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HELP
Alright im not good for asking advice from people i dont know. But here it goes, there is this guy iv been going out with for about 3 weeks now. Well it all started on holloween when we were sitting around me and him started to be uhmmm F*** buddies if you get my drift. At the time he still had a girlfriend, well he would tell me all these stories about her and it was horrid. Well he came attached to me and i to him needless to say he broke up with her for me. Well now this girl is coming up to me saying that he is her boyfriend and theyve been together for 2 years she doesnt care what the hell he says hes hers and if i talk or go near him shes gonna kick my ass blah blah the normal shit. When she walked away she said she was gonna cut me, well im not one to be intimidated or back down from something i want. So now another girl coems up to me this time and tells me hes cheating on me again and by now three girls have all came up to me. But on the other hand they are all of her friends to. Iv talked to him each time and he said that they wernt going out and hes getting mad or so i think he is if its all an act i dont know. So now im confused out of my mind and hurt beyound hell and i need help what should i do? I RATE
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Wow, I honestly think you should just forget about this guy & move on. Just let him and his old g/f get back together, because if it just goes on like this then you guys are going to get absolutely no where. If i were you then I`d just end it with him, he seems like a "player" type & maybe he is cheating on you, just brake up with him & find your self a real boyfriend who won`t leave you for his old g/f`s :]] Good Luck & hope I helped ♥
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you may hate this answer, but think:
you and a guy go out for 2 years.
2 years is a long time.
in 2 years, you can share over 3 momories a day. that's alot of memories.
the reason his ex was behaving in this mannor was probably because she was distraught about the current situation. getting dumped is bad enough, but dumping her so that he can be with the person he cheated with? thats not only shocking and wrong, but it must hurt like a bitch for her. they must have loved eachother if he was teling you stories about her.(and i know stories of exes arent nice at all) well...she must have loved him ayway other wise she wouldnt be acting like this towards you. so give her some slack.
dont get me wrong...youre not to blame, this is the guys fault. he should know better, and i hope you can see that he is using you for sex, which means that he's not worth it- as can't wont love you, otherwise he would repect you by NOT sleeping with you..and using you. sex will mean nothing to him. once hes got it, he'll either leave, or wait for you for dump him - that is unless he does it sooner as he may have got tired of you.
it happens you know? you get good guys,and bad guys. this one is a bad guy, and i feel sorry for both you and his ex.
you can both find someone better, believe me. i was in a similar situation a couple of years ago. my first b/f used me, and cheated on me, and had another g/f weeks afet the breakup. it made me learn my leson though. make sure you are in control of the situation.
its wrong that his ex is threatening you. dont start anything with her, leave it. you already got her boyfriend. just ignore her. however, if you think she may be serious about this, then you may want to tell someone. dont lie to get her into trouble though. thats just being bitchy :S
you know what this guy is like,you mknow his kind- they lie. i wouldnt be surprised if that rumor was true :(
he has hurt you. you tell him where to go,and you leave him. then you can be loved by another guy without worrying about him cheating :)
please stop letting him use you . itll only hurt you more
good luck:)
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Look, if this guy cheated on his ex. He could have cheated again with you.
But if you think you could trust him with what he tells you, then continue going out.
I think if those girls are saying that, obviously they want you to break up with him. Don't let them get to you. Those girls are trying to help that one girl out.
But if your guy, is.. showing signs of cheating.
Get rid of him.
If he has no time for you
or if he works late, always busy, won't answer calls/etc
Then you need to talk to him.
But you shouldn't trust him fully yet. He cheated once he could cheat again. Maybe the girls could be right though.
But if you're willing to give him a chance then go ahead!
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