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confused, what does this mean?
I just broke up with my boyfriend a week ago. And I still love him. Well on Monday he asked some other girl out but she never gave him an answer so he gave up on her(supposedly). And he likes to say shit like he broke up with me and other stuff. But whenever he see's me or talks to me he seems so sad. Like I called him to see if I could drop by real fast to give him his key back and he said yea sure. When I get there he looked at me sadly. Then when I was leaving he stood at the screen door and watched me walk away. Then he called me today to see how I am doing and stuff. When he said bye to me it sounded really sad. What does all this mean? It makes me really confussed =/
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maybe he regrets what he did but its still n excuse to give u mixed signals like that. or maybe hes just upset, ask himif theres anything wrong to show him that you care. If he still likes you hell probs let you know.
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kim
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It seems to me like your boyfriends upset and hurt that you dumped him, and he just really misses you.
For the girl thing, that sounds to me like a total rebound girl. He's just trying to make it seem like "Oh I don't care, look I like another girl already. That's how over it I am." When really, he could care less about that girl, probably. It's just a ploy to try and make you jealous.
As for the telling everbody HE dumped YOU, that's just to make it seem like he wasn't hurt in the end. You know, whenever couples break up it's usually the tough-guy dumping the girl and she's all sad over it and yada-yada, and I think he just didn't want people to know he got dumped and he was feeling bad about it, so he made up a lie to cover it all up.
If you still love him and it seems to me like he really likes/loves you too, you guys need to talk about whatever it is that went wrong in the relationship and try and fix it so everything'll be good again. I'm sure whatever the problem was, if you guys are commited enough and want to stay together enough, then you'll make it through whatever problem it may be.
I hope I helped.
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okay. well. the other girl=rebound. he doesnt care about her or else he would still be trying. also, if he told you about it.. its a possibility he is trying to make you jealous... anyways.. he still wants to be with you. im in almost the same situation.. kind of.. and my ex calls me everyday to see how im doing and he`ll tell me i look beautiful and blah blah.. hes just being a guy though.. soo.. bottom line is..... he still loves you. & almost all boys will say theyre the ones who broke up just so they dont feel like a pansy.. so. yeah. good luck.
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Well By the way it seems, your ex-boyfriend still likes you. If he didnt have any feelings for you he wouldn't seem so sad and try to act like a "player" in front of his friends saying "oh yeah I dumped her" usually when guys do that they are usually hurt and they just do it to seem cool and try to make it feel better. i kow this may sound corny. But if you do like him and it does seem like he likes you, you should try to make it work again.
Hope I helped!
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