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Hanging Out With A Crush
I have a huge crush and he doesnt feel the same but I really want to be closer friends anyway. He doesnt like going places where he's the only guy so it has to be a group thing. What do you think we should do? I always thought of me having a holiday party and having a sevcret santa and "secretly" giving him me.He also loves the jets so I thought a couple of friends and I could go to the game. I really want something fun that can show him that i'm a fun, cute, sweet girl. Any suggestions?
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Hm, if you wanted to have a party of some sort, you could ask him if he wanted to go bowling or something where you and him and his friends can enjoy a fun night out. That Jets idea is good idea too =). You should do something you both enjoy too. Now that christmas is over you cant really do the secret santa, but, you can send him little secret admirer notes if you want to, but there may be a risk in doing that. Anyways, just do something where a group of people can enjoy doing something and talk to your crush and have fun. =) Hope i helped.
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Sorry i replied so late. There are plenty of things you can do. Go to the movies, go out to eat, bowling, invite every1 over to your house, and you can definitely go to the jets game with him.
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i think you i.med me with this question and you didnt like my answer
if he doesnt feel the same, dont push yourself onto him
why not just plan for a couple of people to go to the movies or something and invite him
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Well those sound like great ideas but maybe you should start off when something a bit smaller than a Jets game.
Just hangout at the movies, go bowling, go to the mall, or wherever everyone always hangsout.
Just keep on becoming better and better friends with him and start flirting it up.
Have fun!
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AS A GROUP (definitely since he hates being the only guy in certain situations): go to a concert, the Jets game like you said, watch a movie or have a TV marathon night, play ghost in the graveyard or capture the flag (or stupud kid-ish stuff like that because it's actually fun even though you're probably older), go shopping, etc. Talk to him a lot and get to know him better when you're hanging out in a group and eventually maybe he'll want to hang out with just you. Don't hang on him or act desperate though, okay? Okay. Good luck and have fun, kiddo.
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Wow how that brings back memories. For startes those are great ideas lol but don't force yourself on him. I would start off going to a game like you sudjested or as far as going out to eat with a few friends. Dinner convorsations always prove most interesting.
Your friend, Violet
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hi.. i answered the private question you asked me so ill just copy and paste what i said there.
aww hun, ive gone through the same thing 100 times and you have some really good ideas! you should deffinitely go to one of those "jets" games since he loves that team. oh yeah other good suggestions are the movies mall bowling ice skating roller blading, anything fun like that.. if your going with a group go with both boys and girls so hes not outnumbered. flirt with him smile and touch him in a playful way and make sure you show that your funny and sweet and make sure he has a great time. dont be boring or shy because he wont want to do anything with you ever again you have to be outgoing! oh yeah make sure you wear a super cute outfit dont overdo it though.. hope you have fun!!
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Well you can ask him do you want to hang out after school. do your Hw together and call him once and a while. dont try to be to ovbois or he will feel bad for see if you can see another guy. so you sont wait your hole life for him always talk to him you can be friends then got together. that is what happend for my brothers
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aww , well i know what you`re going through. He might just like you , you never know! Well some things you could do are invite him to that jets game like invite on of your girls and then invite that guy you like and say hey you can bring a friend if you want! He will probably start to like you! Or that holiday party sounds so cute..but i don`t think you should do that yet. You should just hang around him alot , but don`t be really annoying or anything , Because the more you guys spend time with eachother - the more he will like you , trust me! : ] . & then wait like 2 weeks after the jets game & then have a holiday party and secretly give him yourself. && before you know it , you 2 will be a couple! Good Luck! ♥
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aww hun, ive gone through the same thing 100 times and you have some really good ideas! you should deffinitely go to one of those "jets" games since he loves that team. oh yeah other good suggestions are the movies mall bowling ice skating roller blading, anything fun like that.. if your going with a group go with both boys and girls so hes not outnumbered. flirt with him smile and touch him in a playful way and make sure you show that your funny and sweet and make sure he has a great time. dont be boring or shy because he wont want to do anything with you ever again you have to be outgoing! oh yeah make sure you wear a super cute outfit dont overdo it though.. hope you have fun!!
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If youre not sure what you really want to do you could go 2 da cinemas that way if you ind him hard to talk to then you can watch the movie plus it will give u a chance to get to knwo him before doing something else. If youg et to know him then youll know what he really likes doing and youll be able 2 do something you both really like. and to do something to show him your a fun,cute, sweet girl just be yourself. And the secret santa sounds gd. Also do things a guy likes to do so he knows that he can be himself around you
good luck
kim
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ye you should throw a halloween party. if he doesnt feel the same way about you, you probably shouldnt 'give him yourself,' because then you might scare him away. the jets would also be another really good idea because its also a group of friends. just be very flirtascious =]
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