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a guy i loved for years, now him and my friend are gunna dat
theres this boy that liked me and i liked him for years, he was my first kiss when i was younger and everything. Last year we got really close to going out. things were really exciting for a while cuz we both liked each other and he was telling him and my closest friends that he wanted to ask me out. Well, summer came, school ended..and he didnt. he screwed me over because once school started up again..he bascially never talked to me. i know he doesnt like me enough to do anything about it now, and im over it. But now one of my close friends likes him. she says its a small crush for now..but it still bothers me, even tho i dont like him...you dont go after your friends ex love right? hoes over bros..... it scares me to think that they would go out..because that would be awfully weird. What should i do? am i out of line to be weirded out?
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well, this is becaclly normal for people. because once i like a boy and then i didnt and my friends stared dating him and i was jelouse fro some reason and i dont know why but my advice is if u like him then go after him but if u dont then go after some one else. its better that way k.
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it should feel weird because if you really had feelings for this guy and if he was your first kiss than you should explain that to your friend and try to get her to understand that as a friend she shouldnt make an attempt to even try to date him because if she does than shes not a real friend and as for him you should just tell him that its taking him a little to long for him to ask you out and how you feel uncomfortable about him bout to date your best friend and even if it is a small crush its going to get bigger trust me because the more that you dont show her that your not bothered by it shes going to keep moving in and if hes ignoring you than move you will much better after doing this.
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Aww! You and that guy really need to go out , that would be so cute! Well first of all let me say that he maybe does like you because boys are pretty good about hiding their feelings, trust me. Your friend deff. should NOT go out with him , because first of all she should be smart enough to know that you are always going to have feelings for him because he was your first kiss and nothing will ever make you forget that [[ so what i`m saying is , [[ you know you still got a thing for him! ]] You need to talk to your friend and say , "Okay look I know that you like him and all that but seriously if you are my true friend [[which i think you are ]] then don`t go out with him , you know i am always going to have a thing for him , hello he was my first kiss and i always liked him. So if you are willing to screw our friend ship over a guy , then you go right ahead! But when you 2 brake up I won`t be there for you. < Write her a note saying something like that , Good Luck!
♥ minela
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if you feel wierd about it then you should tell her and if shes your true friend then she will undertsand and not go for him. hope it helps
kim n gemz
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