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Dilemna
Things were going GREAT with Nick until Friday afternoon. Earlier that day, he said I could sit by him at lunch since my friends weren't going to be there. I didn't actually end up sitting by him because my friends came back and forced me to be by them. But anyways, then I sat by him at the pep ralley and he said "What happened at lunch? I saved you a seat". I explained to him the story and apologized and then we just joked and laughed the whole time. I really like Nick because of his personality. Everything he says or does makes me smile or laugh. BUT after school, everything changed. Nick's friend, Will, knew that I liked Nick so he asked Nick if he'd want to go to homecoming with me. That made me really mad because I wanted Nick to ask ME. And if I was going to be the person who asked, I wanted to do it myself and not have somebody else do it for me. Well long story short, Nick said no. I have no idea why. Maybe it was because he couldn't make it or maybe it's because he doesn't like me. I really want to know! If I don't have a chance with him, I'd rather him tell me that so I can move on. It's just confusing because all of the signs point to him liking me. He flirts with me all the time! I'm not upset that he said no to me, but I'm upset because now everything is different. He completley avoided me after that and didn't talk to me like he normally would've. I just want things to go back to how they used to be =( Even if that means we are only friends! What should I do?
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It is entirely possible that he does not want to go to Homecoming as a first date. Which is logical; it's a dance, and it's a much different situation than a one-on-one lunch or another typical first date would be.
Talk to him. Ask him if he'd like to do something another time. And if he brings up the homecoming thing, mention that you didn't ask Will to ask and you want his car to explode while he's driving it. Or something roughly equivalent.
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Dear,Help me.
Boys are strange. Someimes they want to be with us and other times they avoid us entirly. Well here's what I think. Either he's not ready for a commitment or he's just shy. He very well may like you or hes the type who thinks he can toy with your feelings. As for the whole change in attitude against you that can be very difficuly since i've had it happen to me many times.
First of all I think you should talk to Will then you should talk to Nick face to face and ask him why he's treating you diffrently. Boys can be stubborn but it's up to us girls to be accertive. If he won't listen make him it's only fair. Your friend,Violet
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aww! Well I deff. think that Nick likes you. I think the reason he said no it because usually when guy`s say "oh that girl likes you / wants to go to homecomming with you" the guy dosen`t want it to seem like he likes her so ofcourse he said no , guys at the age of 14 can be really immature. You should just pretend like you don`t know anything about what happend , and just talk to him like normal. & if he brings anything up about the homecomming thing , then just say "Huh? What are you taking about?" && then it will be all normal again. Hope everything works out! & I hope I helped! ♥
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Act normal around nick - as if you didnt know anything about will asking nick.Then ask nick if he is going.If he says yes ask who with and if he says no ask why?Tell him you dont have time to go there but you gonna TRY and make it - to make it sound as if you arent to eager to see if he is going and as if you arent to eager to go yourself - see if it works honey xxx
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