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She's taking him from me
15/f. My friend and I both dated this guy. She dated him for like a few weeks or something and I dated him for about 3 months. He didn't talk to me that much after the first month, and I heard rumors about him cheating, so I broke up with him. This year he transferred to a different school about a month before we started to date, but I had known him from middle school. Anyways, I saw him recently at a football game, and when I started to talk to him I realized I still have feelings for him. I made sure my friend was over him when we went out, and she told me she doesn't like him at all anymore. At the game, she kept ditching me to go hangout with him and she told me she was going to get food. I saw her with him and she totally lied to me. I don't have claim over him and she's free to do what she wants, but she lied to me and went behind my back. I told her how I felt, and I guess were alright now, but I'm still a little upset. I don't know if I can trust her. My other friend told me that my ex had been looking for me, and I think we both are kind of ready to start things up again. But how do I know that my friend isn't going to try to mess things up? And how do I believe her after what she did to me? Obviously talking to her didn't work, because she can't seem to be honest about everything.
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well i have been in the same situation. and what i did was i didnt belive my friend she leied to me once she waqs probably going to do it again. but then i found out she wasnt leing. i regreted that so my advice is that belive her but if she does it again dobnt belive her
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That's a tough situation. I think it's almost like choosing between your friend, and the guy. Which one is more important to you?
I don't think she should have done that to you. She obviously, still likes him and since she lied to you over that, I don't think she's going to give up on him, even for you. I would talk to her again, and tell her you don't appreciate her lying to you, and see what she says.
But I wouldn't completely leave the guy off the hook, either. Because he hung out with her, just the same as she hung out with him. I don't know if he's really worth a second chance. I think it just depends on how you feel, and follow your heart, it will tell you what to do.
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