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ok..well what HandyAndy27 said made me think..so timothy graduated last year from highschool and dosen't attend college, he has a job, his own apartment and car seem's he's got his life pretty mucg together...well think i started thinking about what andy said...i mean timothy wants me to move in right when i am 18 i won't even have money or anything to support myself but Timothy said he'll take care of that, that he'll take care of everything and that i don't need to worry. i mean thats great but i dont want his whole life to be centerd on me...i mean we love each ohter and i don't want that to happen to us you know? Timothy wants to be toegther as soon as possible, i mean he once said he would be mad at me if i went to college becasue that would make it longer till we could be toegther..but what kind of life will i have? Timothy works at some store like delivering things..is that the kind of life i'm going to have to live? i'm worried about my life too i mean how much will things chance if i move in with him? what kind of life will i have?

Tell him, if he really loved you he'd let you go to college, so you can get a really good job, and so you could help him support things.

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my mom really pisses me off. She always says something and then denies saying it. A few weeks ago she said I could get whatever I wanted for my graduation present, as long as its not too expensive(meaning over about 3$00 or so). I finally found what I want. A digital Camera. I showed her the webpage and now shes saying that she never said I could get a graduation present, when i KNOW she did! it makes me so f*kin mad! (sorry for the language) What should I do?

You should tell her to write it down like a "contract". So when she denies it you could show her, and make her sign it.


Good luck!

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HELP! i just got my period for the like the third time! is there any way that i can calculate when i'll get it next?

ILL RATE 5s!

♥ linds

Get a calender, and mark 28-32 days later.
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it might be a little weird but i think i might have multiple personalities. well at least one other. its not dangerous or anything but like, one time i found myself making dinner when the last time i checked, i was working in my office. im not the kind of person who zones out often but im worried about this. sometimes i dont remember writing in my journal and i find entrys. just a few words. or other times i find things in my bedroom rearranged and my most recent incident was i looked down and i had a totally different outfit on. this happens almost every other week.

could i possibly have another personality? what should i do?

You might have another personality.
You should go to the doctors.

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what do you all think about guys wearing bras.

one other question why do women always say bras are a pain to wear. I don't see why.

I think would be weird, they couldn't be shirtless, and show off their abs, if they did.


women wear bras, so when they move there breast don't "jiggle" and when you run, your breast might get "saggy".

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Ok, well I'm 14/f and I'm not sexually active at all... i don't even kiss guys (it's a personal choice). But I do crazy stuff with them if I'm at parties or soemthing.. like go streaking, flash them, haha play strip poker. It's just how the parties go. And it's not liek I do it alone, my best girlfriends all are in. Is this liek really slutty? Am i considered a slut? I mean I have fun and all, but I don't want to be considered a slut at all. Thanks for the advice

I personally don't think that's slutty.
Your just having a good time, but other people, who are more conservative might think so. You should tone down on some things. But if you have fun doing, try doing it away from people who'd take it the wrong way.

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I don't have caller ID. And this girl Alyssa keeps calling my house and saying stuff about me and being all rude. It really upsets me; she has been doing it on Wednesdays starting last week. She calls me a dirty whore and making fun or me and stuff. I don't know what to do. If it happens again I'm calling the police for harrassment. Is that the right thing to do?

I think first, you should ask her why she's calling you these things, if she doesn't answer you, and says all these things still, and continutes to call, call the police. It's wrong from someone to be harrassed at HOME.

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I do alot of things i regret, but I can't seem to forget them, and i'm trying to move past my mistakes but its hard. and i'm not sure what i'm doing anymore.

Talk it out!

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