Okay Well I think you should talk to him , and flirt. Smile at him. Then he will probably think you like him. Once you talk to him wait acouple days and then tell him how you feel , don`t be scared to say how you feel because you never know it might be too late , and if he says i want to be friends then forget him he`s not worth it. Trust me , but you never know , he may just like you! ;) Good Luck Babe! Hope everything works out great && Have fun at Homecomming!
xoxo minela
..hope i helped!♥