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Help Me!
Ok I need some advice on what to do.
There is this one person who her and i used to be Best Friends.
We did almost everything together.
We were together as much as we could
Well then durring the Carnival by my house she started to hang with someone else
I didnt really like that other person that much
I think she can be really freaking annoying
The girl who was my friend we still talked
But then she started to hang out with the other girl more
I would hang out with them but i would be the third wheel
I would try to join them but it was just so akward
Well that girl who was my friend her and i hardly ever talked
We would hang out occasionly but the other girl would be there
so i would just be so left out
I tryed telling my friend that
she said she would try and stop
well she didnt it just got worse
now we hardly ever talk
So i wrote her a letter a few weeks ago because i finally had enough of it and told her how i felt
Well she said that it made her feel bad and that she wanted to hang out some more because she was getting the same treatment from that one girl
that girl was hanging out with someone else and was leaving her out
well she hasnt talked to me since she said that
i sent her a text saying "What happened to us? we used to be so close. I lost another best friend. They either ditch me or move away."
and she never replied
I dont know what to do
This girl is just so close to my heart and i dont want to lose her
Please help me and tell me what i should do,
If i should just forget about her and see if she comes back then
or If i should try and talk to her again?
Please I really need the advice.
Ok
Thanks
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this is for my freind so if its confusing its because shes a little M.R.
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*sigh* to lose a best friend is hard, i should know. Happened to me about 2 times... Anyway i would say it's a total lost cause man. The reason why that's so is because women have a tendency to hang out with their own kind. It doesn't matter if you act the same is that one girl who took your best friend. She's a girl, and they can relate to each other BECUASE she's a girl.
That's really the answer, plus sending letters? that's 4th grade stuff, that's also a sense of fear and for some odd reason women can smell it, like wet tech-support.. with onions. Anyway dude, just let her go, occasionaly talk to her and say hi. Although for the most part she want to hang out with other girls like all girls do. Just play it cool and eventually she'll come around for something.
If she asks for any favors, JUST SAY NO!!! that means she could use you and if you buy in to that she'll do it again and again. Also being a jerk helps out too, but not too much. Chicks like being treated like crap for some reason ^^ well hope this helps
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alright well. it sounds to me like this girl isn't a good friend. if she ditches you for the next best thing that comes around it means she isn't reliable. it's happened to me. and i decided to just let it go and make a new best friend. it hurts but it's something that you just gotta do. but if it'll make you feel better just try to talk to her one more time, after that it seems a bit pointless.
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Awee! Okay well wow it really seems like you LOVE this girl , maybe even more than a friend. Which is totally okay! What I think you should do is call her up & say that youd like to meet her somewhere. & If she says yes then go and meet her and tell her everything that you have been wanting to tell her, but if she says no. Then just tell her over the phone. It will work! & I really hope you guys work this out! :]] ♥ Good Luck!
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