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Slut?
Ok, well I'm 14/f and I'm not sexually active at all... i don't even kiss guys (it's a personal choice). But I do crazy stuff with them if I'm at parties or soemthing.. like go streaking, flash them, haha play strip poker. It's just how the parties go. And it's not liek I do it alone, my best girlfriends all are in. Is this liek really slutty? Am i considered a slut? I mean I have fun and all, but I don't want to be considered a slut at all. Thanks for the advice
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Don't be mad or anything, but if i knew you and saw you all doing that i would probably end up calling you all sluts..I don't think you should be that wild when your at parties cause boys might think your easy and might try to get you to do something that you don't want to do.. hope i helped
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I would say yes, you are. I'm sorry but you need to calm down if it bothers you and change your behavior.
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Its not really slutty. But guys might take it that your easy, if your doing that. At your age little things like this make guys think your easy. But I personally don't consider you a slut.
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No, I would not have said it was slutty, just a little too frivolous perhaps, at 14. I remember that at 14, I would rather than have died that let a bunch of guys see me naked!!!!
I don't think you could be considered a slut, because you're not actually doing anything sexual with them. However, I want to warn you that if you make a habit of flashing them or letting them see you naked, you could end up in a very unfavourable situation, if one guy decides he wants what he can't have.
By all means, go out and have fun and if you're not pushing any more boundaries than this then feel free. Just make sure you're safe at the same time.
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If you're questioning yourself, then the situation does not feel right to you. If there was nothing wrong with it you would question yourself. The bottom line is you have to make a choice.
Ask yourself:
-Do I respect my self and my body?
-Do I want boys and other people to respect me and my body?
The choice is yours...Keep in my that your actions are causing people to make assumtions about you. The attention might be flattering and exciting in the moment, but later on if a boy wants to date you...
Will he want to date you for you, or for what he thinks you will do with him?
Always think ahead... and becareful with your body it's the only one you have.
I hope this helps.
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i wouldnt consider you a slut. your just having fun right? streaking and strip poker and stuff like taht isnt thaatt bad, just try not to take it to an extreme or get carried away because sad to say, your reputation is all you have these days. so if one person thinks your a slut, it could get carried to the next and the next. but still have fun your only 14 once rite lol mmk hope i helped you lots of luck
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I personally don't think that's slutty.
Your just having a good time, but other people, who are more conservative might think so. You should tone down on some things. But if you have fun doing, try doing it away from people who'd take it the wrong way.
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