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Hey, I'm Kayla. I'm eighteen years old. I love giving advice as well as receiving it. I'm finally out of high school!

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i told my boyfriend that he could dip and he said he wouldn't do it if it would bother me but i wanted him to be happy so i told him it was ok with me but it really bothers me like alot and i can't tell him how i feel because his 16th bday is sunday and i want it to be the best bday he's ever had, so what should i do?

Just tell him that it bothers you and you could tell him he can dip but not around you. He shouldn't be mad about it.

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okay, here I am, there are some guys, who are kinda my -best-friends... they like me, and I don't know which one to go out with, please, help me pick one:
a) Fred: he's very calm and quiet, not speak a word. He only speaks to me and tells me only about his problems. Very cold hearted, yet nice at the same time. He has been crushing on me since fourth grade.
b) Tao: he's very popular and sensitive, he tells me everything and so do I. He always breaks up with his girlfriends anytime I'm available. He has been crushing on me since sixth grade.
c) Yoh: my ex-boyfriend. we broke up because of misunderstanding and now he wants to get back with me. He is sensitive, understadable, and nice. He's been crushing on me since fifth grade.
d) Leo: one of the nicest person to me. He's romantic and friendly. He's been waiting for me ever since sixth grade. That when he's been crushing me from.
e) Tony: a friend from kindergarten. He's so nice, sensitive, and popular. He's been crushing on me since eigth grade.
f) Richie: my ex-boyfriend in seventh grade. He's smart, intelligent, and super rich. He's been crushing on me since sixth grade.
g) Reid: my ex-boyfriend in sixth grade. He's popular, girls love him and stuffs, and he's athletic. He's been crushing on me since second grade.
They all are confessing love to me!! (They all go to different school, so if I date all of them, there won't be any problems, but I can't do that!!) Help me!!!

You should just go out with the one you like most.

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These days i feel left out.. my friends all either like someone or have a boyfriend or girlfriend and i dont have one and dont anyone either.. i have no idea what to do to keep my mind off of things like that. i was thinking of like having some friends over for like a girls only party to take our mind off of guys and even though we will probably talk about them i just dont know what to do. What should i do? If i were to have some people over what are some party ideas or things to do?

thanks

All girls feel left out when this happens. Give it awhile and there should be a guy come along =)

About the party, here is some links you could go to and see what you could do.

http://www.party411.com/gameguide-sleepovers.html

http://www.angelfire.com/tx2/coolwebpage1/slumberparty.html

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Can you tell me some good FREE photo editing programs and not trial ones? I need a few. TY. (BTW I HAVE WINDOWS XP)

Picasa
Photoshop PRO it is free cause i got it off www.download.com

hope I helped

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klc23

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ok... i have a boyfriend.. and we have been dating for like a year and a half.. he started to act a little funny around me.. and i found out that his parents are fighting and thinking about goin their on ways..

but there is this other guy that likes.. me.. and i kind of have feelings for him too....i dont know which one i should pick.. i think i should stay with my boyfriend but my feelings are all messed up... what do you think i should do??

I think you should stay with your boyfriend that way he'll have somebody to talk to about his parents..hope i helped

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klc23

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What are some good ways of getting rid of blackheads? Unless you've tried it and it works, don't suggest it. Thank you.

I know some stuff at Bath & body works..It's really good you just have to apply it once a week..I'm sorry I don't know the name of it.. but if you go to bath & body works i'm sure they'll help you find what i'm talking about..

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Ok, well I'm 14/f and I'm not sexually active at all... i don't even kiss guys (it's a personal choice). But I do crazy stuff with them if I'm at parties or soemthing.. like go streaking, flash them, haha play strip poker. It's just how the parties go. And it's not liek I do it alone, my best girlfriends all are in. Is this liek really slutty? Am i considered a slut? I mean I have fun and all, but I don't want to be considered a slut at all. Thanks for the advice

Don't be mad or anything, but if i knew you and saw you all doing that i would probably end up calling you all sluts..I don't think you should be that wild when your at parties cause boys might think your easy and might try to get you to do something that you don't want to do.. hope i helped

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klc23

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well heres the thing, i kinda like this boy and hes one of my bestfriends.. were really close and everything but i dont know what i should do.. because my bestfriend in the wholee entire world used to go out with him.. and im afraid she;ll get mad at me but im not very shure if i want to go out with this boy but i do its confusing ... helppp

Are you sure that your friend is over him? If she is make sure she is ok with the fact that you two might start dating..but if she isn't ok with the fact about you two don't date him til she finds someone new to fall for..If you aren't sure about dating this boy maybe you should wait awhile to see if you really want to.. hope I helped

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klc23

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i'm sooo bored can anyone give me ideas what to do instead of watching TV cause mine is broken =( so what should i do i'm soooo bored...

- www.albinoblacksheep.com
- www.ebaumsworld.com
- www.bored.com
- www.holliesquotes.com
- www.myspace.com

hope i helped
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klc23

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Hello, I was just wondering if anyone out there has tried that 6 second ab thing,where you put it on your lap & you push down until it clicks 3 times? Does it work, because I am not really feeling it. Also, I am actually not HUGE, but, of course everything I eat must stay right in my stomach. Any ideas on how to make it flatter by summer?

I ain't actually tried 6 second abs but I know a friend that said that it didn't work.. I know something that works very well to make your stomach flatter/give you abs.. lay down let someone stand and you grab there feet.. slightly raise your legs off the ground.. let the person that is standing have there hands out..then you raise your legs to their hands and then they push your feet down but you have to stop them from touching the ground.. keep doing that about 100 a night and it should give you a flatter stomach by the summer =) hope i helped

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klc23

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I'm in love with my best friend, and he's in love with me. I know this because we went out with each other. We want to get back together, but he's going out with my other best friend. He wants to break up with her to go out with me, but I don't want people to think that he broke up with her to go out with me because he's not. What should I do?

This will be a very hard choice to make because like the person below me said it will end up hurting somebody... I think that if he does break up with her to go out with you, you two should wait awhile before you two go out.. make sure your friend is over him or say it's ok to date him before you do..but then again it might hurt the girl very badly if you went otu with him period. hopefully I helped

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klc23

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I have a pretty big scar on my upper left leg from when I got surgery when I was a baby. Now that summer's coming up, I want to wear shorts and bikinis but I don't want anyone to see the scar. What are some ways to make the scar less noticible so you can't really see it?

Try to use cocoa butter like the girl below said or just try to get waterproof makeup/cover up the scar if those don't work people shouldn't care about your scar hopefully i helped

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klc23

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I am 14/f and i'm 5'6" I hate being tall so much. I'm going to grow more and i bet I'll end up like really tall. I don't really knwo for sure, but to me most of the pretty people are short. i am so self concious about it!! I wish i could be 5'4" and stay that way for ever. I think about it every day and it makes me really sad. How can i get over this. i'll rate high

You will probably grow more but most people that are shorter than you will grow to they just aint growing as fast as you.. just think about that and you shouldn't be self concious about it anymore

hope i helped
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klc23

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Ok so I have this splash party thing at the end of the year its on june 5th. But I get my period on the 2nd day of every month and lasts about a week. What should I do? I dont use tampons yet so how could I ever swim? What will I tell people if they don't see me swimming? Please help!

Try to use tampons, its not that hard just read the instructions on the box or on the paper that came in the box.. if you don't use tampons just tell your friends that your stomach is hurting.. hope i helped

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klc23

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What is the nicest way to break up with someone without hurting them too much? I preferr not in person though. Please Help

I think the nicest way to break up with someone is to get on the internet and tell them that you think that you two are to good of friends to date... hope I helped

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klc23

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how do you make a picture black and white, i tried paint but it just come out black.

You can download different programs.. I uste to have photoshop but now I have Picasa it's a really neat program you can change your pictures to any color you want black and white and everything here is the link to it. If you might want it.



http://picasa.google.com/

hope I helped
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klc23

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Does anyone have good frindship/love qoute websites? Thanks for helping!

www.best-love-poems.com
www.firehotquotes.com
www.xanga.com/OuTrAgEOuSDiSaSTeR

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Is being 132 pounds really fat for a 14 year old, 5'2''er girl? I wanna loose weight but how much? Thx! Ill rate!

http://www1.wfubmc.edu/weightmanagement/Am+I+Morbidly+Obese.htm

This place right here says your healthy

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My sister is such a bitch. Everytime I do the slightest thing wrong she swears at me (eg. f*cking retard, f*cking moron). She searches for stuff I do wrong so she can yell at me. She thinks she's a perfect little angel, when she's not and fucks up just as much as I do, but when she does, she just shrugs it off and says "whatever". I've tried ignoring but it doesn't work. How can I make her stop calling me names ? I really appreciate any help because I can't take this.

Just try to ignore it my sister hates the world so I do the slightest thing wrong she goes off on me.. or if she ain't bigger than you try to fight her.. if she is.. try to ignore it and go on with life.. hope I help

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klc23

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Okay how do i like get 3 of my pictures on myspace and make them like move in like a lil animation????like to make it my defalt picture?

IS there a website i can go to to do that???

Thanks

Get on http://whateverlife.com/tutorial1.php ... it will tell you how.. hope i help'

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klc23

p.s I didn't know that person underneath me had the same thing basically.. sorry

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