Member Since: September 30, 2006 Answers: 3 Last Update: September 30, 2006 Visitors: 1402
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15/f. My friend and I both dated this guy. She dated him for like a few weeks or something and I dated him for about 3 months. He didn't talk to me that much after the first month, and I heard rumors about him cheating, so I broke up with him. This year he transferred to a different school about a month before we started to date, but I had known him from middle school. Anyways, I saw him recently at a football game, and when I started to talk to him I realized I still have feelings for him. I made sure my friend was over him when we went out, and she told me she doesn't like him at all anymore. At the game, she kept ditching me to go hangout with him and she told me she was going to get food. I saw her with him and she totally lied to me. I don't have claim over him and she's free to do what she wants, but she lied to me and went behind my back. I told her how I felt, and I guess were alright now, but I'm still a little upset. I don't know if I can trust her. My other friend told me that my ex had been looking for me, and I think we both are kind of ready to start things up again. But how do I know that my friend isn't going to try to mess things up? And how do I believe her after what she did to me? Obviously talking to her didn't work, because she can't seem to be honest about everything.
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well i have been in the same situation. and what i did was i didnt belive my friend she leied to me once she waqs probably going to do it again. but then i found out she wasnt leing. i regreted that so my advice is that belive her but if she does it again dobnt belive her
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This is a question for all you girls who know "the rules" to how to get THE guy.
To all you who know how to flirt, play hard to get, and keep the dude exactly where you want him.
Here it goes..
This guy and I live in different countries.
We've met twice (through friends and relatives)
We've been e-mailing for a while. Flirting somewhat.
I've been told this is where you start paying hard to get! after getting his attention!
So.. I havn't replaied to his last e-mail (sent two weeks ago)
so where do i go from here?
I can't just keep playing hard to get, cause then we'll lose touch.
So when do i make my move? and what is my move?
juts out of the blue sending him an email non-related to the last one?
or what?
thhxx!
ps. 15/fm (link)
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i think ur should just go for it. ask him out. whats there to lose. if u dont maby some one else will but the best thing is to keep an open mind
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theres this boy that liked me and i liked him for years, he was my first kiss when i was younger and everything. Last year we got really close to going out. things were really exciting for a while cuz we both liked each other and he was telling him and my closest friends that he wanted to ask me out. Well, summer came, school ended..and he didnt. he screwed me over because once school started up again..he bascially never talked to me. i know he doesnt like me enough to do anything about it now, and im over it. But now one of my close friends likes him. she says its a small crush for now..but it still bothers me, even tho i dont like him...you dont go after your friends ex love right? hoes over bros..... it scares me to think that they would go out..because that would be awfully weird. What should i do? am i out of line to be weirded out?
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well, this is becaclly normal for people. because once i like a boy and then i didnt and my friends stared dating him and i was jelouse fro some reason and i dont know why but my advice is if u like him then go after him but if u dont then go after some one else. its better that way k.
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